email penpals - /soc/ (#33989850) [Archived: 1004 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: myGJ10Yk
5/26/2025, 6:52:52 PM No.33989850
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>ASL
>About
>Hobbies/Interests
>Why email?
>Looking for
>Not looking for
>Contact
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Anonymous ID: YDkYi/yZ
5/26/2025, 7:14:10 PM No.33989890
this shit never works. people are so mind rotted they forget about their burner email acc or never reply back.
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Anonymous ID: myGJ10Yk
5/26/2025, 7:15:00 PM No.33989895
ill go first!
>ASL
f/18/usa
>About
strange lass! i dont socialize very often, so i figured this might be good for me :)
i am undergoing self improvement. i am not a stereotypical improoover though... more of a bloomer (as opposed to a doomer) :)
>Hobbies/Interests
- reading. i honestly struggle to read for long periods of time (zoomer brain), but i am trying to get better! if you have any book recommendations please send then my way! im open to anything that isnt erotica lol.
- web development. nothing backend, just pretty website making! im still wrapping my head around a lot of css stuff... its very hard! my goal is to make a personal neocities as a replacement for social media.
- writing. im really bad at it but i love writing short stories!
- some other random stuff: scrolling through internet archive and other similar sites, animals, game development, abrahamic religions, reading wikipedia articles, video games.
>Why email?
i feel like texting is just so... brainless. its just... hey how are you. fine, hru? im okay wyd. I HATE IT
>Looking for
long term friends to send emails to each other about everything and nothing.
>Not looking for
romance, i dont feel im quite my ideal self yet.
sex.
>Contact
feralbearwoman@proton.me
Anonymous ID: wDaMgEc4
5/26/2025, 8:00:02 PM No.33989994
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4651D0EC-9EB7-4D93-A690-E42E505D2627
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>ASL
37/m/us
>Interests
deep house, trip hop, reggae, blues, funk, disco, breakbeat, soul, jazz, r&b, hip hop
>Other
cowboy bebop, samurai champloo, katamari damacy, jet set radio, fight club, neotokyo, 3rd strike, serial experiments lain, the matrix, machinarium, off
>Looking For
album sharing
album trading
>Not Looking For
voice/video chat
server/group chat
>Contact
djyrsa@gmail.com
Anonymous ID: hcu9lJv2
5/27/2025, 4:27:00 AM No.33991090
20250519_140504
20250519_140504
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>>33989850 (OP)
>ASL
30 M WestEU
>Orientation
mostly gay
>About me
I'm an androgynous NEET pensioner living in solitary confinement in a well equipped apartment in the middle of nowhere waiting for another cute boy/twink (maybe even a female) to change that. If you are
into computer / gaming, aquariums, plants, gardening, outdoor / nature and are shut in or antisocial we will likely have something in common. If you enjoy playing all night while cuddling and comforting
each other in between then you know the reality I want to archieve again. As a NEET I don't have a lot of money and am NOT a provider either or looking for such a relationship. My own existance is in
general very eventless, which also means no responsibilities, except those I choose for myself.
>Physical
1.70, 68 KG, Long brown curly hair, little body hair, boyish / feminine statue (not looking like a 30 yo but that is my actual age)
>Looking for
Another androgynous / feminine male or even female that is mentally matching and intrigued by the above. Being a NEET is not a must but don't bother if you never have time. Be honest with what you are
and what you seek for from the beginning on. I'm prepared to house someone theoretically indefinitely as long as you contribute to your own costs and have resolved your own life problems already
(Minimum: Basic income for self sustainment + Health insurance = Not dysfunctional - I have been through this with my ex bf so I know why I require these). We can have permanent holidays together,
possibly even travel with the D-Ticket for camping / hiking in the future. You could also help me to make the second garden usable in order to have a dedicated personal outdoor area (if you are into
physical exercise).
Anonymous ID: hcu9lJv2
5/27/2025, 4:27:35 AM No.33991092
20250516_180650
20250516_180650
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>>33989850 (OP)
It is unlikely to find a lifetime partner but a lasting FWB is the minimum required for anything sexual / romantic, otherwise these are not a must but also mean that if we ever met you would sleep on the
couch. Someone to cuddle would be a priority but not a must, as it can't be forced. But keep in mind that it requires mutual physical attraction, otherwise any new contacts to spend time with (virtual or
real) are welcomed. It would be optimal if you were wanting to voice/videochat if we get along, we could do it practically any time when I'm not asleep.
>Not looking for
Dickpics, masculine men wanting sex, fakes, spam, dysfunctional individuals seeking for all inclusive provider, gender issues (cutting off body parts or feeling "discriminated" by any minor thing)
>Contact
endzeitromantik @ emailn . eu

(I have Telegram, Steam and Discord - Write a proper introduction why you want to get in contact with me)
Anonymous ID: WuAHJ7tA
5/28/2025, 12:57:07 AM No.33993287
I've sent like five mails to people and they never reply
Anonymous ID: YfLS4WLx
5/28/2025, 3:12:15 AM No.33993499
>>33989890
Email is a good filter. Makes you wonder who's replying on 4chan. Maybe time to make friends on a higher iq site.
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Anonymous ID: s+2PPh3w
5/28/2025, 3:48:57 AM No.33993579
>>33993499
i added my email contact to two of these threads but my email was misconfigured and they probably got dropped T_T
Anonymous ID: BtZuMk4e
5/29/2025, 7:41:40 PM No.33997909
>>33997897
wtf she's blue now
Anonymous ID: TAQIg6m5
5/30/2025, 6:08:49 AM No.33999286
28 year old male from brazil
it is sometimes funny to use nouns as verbs
nothing useful
email is cool
time wasted
too much drama
textscathes@proton.me
Anonymous ID: 0s28eb41
5/30/2025, 10:33:19 PM No.34000930
cap_[Ohys-Raws] 05. Welcome To Counseling!_00_04_17_26 - kopia
This sort of thing never works out, but I'll try again anyway.
>ASL
31/M/Sweden.
>Hobbies/Interests
I don't think shared interests and hobbies matter are that important and I'm open to discussing anything. That said, I play go, shogi, and chess, like anime and visual novels, and spend most of my time studying mathematics and history of ideas.
>Why email?
I find instant messaging too time-consuming and low quality. I'd rather just read/send a well-written email every few weeks/months.
>Looking for
Other people who like using email.
>Not looking for
Romance, ERPing etc.
>Contact
eno@waifu.club
Anonymous ID: drWUr8Dl
5/31/2025, 12:07:25 AM No.34001157
kot
kot
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>ASL
27/f/usa
>About
Normal, functioning adult with a job and a few friends. Unfortunately, my friends and I don't have a lot of overlap in terms of common interests and they are very offline so I still come here to scratch that itch. I like watching horror movies (usually older stuff from the 80s or 90s), reading (finishing up Anna Karenina- I want to get more into Russian lit), listening to music, hiking and touching grass, etc. I want to learn more about history. I used to be into true crime.
>Why email?
Messaging back and forth can make me anxious, especially when it's a new person.
>Looking for
Someone to talk to. Tell me about your day or things you are interested in. I like learning about new things, especially if it's related to history. Bonus if you like to talk about yourself because I'm nosy. Please type legibly.
>Not looking for
Uhh I don't know. I won't take it personally if you think I'm boring and don't want to talk to me anymore. I'd rather not talk to someone who will take it very personally if I am no longer interested in keeping a correspondence.
>Contact
figtoast@protonmail.com
Anonymous ID: knSO7lsB
5/31/2025, 12:10:01 AM No.34001167
you can use something else and just acknowledge you'll both send messages when ya get to it
Anonymous ID: yNgTDXcs
5/31/2025, 2:44:07 AM No.34001466
pain
pain
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>ASL
26/m/US

>About
Recent NEET escapee. I have become fitpilled recently (hitting the gym, eating well, overall improoover like OP) as well as reuniting with my hobbies, which I would like to nerd about to anyone that shares my interests.
>Hobbies/Interests
- Anything tech related is a huge yes for me. From cybersecurity, to web development, DIY hardware stuff...just to name a few
- Reading is something I would like to do more of. I have recently finished "The Dictionary of Body Language", and I would love recommendations of any similar reads, even tangentially related, that break down human psychology down to its basics.
- Big into music, so I would like to exchange songs and artists of different genres to expand our repertoire.
- Back to playing piano. Still a noob, but can almost play Wet Hands (Minecrafts main theme)

>Why email?
Anything modern "social" media or chatting platform is just too distracting, and I have been going down the digital minimalist rabbit hole lately

>Looking for
Nerds, other improoovers, fun people that like questioning things

>Not looking for
Romance, bpdemons

>Contact
penpals.u3bzu@silomails.com
Anonymous ID: HiErJR0x
5/31/2025, 6:56:46 PM No.34002961
>>33989890
not with that attitude, that's for sure
Anonymous ID: Ty8NRhY3
6/3/2025, 4:43:53 PM No.34011306
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>ASL
27/M/USA
>About
I am currently a NEET, but trying to change that(looking for jobs and I might go back to school). I'm a very lonely person and I have a lot of trouble interacting face to face, but email is okay for me.
>Hobbies/Interests
-I spend most of my time reading and watching movies. I do some writing, but it's all bad.
-I like birds and birdwatching
-Not much else, really. I browse the internet a lot.
>Why email?
IM/DIscord/whatever else all seem so impersonal to me. I like the idea of slower communication through longer messages.
>Looking for
Mainly someone with shared interests, or at least an appreciation of the aspects of life that many consider mundane. I don't really care about age or gender.
>Not looking for
Someone that wants to talk through other apps right away. I really do prefer email.
>Contact
derangedhorse@protonmail.com
Anonymous ID: MAlskvka
6/4/2025, 5:25:33 AM No.34012920
Takeo_manga
Takeo_manga
md5: b0928399177b7ccada97e7bbaafda661๐Ÿ”
Not writing an entire paragraph, just some dude on the internet looking to shoot shit with a penpal.

Send an email my way if you'd like to learn more.
saucemaster2000@proton.me
Anonymous ID: HL8IiBlR
6/4/2025, 5:33:44 AM No.34012933
No matter what sort of post I write, the interest from the other party will be directed not at "me", but to the words I have written. I seem to expect that I will some day come upon a specific combination of unicode characters within which my entire self is neatly circumscribed, and the minutia of my personality, beliefs, and appearance perfectly delineated. The picture would be so exact that, although all who read it would be repulsed immediately, anyone who is not would accept me wholly. The fact that this is impossible never fails to cross my mind.
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Anonymous ID: WuAHJ7tA
6/4/2025, 6:39:05 AM No.34013044
>>34012933
You're your words. If your words don't reflect you it's because you're unable to express yourself successfully, which is a *you* problem.
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Anonymous ID: HL8IiBlR
6/4/2025, 10:10:22 PM No.34014616
>>34013044
I don't think so.
But if you want, I would like you to write the perfect reflection of yourself in a 4chan post. Regardless of your success, it would be good for you to advertise yourself and it would be interesting for me to see.
Anonymous ID: JMc2+NQt
6/5/2025, 10:41:07 AM No.34016118
Looking for an emotional support penpal
>ASL
31/M/USA
>About
Long time loner, social anxiety sufferer, and (trying to be) a forrmer closeted degenerate who rediscovered their christian faith and is trying to live a good life. I've been told that I'm kind, thoughtful, and patient. Overall dealt a shit hand in life , but trying to make the most of it. I work nights and am stuck at home during the day.
>Hobbies/Interests
I love working out, watching anime (favs: Urusei Yatsura, Gintama, and hxh), and playing games (souls-likes, retro games, and strategy). Favorite music is mostly Japanese and Korean pop and rock music (Zutomayo, Ano, maisondes, Twice, Kep1er, Le Sserafim) as well as classic rock, metal, grunge and blues. I also play the guitar (poorly)
>Why email?
I like having time to think out my response, instead of sitting there feeling pressured to respond.
>Looking for
Someone who feels broken like me and wants to share their struggles, successes, feelings, and random thoughts. I'm willing to talk about almost anything. You vent to me, and I'll vent to you. All genders, nationalities, and ages welcome, except minors. Hoping to send emails once or twice a week, but more or less frequent is fine with me
>Open to
Romance, but not actively looking for it. I have a lot going on in life and don't want to drag someone into that. If it happens, it'll have to happen slowly. If that's your main goal, I'm not your guy. Fyi I'm only into women, so if you're a guy it will never happen
>Not looking for
Children. People who have no intention of sending a second email. Anyone looking for sex or romance immediately (I'll assume you're trying to scam me)

>Contact
flexypoo@proton.me
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Anonymous ID: JMc2+NQt
6/5/2025, 10:50:42 AM No.34016144
>>34016118
I forgot to mention, I've been meaning to read more, but don't know where to start. If you're a bookworm and want someone to discuss a book with tell me and I'll read it along with you. I've mostly liked non-fiction, fantasy, and sci-fi in the past, but I'm open to trying whatever.
Anonymous ID: 8RK+NhMY
6/6/2025, 11:45:05 AM No.34018747
>ASL
19/M/USA
>About
Mostly average guy, a little socially awkward. Probably undiagnosed autist.
>Hobbies/Interests
Theology, music (I collect vinyls and CDs), motorsports, reading, writing.
>Why email?
I've grown really tired of traditional social media platforms. I want to connect intimately with people, and form deep relationships.
>Looking for
Just about anybody who thinks they'd get along with me. People who are optimistic about life, or want to be optimistic about life.
>Not looking for
Nobody in particular, all I ask is that you really commit to writing back on any sort of regular basis.
>Contact
josh.hcce@gmail.com
Anonymous ID: 7w2/IFM5
6/6/2025, 3:32:17 PM No.34019072
28 / F / Domme
Elegant, exacting, and endlessly enticing. Iโ€™m seeking a serious, obedient submissive gent whoโ€™s craving real controlโ€”kink, discipline, and devotion included. Online or IRL, if you're ready to serve with intent, Iโ€™ll make sure you never forget who you belong to.

Kik : GoddessofloveDiane
Anonymous ID: C7idagl+
6/9/2025, 3:54:35 PM No.34027872
MeAndU
MeAndU
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>>33989850 (OP)
>ASL
18/f/eu
>About
The two most relevant things about me are that I draw and have comically terrible psychomotor skills
>Hobbies/Interests
I like making art and looking at other people's art. And yes videogames and manga are art!! I also read every now and then
>Why email?
It's less vapid than texting. Imagine having a discord relationship...
>Looking for
People that are passionate about moe or videogames
>Not looking for
North Americans. People that are not passionate about moe or videogames
>Contact
theworldforgetting_bytheworldforgot@proton.me
Ximirun ID: TAJeG9Gb
6/10/2025, 3:47:03 AM No.34029693
Woah email thread for the first time~
20s, M, SEA
Videogames, reading, youtube, sleep.

A neet whose honest kindhearted, rebeliously lazy by nature, wisdom > intelect, treat everyone the same as stranger regardless of your status.

If you are afraid of my words, then I'm a double faced, then again I'm a liar. Whose to say this is not a poem/poetry of gibberish origin.

Staying low, love the old fashion of writing like a letter. If I had a chance I would legit write a letter to send it to someone I know.

I would love to chat about life since I have lots of free time but at the same time not too deep or I get tired easily. No jerks or romance.

Szhemoreio (ampersat) tutanota . Com

I will check this thread for a few days then I'm out,
Shinpai shinjite ore wa will reply to your redundancy, baka~
Anonymous ID: qROrlAte
6/10/2025, 5:23:38 AM No.34029849
email-2
email-2
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>ASL
33/M
>About
Functional adult. Lonely. Smart and stubborn enough to solo life without a walkthrough, but too emotionally stunted or mentally deficient to know how to make relationships with others (a skill that most children are capable of). Kind of a pathetic wretch at times, and a snarky shitposter at other times.
>Hobbies Interests
Weeb, tech, other stuff. I do odd things but aren't interested enough to any of them to consider them hobbies. I planted some plants but I'm not really a gardener, I ran some electrical wiring in the house but it's not like I know my way around a power tool, I know my way in the kitchen but isn't that just an essential life skill? I guess I don't really identify with any sort of hobby or interest.
>Why email?
Why not? I prefer something more "live" but discord sucks and I generally think the type of people who post in these threads tend to be higher caliber, at least more thoughtful and treat others less "disposably"
>Looking for
Meaningful connection with someone special. I have good male friends so I'm predisposed towards the fairer sex since that void remains unfilled.
>Not looking for
Not really sure. I think the type of people you typically don't want tend to be the ones who message you anyway, aren't they?
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Anonymous ID: xfJIVlve
6/10/2025, 1:07:41 PM No.34030674
>>34012933
>No matter what sort of post I write, the interest from the other party will be directed not at "me", but to the words I have written. I seem to expect that I will some day come upon a specific combination of unicode characters within which my entire self is neatly circumscribed
so why communicate via writing at all? did you know in the real world people start whole relationships with meaningless, imperfect small talk?
>the fact that this is impossible never fails to cross my mind.
cool. so what to do now?

>>34029849
>I have good male friends so I'm predisposed towards the fairer sex since that void remains unfilled.
so is female just a preference or are you not interested in making male friends at all?
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Anonymous ID: qROrlAte
6/10/2025, 2:21:53 PM No.34030781
>>34030674
Yeah I wasn't very clear. I'd say I'm actively interested in one, and just passively interested in the other. That's just being honest. I try to respond to what comes in regardless and maybe we click and maybe we don't
Anonymous ID: xfJIVlve
6/11/2025, 7:51:05 AM No.34033020
bump
Anonymous ID: HL8IiBlR
6/11/2025, 2:09:40 PM No.34033630
>>34030674
>so why communicate at all
There was a dialgoue written by Plato in which the nature of happiness was discussed at length. Among other good quotes was this one
>You do not convince me, Socrates, for the one who has filled himself has no longer any pleasure left; and this, as I was just now saying, is the life of a stone: he has neither joy nor sorrow after he is once filled; but the pleasure depends on the superabundance of the influx.
Callicles means to say that temperance and satisfaction are like a sort of death; When one becomes satisfied and needs no more, it as if they are no longer living. Thus living is the continuous pleasure that comes from comes from fulfilling one's desires, likened to the endless filling of a leaky casket, and not, as Socrates argues, the fullness of the casket. In our analogy, this pointless writing that does not convey anything meaningful is the same as a glutton's eating and drinking, a "cormorant" as Socrates says; The words form the superabundance of the influx which pleasures him. Contrarily, Socrates would argue that true happiness would come not from this continual outpouring of emotion, but contentment with being "unknown." (The word "contentment" stems from the Latin "contentus" meaning roughly "contained" and fits neatly into the analogy) I feel that giving up on this outpouring and inpouring of emotion would be like a sort of death. My wish is contradictory in that I seek to gain contenment through the filling-up up with something that by nature cannot become contained. Perhaps I feel that I will find someone that will mend the container for me, and thereby become content.

Regardless, this post does an excellent job of demonstrating what I mean. In 2,000 characters, I have said no more than "it is cathartic," three words that convey perfectly the meaning of this post. Then, does this post function as an affectation, or does it explain what kind of person I am? A pseudointellectual, a fool, a loser? I do not know.
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Xiao ID: TAJeG9Gb
6/12/2025, 7:03:23 AM No.34035728
>>34033630
Haiya~ this is like saying one day I want a partner who is perfect for me.
Goodluck with that.

However keep in mind this world is not perfect so curb that expectation, be aware of the risk so you can stay calm if it happens one day.
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Anonymous ID: xfJIVlve
6/12/2025, 12:25:47 PM No.34036367
>>34033630
TL;DR
Anonymous ID: HL8IiBlR
6/12/2025, 4:29:44 PM No.34036738
>>34035728
That's very true in a sense. I also think the implication that one must be deceptive to be accepted by someone else without rejection is unfortunate. I hate the reality that so many must conceal parts of themselves to receive something as "freely" given as love or even acceptance, but of course I am no authority on love by any means.

This topic has reached its natural end, but here are some verses from a poem that I liked (Ginerva):
>Friend, if earthly violence or ill,
>Suspicion, doubt, or the tyrannic will
>Of parents, chance or custom, time or change,
>Or circumstance, or terror, or revenge,
>Or wildered looks, or words, or evil speech,
>With all their stings and venom can impeach
>Our love,โ€”we love not:โ€”if the grave which hides
>The victim from the tyrant, and divides
>The cheek that whitens from the eyes that dart
>Imperious inquisition to the heart
>That is anotherโ€™s, could dissever ours, We love not.โ€™
Which reflect my maybe unrealistic sentiments. Good luck to you, too.
Anonymous ID: HL8IiBlR
6/12/2025, 4:32:46 PM No.34036744
>>34035728
That's very true in a sense. I also think the implication that one must be deceptive to be accepted by someone else without rejection is unfortunate. I hate the reality that so many must conceal parts of themselves to receive something as "freely" given as love or even acceptance, but of course I am no authority on love by any means.

This topic has reached its natural end, but here are some verses from a poem that I liked (Ginevra):
>Friend, if earthly violence or ill,
>Suspicion, doubt, or the tyrannic will
>Of parents, chance or custom, time or change,
>Or circumstance, or terror, or revenge,
>Or wildered looks, or words, or evil speech,
>With all their stings and venom can impeach
>Our love,โ€”we love not:โ€”if the grave which hides
>The victim from the tyrant, and divides
>The cheek that whitens from the eyes that dart
>Imperious inquisition to the heart
>That is anotherโ€™s, could dissever ours, We love not.โ€™
Which reflect my maybe unrealistic sentiments. Good luck to you, too.
Anonymous ID: D71yq99Q
6/12/2025, 9:44:04 PM No.34037435
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IRKUkVPAdHRO
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Feeling a bit bored today... anyone wanna brighten my day? cccxyy.847
Anonymous ID: jw/kHlp0
6/13/2025, 2:07:02 AM No.34037973
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dbkwqw5Pjzxc
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Let's chat and see where things go... I don't disappoint. cccxyy.847