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have you ever been a target of mobbing because of your boob sizes?

Women, would you ever consider becoming the keyholder to a guy you’re in a serious relationship with? Basically, he’d be locked in a chastity device and give you the key, meaning he would only be out of the device when you want him to be out. Would you be into this or would it be too much responsibility?

To any women here, how's a man supposed to win your heart? I've tried the whole nice guy approach but I keep getting ghosted, cucked or let down.

Any and all info helps, thanks

Why do women agree to repeatedly hang out with men they feel so unsafe around that they won't do it without another man present even after years?

Invited a girl I knew for years to a friend group event, she agreed then brought her "this is not a date" friend along without asking and sat there with him the entire time leaving me wandering around alone. Even a woman I knew who is a very outspoken feminist came to me after she left to call her an inconsiderate cunt.

>>33995213
Man here, yes.

>>33995187 (OP)
Imagine using this Atoga when you could be using the one without IDs

>>33996171
The IDs have their uses. For one, people are less inclined to shitpost all thread when people can easily track their entire thread activity. Two, makes it easier to keep track of who you're having a conversation with.

>>33995662
Look for specific kink communities in your area. Chastity isn't as much of a deal to people who are out-and-about kinksters. Probably have more luck.

>>33995771
Be genuine. When you say "nice guy approach" it sounds like you're putting on a character of being nice for the specific purpose of getting (tricking?) a woman into liking you.
Inauthenticity is extremely easy to pick up, especially when women are already on edge in the dating world because of fuckboys and the like. It's cliche but "be yourself" tends to be the best option. Don't worry about being the perfect guy you'd see in a romcom. Be you, be kinda weird and quirky, be silly, enjoy the things you like without shame. You're not going to vibe with EVERYone, but if you're your most genuine self then anyone you meet will be into the real you. Instead of you having to keep up a persona for years after.

Inb4 "women hate the real me"
It's probably insecurity. Women don't dislike insecure men because they're not alpha chad bros. Women dislike insecure men because they're unstable and unpredictable, and that's not an energy you want close to you. Find ways to build your confidence: go to therapy, work on self-help hobbies (style, grooming, working out, anything you want if it makes you truly feel good), find things that make you happier with yourself and you'll become much more approachable.

>>33995807
Depends on the person. Women aren't a monolith.
But to generalize, women will always feel some level of unsafe around men. It's just the world we live in. I can't speak to why she specifically brought a friend and didn't engage with the rest of the group, it could be that security or she could've just been shy, introverted, autistic, or some combination of the three.
But I really can't say for sure without knowing literally everything about you, your group, and her.

>>33997095
>Women aren't a monolith.
>women will always feel some level of unsafe around men.
This isn't true, stop trying to guilt people for being male.

>>33995807
>Why do women agree to repeatedly hang out with men they feel so unsafe around that they won't do it without another man present even after years?
The excitement of being with that type of partner outweighs the fear they feel around them. The femanon who replied to you knows this but is too cowardly to state it openly, because it contradicts her feminist ideology and need for perpetual victimhood. You're welcome

Also, for all the retarded loser males who are just going to respond asking "how do I talk to women" (since that's all these threads ever are), stop putting them on a pedestal, see them as human beings first and foremost and stop obsessing over which role you're supposed to play while interacting with them, because those roles are meaningless. Same advice to the femanons for interacting with men, though you're far less likely to listen.

>>33997153
Nobody is saying you have to feel bad for being a guy. Just read the fucking room.

If someone has been bitten by a dog, they're going to fear dogs. Even if you have the snuggliest, most adorable dog on the planet. It still has teeth, and they're still going to be cautious.

Women deal with men being weird and creepy before they hit double digits. Most women have direct experience with straight up sexual harassment or sexual assault.

Sorry you're at a disadvantage because of all the other shithead guys out there, but that's the hand you've been dealt. But a good first step is to recognize that "women are wary of me because of the patriarchy" is nothing compared to "men feel entitled to my body because of the patriarchy"
If you're actually wanting to understand women and their perspective (which is the entire point of this thread btw), then actually try to empathetically engage with them and what they're going through. Listen to what they talk about, what they complain about, don't call them liars and manipulaters when they try to explain where they're coming from.

The second half of your post is the most misogynistic incel shit I've seen today. If you're really taking women's caution and anger personally, then maybe that's a sign to change yourself, man.

>>33997180
Good, yes. Women are just people.
The "far less likely to listen" at the end is weird for no reason, but the rest is solid advice.
Be confident in yourself, work to be better if you're not confident yet, see women as people and not deities OR sex objects.

>>33997620
>If you're actually wanting to understand women and their perspective (which is the entire point of this thread btw)
ok but this thread is a terrible place to actually do that. most answers here are lies told by individual posters to make themselves or their "side" look morally superior. asking someone who has a track record for honesty and thoughtfulness has a much better chance of yielding useful information than asking anons on 4chan.

Do butt plugs cause constipation?

>>33997620
>The "far less likely to listen" at the end is weird for no reason,
No it isn't, but I'm not surprised it went over your head.

Hello Females, A friend(?) said she needed time to think things over after a big argument months ago. I reached out again about 2 weeks ago and didn't get a reply. Is it over for me?

>>33997095
I’m not looking for anyone, I was asking women in the thread what they would do in the scenario I brought up. Maybe I wasn’t clear enough in my post.

>>33995662
No. This feels like the first step to trooning out

>>33995771
Be self-sufficient, be truthful, have a sense of humour, understand boundaries, maintain a sense of self even while dating, have the same politics/worldviews as me, want a similar future to me, and then we have to have chemistry, too. It isn't an easy feat and it shouldn't be taken personally when it doesn't work out. 50% of marriages end in divorce! Think about how many relationships end, and you'll often have an even lower success rate when it comes to just getting to that first date or whatever

>>33995807
>invite woman to a friend group activity
>she brings a friend as well to the group activity
>you somehow had no one else to talk to at this group activity
>this is somehow this woman's fault

>>33997620
>The "far less likely to listen" at the end is weird for no reason
You know the reason lol

>>33997620
Nobody is saying you have to feel bad for being black. Just read the fucking room.

If someone has been bitten by a dog, they're going to fear dogs. Even if you have the snuggliest, most adorable dog on the planet. It still has teeth, and they're still going to be cautious.

White people deal with blacks being aggressive and violent before they hit double digits. Many whites have direct experience with straight up sexual harassment or robbery from blacks.

Sorry you're at a disadvantage because of all the other shithead blacks out there, but that's the hand you've been dealt. But a good first step is to recognize that "white people are wary of me because of my skin tone" is nothing compared to "blacks feel entitled to my property because of racism"
If you're actually wanting to understand white people and their perspective (which is the entire point of this thread btw), then actually try to empathetically engage with them and what they're going through. Listen to what they talk about, what they complain about, don't call them liars and racists when they try to explain where they're coming from.

The second half of your post is the most white-hating nigger shit I've seen today. If you're really taking white people’s caution and anger personally, then maybe that's a sign to change yourself, nigger.

Good, yes. Whites are just people.
The "far less likely to listen" at the end is weird for no reason, but the rest is solid advice.
Be confident in yourself, work to be better if you're not confident yet, see whites as people and not oppressors OR ATMs.

Girl I took out a while ago messages me recently, we hit it off again, say availability then it goes dead conversation. She messages me again the otherday, I respond open and no response? I don't care because I'm not that interested but what is the intention there? Opens conversation then cuts off and ignores again. Really intrigued why.

>>33997819
You really thought this was clever, huh

>>33998244
The logic is exactly the same, it's not my fault if feminists are too dishonest to admit that

>>33998259
No, it's not, you retard. The large majority of violence by black people is done to other black people, same as the large majority of violence by white people is done to other white people. The large majority of violence against women is caused by men, not women. It isn't even close to the same

>>33998305
Still doesn't justify shaming men for existing, "retard"

>>33998315
If you had any reading comprehension at all, you would know it doesn't shame men for merely existing. Also nice moving the goalposts!

>>33998357
Shaming men for existing is all feminism is ultimately about. Rethink your worldview, for your sake rather than mine, then maybe you can work through some of your tremendous bitterness

>>33998357
Oh btw I was referring to this part of ypur post:
>The large majority of violence by black people is done to other black people, same as the large majority of violence by white people is done to other white people. The large majority of violence against women is caused by men, not women
I still don't agree with you that the logic is different, because it isn't

>>33998367
That isn't what it's about at all, and I'm not bitter lmao
>>33998374
Whites being afraid of blacks doesn't make sense as a parallel here because the large majority of crime done to whites is done by whites, whereas the large majority of crime done to women is done by men. Does this help you see that it doesn't work as a comparison now?

>>33998434
>That isn't what it's about at all
Yes it is
>I'm not bitter
Yes you are

>the large majority of crime done to women is done by men.
Assuming that very questionable statement is even true, my point is that it's ridiculous to ask people to atone for abuses they didn't commit simply because they share the offender's gender, an attitude which is implicit in feminism (and of which the other femanon's posts positively reeked of, despite their weird attempt to pretend otherwise). If black Americans commit violent crimes at a higher rate than whites, you wouldn't tell black Americans that they should self-reflect and be more tolerant and understanding of white American's racism against them, because that would be fucking retarded.

Also I find it amusing that you changed it from "violence" to "crime" after accusing me of "moving the goalposts"

>>33997822
I have literally no idea either

>>33995187 (OP)
Is pic rel on the right true? Where do you fall? (You already know where I'm at....)

>>33998498
>Yes it is
>Yes you are
Wrong twice, fag

>Assuming that very questionable statement is even true
What's questionable about it other than you being a complete racist? Almost all violent crime (which is what I'm using violence and crime interchangeably for by the way, not mOvInG tHe GoAlPoStS like you want to throw back in my face, tard) is committed by people close to one another, so it's easy to understand why it stays within racial communities. Not so easy for you, though, apparently

>it's ridiculous to ask people to atone for abuses they didn't commit
Again, no one has asked you to do this. Being okay that your friend brought a friend to a gathering so she would know a second person isn't "being asked to atone for abuses" lmao. How pathetic and dramatic can someone be?

>>33998635
>Is pic rel on the right true?
Why don't you check the sources on the bottom yourself and tell us, genius

>>33997822
she is talking to you when none of her other options are responding to keep you on the hook in case she has nothing better to do some day in the future or you become the best option she has left and gets a little ego boost when you keep responding despite her ignoring you. Typical young woman behavior, best to block her

recently came into strife with her due to conflicting base worldviews. she forgoes any social instinct, essentially saying it's all an exploitative web of empty pleasantries; and that our relationship is the only pure and worthy connection. i agree, but rebut that it's a necessary effort: as overt detachment causes not only logistic problems of all kinds, but a dissolution of the self-image. i understand that it is far more vital for me, on an instinctual level, to have some degree of a social anchor than it is to her, who would much rather hoard all the things we need and be secluded far, far away. could any person (male, too) feeling similarly expand on their reasoning or sentiment? unfortunately, this subject is particularly difficult for her to touch upon -- this is, i believe, the 7th time we've talked about the same thing but in separate occasion

>>33999086
Yeah I'll just ignore her, she's mid anyway and not that good. She asked me out, I took her out, was unimpressed, never got around to a second date because I was busy and it wasn't important. Pops up to me randomly despite it being 2 year ago. I'll ignore her now, I think this is clear and it's what many have told me. Just found it odd she'd make all the moves and then ignore.... then do it twice.

How do I take a good selfie or photo that women would actually like? I'm really bad at photos and don't really take pictures of myself anyway but I need one for a dating app

>>34001023
dating app photos should be:
>abs at the beach or hiking or something where having shirt off is normal
>photo with friends showing how much taller and more attractive you are then they are
>1-2 thirst traps: dogs, cooking, etc
>1-2 travel photos in instagram hot spots: paris, machu picchu, japan, etc.
you shouldnt have any selfies

>>34001216
>you shouldnt have any selfies
I think this is vastly underappreciated advice. There are very, very few people who look as good in selfies as they do in pictures others take of them, and having somebody else willing to photograph you subtly shows you have friends (or that you can be polite enough to strangers to ask them to take one of you).

>>33998721
There's basically nothing in this post worth commenting on, but:

>accuses someone of being racist immediately after calling them a "fag"
Come on anon, this is just poor form.

>>33995819
cause moobs are not normal, but what about the females? is titty envy a real thing?

>>34002339
NTA, but there are pros and cons of different tits sizes. Big breasts are attractive, but there is back pain potential + you're perceived as 'vulgar' when wearing certain clothes that wouldn't be seen as vulgar if your chest was smaller. Doing sport is also uncomfortable somewhat I believe. When you're flat there are plenty of clothes that are too wide in chest area, especially dresses. I feel like flat girls might feel bad about their chest because in the end it's seen as less desired trait compared to big chest. Don't think average-size tits owners have any strong feelings about it tho, I have B-C cup tits and they feel just right

>>34002572
i get the physical problems and the self worth thing. its like with dick sizes. but do girls bully other girls because of it? like calling a big tittied girl (btg) a slut just cause she has big boobs or laughing about a flat chested girl cause she doesnt wears bras or something? i know that the boys can be assholes toward btg showing to much attention and making jokes, but what about the girls?

Where to meet a girl? I live in a small town in Europe. There are no events

>>33997095
Just wanna say everything between
>Be genuine
and
>more approachable
was top shelf advice. Authenticity is so important; different people like different things, but nobody likes a phony. Nothing improved my success with women more than settling into who I was, being unapologetically myself, and adopting the policy of "I come as is."

To be fair, however, I think a big part of why so many men struggle with this is how modern society so readily tries to penalize us for being ourselves. As one example, as a woman, you'll never understand the relationship men have with human resources; you don't have to be constantly mindful of the context, possible context, ways the context could be distorted, and audience of every single thing you say and do in the workplace.
>women will always feel some level of unsafe around men
I acknowledge there's plenty of valid and practical reasons for this, but in the post-Obama years I definitely feel like a lot of the fear is manufactured, exaggerated, disingenuous and performative, especially in public settings.

>>33997680
I dunno. Pop one in, binge on PF Chang's and Taco Bell, and give us an update.

>>33997751
I'm not a woman, but what was the argument about?

>>33998244
I think it's clever enough to make a point.

>>33998305
>The large majority of violence by black people is done to other black people
This is one of those lies propagated by the left that is irreconcilable with lived experience or the raw data; per the Office of Justice Programs, "Black offenders chose white victims in 63.9 percent of robberies, 51.8 percent of assaults, and 58.6 percent of rapes. In contrast, white offenders chose black victims in 8.3 percent of robberies, 2.7 percent of assaults, and 5.5 percent of rapes."

Simple question, so give me a simple answer: is discrimination acceptable? No ad hominem, no deflection, no taking your ball and going home because you've found yourself in a conversation you don't control; just a "yes" or a "no."

>>33998635
>Is pic rel on the right true?
No. Pic related.

>>33997822
>>33999793
Her thoughts when it comes to you can be summarized thusly: "In need of validation? Break glass."

>>34001216
This anon speaks the truth. The only thing I'd add is maybe be a little less predictable with those hot spots; Paris and Machu Picchu might as well be background noise at this point. Japan is awesome though, whole country is one big photo-op.

>>34002288
I don't want to jump to conclusions, but I believe they may be arguing in bad faith.

>>34002765
Is there a reason you can't move somewhere with a pulse?

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My Kik: esmeegaatmee

women anons; when you find yourself in a groove of casual flirting with a guy would you typically give him your number if he asked? or is your net for fun flirting wider than wants more

>>33997751
What did you argue about? You posted this in the last thread.

>>34003548
Yes I did, I still miss her a lot. We argued about a potential relationship not working out. Our love languages were completely different which made me have some subconscious resentment regarding the whole situation. I shouldn't have brought it up because we just weren't compatible. I'm mentally ill (lol) so things got way more dramatic than they needed to be

>>33998635
This is completely delusional. The only part that might be true is there might be some women who don't have sex at all, but that's by choice. Other than that, the image on the left is accurate.

>>34003805
>We argued about a potential relationship not working out
>I shouldn't have brought it up because we just weren't compatible
That's rough. It sounds like boundaries and a dynamic were established, you tried to renegotiate those boundaries, and now she doesn't trust you to respect them. In other words, she's not attracted to you *and* you make her feel unsafe. I think it's safe to say it's over. It sucks, but try to learn from this. If you end up in a woman's friendzone, it's because she only sees you as a friend. Seems obvious enough, right? And yet, time and time again, dudes make it weird by trying to kindle some hidden spark that more often than not simply isn't there. Attraction is rarely subtle, it never needs to be nurtured, or convinced, or negotiated. If a girl doesn't throw it at you, and you settle into that "he's just a friend" frame, there's a sort of unspoken agreement that you're not gonna make it weird. You made it weird. Now it's weird.

I hope that makes sense.

>>34003151
>somewhere with a pulse
NTA but what kinds of event would be considered as a good setting for courting or just meeting up...

>>34004305
The argument was more about the fact that I felt like she led me on, I thought I moved past it because we were just friends for about 3-4 months. I have no idea why I even decided bring up how I felt months later, the fact is we were never going to be compatible because we were so different, in a romantic sense. I'm fine with not dating but I genuinely do miss her friendship which sucks. I've addressed my resentment in therapy and feel like I'm truly moved on now but it definitely seems too late.

>>34004518
>Festivals
Everyone is there to ostensibly celebrate something, but mostly to have a good time.
>Sporting events
While at the game, walking to the game, or tailgating before or after the game, if you see a girl repping the same team as you, that's your in! Is she repping the away team? Might have to be open to something short-term or long-distance, but the banter writes itself. Go Sportsball!
>Conventions
More and more girls attend these things every year, and they're all into the same shit that you are.

>>34005586
>I felt like she led me on
If she did, that's rough. Trying to make a friendship work between a man and a woman when either party is attracted to the other is extremely difficult, due in no small part to so many women not understanding how unfair it is for them to flirt, tease, and give hope after setting that boundary. I say walk away, and if she wants to reach out down the road make a judgment call how/if you want to respond then, but for no just let it go and move on with your life.

>>34003805
>love languages
Also, does anyone know how over the past few years a half-baked idea by a baptist pastor became gospel in relationship discourse? Is it the zoomers with their TikkyTokkies to blame?

>>33995187 (OP)
Bio F, I'm realizing I am not physically interested in sex with men. I still generally like and befriend men and like spending time with them. But the thought of having sex with one is alien and somewhat repulsive to me. I don't feel this way physically about women but I don't like spending time with them.

>>34005834
Did you have a question?

>>34005859
yeah, what does this indicate?

>>34005879
It indicates that you are autistic. Next.

>>34005879
You're asexual, or at least in the process of figuring out your sexuality. Doesn't seem that complicated.

It's me, the dude from the other thread who went on that date but the girl saw our goals on different paths. I didn't text her for two weeks, mainly because I was texting her first all the time and felt like I was bothering her, and to see if she would text first, since she did say that she enjoyed talking to me and spending time with me. The last time I texted her was May 16th. I texted her today because I have been thinking about her (and have had two dreams about her in these two weeks) and hope I hear back. But was it a Negative Rizz Moment to not text her for two weeks?

Gotta ask for anyone here, is it possible to find a girlfriend on here? Just seems like there's only egirls looking for attention mostly.

I feel I have a lot of love to give but no one to give it to. And it hurts

>>34005971
It's not gonna happen. The chance of even meeting any of these people in person is pretty low, and more than likely the people willing to meet a random person they met on 4chan in person are not people you want to be in a relationship with.

>>34005981
You're right...

>>34005834
So... hear me out. I'm a guy. I have lots of guy friends, but I'm not into guys. I don't have many friends who are women, but I have a woman I love very much. I think we're very similar, minus the difference in genitalia, and that's your situation. In other words, you're probably a lesbian.

>>34005963
Definitely have negative modifier to charisma. Sorry bro.

>>34005971
Possible? Yes. Probable? No. Advisable? Absolutely not.

>>34006019
>Definitely have negative modifier to charisma. Sorry bro.
I was just texting first often, and even though I was still getting good responses, I also felt like I was being a bother? I'm not sure. She also didn't respond to the last text I sent on the 16th which was a response to something she said. So, I dunno. I just wanted to see if SHE wanted to talk. I know it's a dumb game to play, but pulling back doesn't hurt most times if the other party is interested.

Don't give a fuck about gender.
What keeps you going?
And why do you think a relationship is gonna fix anything?

>>34006333
I want a wife and a family. It's the goal of my life, and if it's unachievable it makes the rest of it seem pointless. Why should I work myself to the bone or take the risk of investing in a house with no chance of any of it paying off in any meaningful way when I can just keep doing what I'm doing and be comfortable? Not like I need to save up for anything anyway.

>>34006343
But what if that wife doesn't make you happy? And you're just pretending to be something else

>>34006363
I wouldn't marry someone that I didn't think was a good person, and that I didn't enjoy being around.
Even if I did somehow end up in that situation though, I'd still have a responsibility to them that would drive me to work harder and earn and save more money.

femanons if you learned a guy watches shows like picrel what's your immediate reaction? He's a pedo? Homosexual? Autist? Be honest I need to know if I should lay off the cute shit

>>34005971
i have been the girlfriend of someone i met on here! it's possible, but extremely unlikely. i think the path to the healthiest relationship is probably meeting in a friend finder thread versus an explicit one. if it's on a board other than /soc/, that may be even better.
>>34006876
if he can actually talk about the aspects of the show he enjoys, i don't think there's anything wrong with it. if it's his *only* interest and/or he's obsessed with porn about it, it is deeply unsettling.
granted, i'd think he's a little autistic, but so am i, so i'm probably biased.

>>34006996
Good idea, thanks. Thought this was the only place to look for friends and relationships.

This is more of a general question
Ik this isn't /adv/ but I'm not sure what type of people even lurk there, /soc/ at least has a bit of a mixed bag
Anyway, at the start of the year I found myself more motivated and wanting to make positive changes in my life
It was mostly because obligatory numbers and the 'new year, new me' stuff, but whatever, I'll take it, and it did feel like a fresh start
I stayed that way for most of January, which felt like it went really slowly
But it was all kinda downhill from there, now suddenly it's almost mid-year, nothing has changed, I have no energy or motivation, everything feels like a blur again
It was so refreshing to feel like time was going slowly for once, each day actually felt individual
So basically my question is, how do I get back to that mentality, any ideas? has anyone struggled with a similar thing and found something that helps?

>>34007026
for sure! i know asking for details is generally frowned upon on other boards, but i also met my ex through /vg/.
granted, i imagine it’s much easier for women than for men, but the point remains. looking for friends first and relationships second seems like the best way to build a genuine connection.
>>34007678
for me, stupid shit is what works best. if i want to sit down and do nothing, i sit on the floor instead of my bed, and my head tells me “well, we’re already on the floor, might as well do our crunches”
i had to start as small as possible, commiting to doing a single exercise a day. literally one push-up. that made it feel more achievable and easier, and since i was already in posotion when i finished, it just made sense to do more.
most importantly, i try to think of it as a reward instead of a punishment or a requirement. i have family who suffer with obesity, and they can’t do lots of the things i love, like hiking with my friends. i tell my body i appreciate everything it does for me and work out as a gift - it makes me strong and healthy so i can keep doing what i love.
granted this may not be effective if you’re not into esoteric woowoo bullshit, but it’s what’s helped me!

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>>33995187 (OP)
Do men care about height to the extent that women do? I'm 5'0 and always felt like my height was detrimental to men being attracted to me

>>34010493
I prefer short women, myself. If anything, a taller woman would be detrimental to my attraction, but far from a deal breaker.

>>34010493
>Do men care about height to the extent that women do?
No, because on average men are less shallow than women

>>34002679
I don't know about bully, but girls do make fun of each other's boob size, especially the smaller girls, but I've only seen it in between friends. Mostly light-hearted joking.
>>34005971
The odds are good, but the goods are odd. This applies to both genders quite frankly.
>>34010620
I legit think men are only less picky when it comes to sex. When it comes to actual relationships, I rarely see ugly girls with hot guys, whereas ugly guys with hot girls is quite common.

>>34010663
If only women were less shallow and cared more about "actual relationships" they wouldn't put shopping lists worth of requirements before they even considered men worthy of interacting with them. This is more tedious projection

>>34010663
>The odds are good
They aren't.

>>33995187 (OP)
Do girls like futa/femboy porn?, and if yes, why ?

I'm legit asking not any goon talk

>>34010493
>Do men care about height to the extent that women do
Not really, just don't be taller than me, lol. Very few men will mind that you're shorter than they are, in fact, it's almost always a positive.

>>34010620
I don't think men are less shallow, I just think circumstances force us to be more reasonable/realistic. I actually prefer our lot in all of this, the world is far more honest with us and where we stand; as men, we learn pretty early in life that we need to cultivate looks, money, and status, or nobody is going to give a shit about us. Very clear goals to strive towards, ya know? If a man is fat, broke, and a loser, he won't forget; the world is more than happy to remind him, *constantly.*

Women, on the other hand, are basically glazed nonstop, from all directions, and while all that validation may feel good, what is glazing if not dishonesty? Most women's perception of themselves and their interpersonal relationships is dissonant from reality; men are constantly lying to women because they want to get laid, and women are constantly lying to each other and themselves as part of the social contract. When every social interaction involves some element of courteous deception, it's hard to get an accurate sense of who you are, where you stand, and when to check yourself. You may think that women have it easier than us, and for a time, most of them probably do... but also consider that the majority of them are on meds just to feel normal, and that for most of them, the wall, and a brutal reality check, is coming. You ever see the crash out of a girl who used to be hot once she's hit the wall? It's ugly stuff.

Sorry for the rant, I'm just kind of over the idea that one sex is somehow more noble than the other when it sucks for everyone, and everyone is to blame.

Femanons, I'm tempted to buy dog dildo. I simply like how they look so it'd be more for decoration, as stupid as it sounds. But in case I found a girl who would be willing to give it a try or who would simply also like monster theme, I'd like this purchase to be potentially good for actual use. Due to this I have several questions:
>hardness
You can pick between medium and hard. I have no reference point for what is considered medium or hard when it comes to silicone cocks. If you have any experience with such toys, what would you recommend? While reading reviews on other types of dildos I found one that said shaft being made of haarder material while thicker parts being made of medium/soft is ideal so it wouldn't bend while entering, but still contract where it could potentially hurt.
>size
There are 4 sizes available: small, fat, medium and large.
Small is 14,5cm long with circumferences 11,5/17cm on shaft/knot
Fat is 17cm long with circumferences 15,5/22cm on shaft/knot
Medium and large are approaching sizequeen stretching territory so there is no point getting them if we were to just start. I assume that whole point of such toys, besides potential psychological pleasure due to theme/fantasy, is experiencing something extra you don't have with regular dick on daily basis. Since I'm around 16x15cm, would fat size be doable or 22cm circumference on know is too much?
>cum
There is option to add fake cum pump for ejeculation effects. Since we're in fantasy territory already, would you find massive fake creampies any hot psychologically, or would you at least feel being filled if amount of lubecum was sufficient? Or having tube dangling around/having to tie it around base is not worth it?
>suction cups
Another option is dildo having suction cup at the base. Realistically, how useful are they? I feel like girls usually use their toys while sitting or laying and those with suction cups are mainly used for camwhoring because it looks good.

>>33995771
money and be funny
looks don’t matter if you can provide those two
and, at least for me, if you can be present for your kids too, you get to have unlimited side chicks and i’ll never leave or cheat bc what would be the point


women honestly just want those two, at least the emotionally mature ones that don’t need you to soothe her or change every time she’s emotional. the women who go for love or romance will always give you a dead bedroom and a headache for you coming home from work because the initial emotional high is what she stayed in the relationship for. so if you don’t give that constantly, she’ll give you a hard time and you end up cheating and then she finds out and leaves or cheats back looking for an emotional high. for me, just throw some money and problem solved. no headache no bullshit no cheating bc no one else would give me more money and i don’t like men or sex anyway but i’ll do anything for my living wallet. free use for my wallet. he can have side chicks ill look the other way :3
married 22F

>>34003373
depends on the woman
some people are just naturally flirty

>>34006876
that hes a lolicon yeah. probably autist.

>>33998635
i would say this is more correct but theres so much to say about this. sex and relationships are for example different.

>>34010607
>>34010620
>>34011313

Really? I know men prefer women shorter than them at the very least, but it's always a couple of inches shorter than themselves , I'm below average height and tend to be the shortest or second shortest girl/person in a room and although that makes me stand out I don't think it makes me approachable.

>>34013321
>Really?
Really really. Short women are like any other women, just with advantages in the bedroom, read: tighter on average, unexpectedly wetter on average, and easy to toss around and fold up into a pretzel. Really, the only thing that would give me pause if things were getting serious with a short (as in, really short, 4'10" or below, you're borderline) woman is the concern that any sons we have would be short, because short men live very hard lives and I wouldn't want that for my son(s).

>>34013782
do you like to wear tank tops?

>>34014085
I do. Why do you ask?

Women would you play this game?

Game Title: "Pole Position: The Sensual Struggle"

Game Synopsis:
"Pole Position: The Sensual Struggle" is an immersive dance and striptease simulation game exclusively designed for thin, cisgender women. Players step into the high-heeled shoes of a reluctant protagonist named Destiny, who is forced to strip for money in a gritty and sexist world. The game combines the rhythmic fun of dance games with a thrilling story mode, all while adhering to strict body standards and requiring the use of actual in-home pole dancing equipment.

Game Mechanics:

1. Pole Dance Choreography: Players must mimic Destiny's pole dance moves as accurately as possible using the Kinect sensor. The game's advanced tracking technology ensures precise movement detection, offering a challenging yet rewarding experience.

2. Lap Dance Choreography: For a more intimate experience, the game also includes chair-based lap dance sequences that require the player to perform sensual moves as if interacting with a virtual patron.

3. Thinness Verification: The game uses the Kinect's body scanning capabilities to ensure the player meets the thinness criteria. Players must be within a certain weight and body fat percentage to proceed. If not, the game remains locked until they do.

4. Permadeath Mode: Players can opt for this intense mode where the stakes are high. If they fail to progress in the story within a real-life week, or if their in-game performance isn't up to par, all recorded footage is automatically uploaded to a public online platform.

5. Outfit Compatibility: The game requires players to wear almost identical outfits to Destiny. If the outfit isn't detected or doesn't match closely enough, the game won't allow progression until the player is dressed correctly.

>>34016195
6. Gender Verification: To maintain the game's intended audience, the Kinect scans the player at the start of each session to confirm they are a biological cisgender woman.

7. Story Mode Progression: The game's main story follows Destiny's journey through the underbelly of the strip club world. Players must perform well to advance and earn money to support themselves and their family.

8. Real-World Consequences: Players who choose permadeath mode must commit to playing and completing the story within a week. If they fail, not only does Destiny's story end, but their own dance footage becomes public.

9. Non-Customizable Character: Destiny's story is set, and players cannot choose her outfits or alter her appearance, reinforcing the game's theme of powerlessness.

10. Dance Training: The game includes a training mode to help players learn the art of pole dancing and striptease, with tutorials and practice sessions to improve their skills.

11. AI Editor: In the event of a permadeath failure, the game's AI automatically edits the footage to make it as appealing as possible, adding effects and music to create a shareable dance montage.

12. In-Game Economy: Players can earn tips and unlock new dance routines and outfits based on their performance. However, the game emphasizes that Destiny's success is solely based on her ability to entertain male patrons, not on personal empowerment.

13. No Save Points: To increase the pressure, there are no save points in permadeath mode. Players must complete the story in one go or risk public exposure.

14. In-Game Camera: The game features an in-game camera that allows players to see themselves from various angles, mimicking a real strip club's surveillance setup.

15. Online Leaderboards: Players can compare their scores and progress with friends who also own the game, fostering a competitive yet supportive community.

>>34016199

16. Dance-Off Challenges: Players can engage in dance battles against other in-game characters or friends' ghost data to earn additional rewards and bragging rights.

17. Immersive Environments: The game features detailed and realistic strip club settings to immerse players in the story's atmosphere.

18. In-Game Time Limit: The game's clock runs continuously, even when not in use, adding urgency to the permadeath mode.

19. No Customer Service Intervention: The permadeath mode is designed to be inescapable, with no way to reverse the decision or delete footage once it's uploaded.

20. Intuitive Controls: The game's controls are easy to learn but difficult to master, challenging players to become the best dancer they can be while adhering to the strict requirements of the strip club environment.

"Pole Position: The Sensual Struggle" offers a unique blend of dance, storytelling, and real-world risks that are sure to leave players on the edge of their seats—or, rather, the edge of the stage.

>>34015591
cause you sound like a wife beater

>>34012480
>medium softness, easier to fit knot
>whatever is about 5", vaginas are shallower than most think and a lot of women won't be able to entirely fit the knot if it's bigger than that. Anally is a different story of course
>Personally not interested in the cum tube unless the fake cum was heated first. Then I'd also have to trust that you're going to clean the tube, inside of dildo, etc.
>suction cup is great for solo, not necessary if you're going to be fucking her with it
>source
Owned a BD and an off-brand knotted dildo.

>>34010493
I don't care the tiniest speck of a bit about height, but then again I am a virgin.

>>34016338
no, people know how shallow a vag is. 1'' is about 2,5 cm, so every size mentioned is just above average dick sized.

>>34016273
KEK

>>34012604
Bitter larping tranny detected

>>34016195
No, I play video games to escape reality, not to be confronted with the same dehumanising shit we're faced with constantly. Porn damaged trannies would probably love it though.

>>34016201
If this game was real then I would just get my GF to start it up on permadeath and then I would jump into frame and just yell nigger over and over

men (if you’re in the military bonus points) why did you cheat on your gf?

>>34007800
... that's exactly the dumb kind of trick I can actually see myself falling for hahahah thank you
That's what I intended to do, 1 type of exercise per day. I both struggle with long term gratification and with time blindness, so, if I start by just doing 1 today, and 2 tomorrow, it might seem like nothing but by my own brain's perception of time I'll be up to 99 before ik it
Though I'm not sure fitness entirely works like that lol I think it at least helped slow the days down because I was acutely aware of the date at any given time
Now I just need to get over the laziness and "oh it's already day _ and I'm behind, may as well give up"
Reframing it is definitely important, I'm not entirely sure how I'll go about that yet
I should definitely be more grateful for being relatively healthy and able bodied though, instead of just letting it rot
Idk why I'm typing all this, maybe it'll help someone, at least to know there's others in a similar spot
Thanks for responding

This is for women in dating apps: On a typical app (one of the popular platforms) how many matches do you get in a week? And how many do you respond to after getting an intro message from the guy?

>>34016338
Thanks, I appreciate the answer and am waiting for more input from others, even if they have experience only with regular dildos.
>whatever is about 5", vaginas are shallower than most think and a lot of women won't be able to entirely fit the knot if it's bigger than that.
Length wise measurements are
>14,5cm = 5,8''
>16cm = 6,4''
>17cm = 6,8''
I'm the middle one and Most of the time I can go balls deep. There were times when I was hitting cervix with the tip, but it heavily depends on angle. I guess I'd have to go perfectly straight to hit it, if it's an downwards/upwards angle I can go all in without girls complaining so I assumed those 17cm isn't an issue as differnece between small and me is whole inch while difference between me and fat is like less than 1/3rd of inch.
I was more worried about knot circumference as apparently it's thickness that is more important. For comparison:
>standard toilet paper roll tube here is 14cm/5,6'' circumference
>my cock head is like 15cm/6'' circumference
>17cm/6,8'' is smaller/medium male wrist circumference
>22cm/8,8'' can be jar lid circmference, it's actually like half inch thicker than beer can which is like 20,8cm circumference
So yeah, difference between small and fat is like common 3 fingers penetration vs beer can penetration, which I suspect is siezequeen territory. I guess I could check out other models and find something with better length/knot ratio, but as I've said, this purchase would be mainly for aesthetic reasons and I think this model looks best. In any case, with your answer it seems like small size would actually be more practical, even though it's lacking in length compared to my own cock.

>tube
Fair enough. I can sympathize as I own onahole so I know difference between heated and cold, and what hassle is cleaning its insides after use.

>suction cup is great for solo
Why do I see it used so rarely on amateur vids?

>>34016767
No bonus points.
I did not. Not only because I don't have gf, but also because I find cheating disgusting, as much as hipocrisy, so when I was actually trying for one girl, I stopped with casual hookups for around a year even though I'm massive degen and there was no obligation to stop because we weren't couple yet.

>>34017135
okay friend so why did you reply

>>34017149
Because I assumed it's to all men and presumption wasn't the core of post. Looks like I was wrong.

>>34010493
men care about height now because women do, you cant have tall sons with a short woman, so if shes too short, its a no go, unless hes a pedo
>>34016767
men generally cheat because they are not getting enough sex and are able to get the extra they need elsewhere, women generally cheat to try to get a higher value partner without leaving the security of their current relationship

>>34016273
>mfw

>>34016767
I think you've got that twisted; it's men in the military who *get* cheated on.

>>34016672
since you liked my joke, do you wanna talk or atleast fuck?

>>34018090
but it kinda stings, that you activated my trap card, right?

>>34007678
My advice is to abandon the idea of "motivation" and embrace discipline. Get on board with the idea of "I am going to do what I am supposed to do, regardless of how I feel." If your goal is to be healthier and look better, then you're going to prepare your own meals, eat at a 500 calorie deficit, and pretend fast food doesn't exist. Only time you should eat food you didn't prepare is if you're meeting up with friends or on vacation or something. Your day to day reality becomes "food is fuel for my body." Then, you go to the gym and do a full body workout on Mon/Wed/Fri. Focus on progressive overload, on every workout, increase how much work you're doing; you can add weight, reps, or sets. If you do that for 12 weeks, I promise you'll see noticeable results, and there's that motivation you're looking for. Real results, which come from real work.

Going to the gym is a drag for most people at first, it certainly was for me, but then after 12 weeks I was down 30pds and my chest and shoulders were starting to pop, and the desire for more of that kept me going.

>>34007800
>i have family who suffer with obesity, and they can’t do lots of the things i love, like hiking with my friends. i tell my body i appreciate everything it does for me and work out as a gift - it makes me strong and healthy so i can keep doing what i love
I love this, it's corny and sounds like it should be on a poster with cute animals doing cute things, but I love the perspective and the mindset. You also touch on one aspect of why fitness is so important that doesn't get talked about enough; it's not just looking and feeling good, it's without it you are literally incapable of doing certain things. Experiences and places are closed off to you.

>>34019112
>>34007678
i will add to that: start growing your own veggies and herbs/spices, keep some cattle and open up a salt mine. You will know where your food comes from and you wont need to pay some alpha cucks for a gym membership. Dont be a wife beater, be a Sigma male

>>34017027
>I both struggle with long term gratification and with time blindness
This is why I emphasize the important of setting a goal, making a plan, and sticking to it regardless of how you feel.
>"oh it's already day _ and I'm behind, may as well give up"
You're going to make mistakes. You're going to stumble, and fall. No worries, pick yourself up and get back to it. You're going to face setbacks and unexpected variables. For now, figure out your diet, find a Mon/Wed/Fri split that works for you, and make next week 1 of 12. You eat clean, you go to the gym on those days, period. Do that, then assess and adapt from there.

>>34019043
Nah, I laughed harder than I probably should have, actually.

>>33995187 (OP)

What are some stereotypes about the opposite sex that you think might be true?

Personally I've never dated a shy/quiet/timid girl who wasn't a fucking freak in the privacy of a bedroom. Same with catholic/muslim women, something about repressed sexuality needing a super strong outlet whenever it's possible.

>>34016767
I felt very insecure in my relationship and like I couldn't make her happy. Someone else came along that was able to whisper sweet nothings in my ear and made me feel wanted. Still regret letting the snake get close enough for anything to happen, let alone the act of cheating itself.

How can I bring up to my gf that I want her to lose 20-30lbs? She formerly suffered from eating disorders so I have never said anything negative about her weight or eating/exercise habits for fear of triggering some kind of relapse. For a while she was saying that she wants to eat better and do more exercise, but lately seems like she's kinda given up and keeps making comments about how she loves her curves and it's society that makes her feel bad about it around other people. I still find her attractive, and luckily she has good genetics so most of her weight gain goes to her legs/ass, but I'm worried about where she'll be in 5-10 years time if we stay together. Also before anyone calls me a hypocrite, I'm a regular gym goer and have visible abs for half the year.

>>34006876
women are allergic to KINO
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CWXKF_lf8Q

>>34018090
other way around in my case

>>34017274
sounds about right. every time he did it it was strictly carnal

>>34019439
Hey Anon,
Fem anon here, I also struggled with disordered eating for years and am currently a fat fuck (lost 50 pounds though in the past year), but I think you are correct in this situation that you need to talk to your girlfriend. Yes, disordered eating sucks, but avoiding it just causes more problems. My Dad wouldn’t let my Mom talk to me ever about disordered eating, she was a bulimic who only stopped when she got pregnant with me. He was afraid it would hurt me, but I was struggling so much. I think if you clear the air with gf, it might help her. Be gentle, but tell her you’re getting concerned for health and the direction she’s taking, and that she has expressed multiple times that she wants to lose weight but might need some support from you to get there. Invite her to the gym, meal prep together, just go on walks even. Movement is so underrated and just walking improves digestion and gives you seratonin. You do risk her flipping out and calling you shallow or some bullshit, in which case, thank her because you know she’s not for you. You want a partner you can share things with and be honest with, not a toddler to coddle. Good luck, give us an update if you want. Hope it goes well!

-(soon to be formerly) Fatass Femanon

>>33995187 (OP)
I'll put this one out to both men and women, and it's a serious fucking question.

It is clear than in 2025 men do not have the genetic qualities that women see as attractive in a partner. I don't even need to convince you, you know this, and if you're a man you're coping with it by adopting different kinds of ideologies which help you get over yourself. Looksmax all you want, it'll only take you so far.

We know that women "choose the bear", they view men as inherently disgusting, evil and worthy of only contempt. You adopt this attitude even subconsciously and men take it on themselves.

Now I am a man, and I do not have the bones in my face to become a chad. I am neurotypical, and have a few friends who aren't necessarily close. I am 28, I get about one match a week from a 35 year old mom of 3, or someone my own age who is unfortunately unattractive and in a wheelchair - Ive been there before, they're after a carer, not a partner. All my friends are single, or they're dating absolute dumpster fires (not just in looks). I am not fat, I am not ugly, I'm not short, I'm just normal.

The real question is what do you expect men like me to do? This isn't a projection of my own insecurities, it's a serious fucking issue that I see people I know go through but are unable to verbalise. We continually feel as if we are being dispossessed of our birthright to, well, respect and a place in society. No one cares about us and everything is our fault. There's practically no hope of a partner anymore, of pair bonding with another person.

Do we go fuck femboys/troons? Religion? What can give us meaning in life that isn't other people?

>>34019439
I am of the disagreement with the other femanon. I feel like just bringing up weight and expecting them to lose it never ends well. I'd start with cooking for her more, encouraging healthier meals, exercise, and seeing where that goes. with the right approach most women will turn around, although I won't lie that doesn't always work. how much weight has she gained? I am also of the opinion if she is only mildly overweight to leave it be, as for some accept not being perfectly skinny is just something to explore and move on from. But obviously it's different if the weight gain is more extensive, and over a longer period of time as well.... I think there's a lot of context here to unpack when it comes to what the best solution may be. also what are your concerns? is it more you don't want her to become complicit with being unhealthy, or is it more cosmetic? it's also completely different if you're just worried about overrall health or simply prioritize being fit/attractive which can determine about whether your priorities align as partners, and how to approach from there as well....

>>34019439
just pinch her belly fat like youre pinching a child's cheeks and say "honk honk honk" and then start laughing and never bring it up again. She will get the message
>>34020264
the average white male is 5'11 in the usa, 70% of american women are overweight, if you are shorter than that and ugly men's looksmatch is an obese goblin or that 35 year old mother of 3, you either accept this and date at your level or you make yourself better (usually though money and status). You do not deserve a skinny blonde baddie and there is nothing you can do to get one, simple as

>>34020264
Dude, from one man to another get off the dating apps. Yes the West is on strange male blaming kick and it’s a hard time to look for a wife, but it’s not 1917 or 1941, or other hard times in our history. Society will get through it sooner or later. In the mean time, since you brought up religion, in my experience everyone craves a belief system. It’s certainly not cool here on a North Korean land mine defusing and repurposing website, but in my experience a faith enhances rather than detracts from your fulfillment. Maybe you’ll find a woman who is struggling with the same things and you two will find each other. Maybe you become a priest and spend your life sacrificing for the betterment of others, which I have realized is the one of the most masculine things a man can do. In any case, the internet and smart phones are a cancer.

>>34020334
I'm 6'3, average face, I lift every day and I'm on roids. I cannot look better than what I do, yet I do not have options. I have friends who are better looking than me who do not have options. The only time I see women being attracted to men is when they are my height but also chad
>>34020341
I used to crave a belief system, or something to follow, and I see guys do it all the time. But it's a cope, they know it, I knew it, and we all drop it sooner or later

What is the solution for us? I'm not getting younger, yeah society will get through this but what do we do right now?

>>34020400
Dude first off you are focusing on the wrong things stop the steroids. They don’t help you except to win bicep measuring contest with other meat heads. I’ve found religion to be the opposite. I left it for many many years and came back to it in my mid thirties. The human spirit needs it. We aren’t complete without it. But it sounds like you don’t really want the advice you asked for. You want to give up and die.

>>34020400
>I'm on roids.
women dont like roidcels, you have made yourself more unattractive. You need a therapist, not a gym

>>34020418
i'm curious, here. was your return to it connected with finding a woman who is struggling with the same things you were? if the answer is no, then you have a firm ground from which to speak. but if the answer's yes, then it seems like you can't really be sure whether it was faith enhancing your fulfillment or the girl.

>>34020418
You can't make someone be religious, I cannot make myself believe something I don't. I've already tried it. I hate this assumption that I haven't tried it and my rejection of it implies I just want to kill myself and ignore people's advice.

I looked like shit, I tried lifting without steroids and I looked...less weird. Now I do roids and I look like I lift. I have a conventionally attractive body, which is why I mentioned it

I'm not asking advice for myself specifically, I'm asking for the majority of average men in their 20s-30s in 2025. I genuinely would like some novel idea of what I am supposed to do

>>34020439
No. I found my way back to the religion of my childhood and my ancestors after many years adrift. Actually my wife and I are of different and sometimes fairly incompatible faiths. It causes a little bit of tension, but not overly so. She respects my beliefs and I respect hers. We grow together.

>>34020443
No. You’re right. Maybe I was being a little harsh. But if you want a traditional life where being a male, being a provider and a protector is valued, you need to look where women who value those things are, and in 2025, that’s religion and not really anywhere else. Certainly not on dating apps.

As for the steroids man, those things are damaging. You already admitted you use them because you didn’t fit the ideal you had in your head. Do you have any hobbies that bring you peace?

>>34020468
I don't necessarily idealize a traditional life in my head. I don't know, I tend not to really dream, idealize or romanticise much at all. I really want a girl who loves me who I love back, mutual attraction and all that. All I find is people who are clearly out to exploit me.

I tried dating in Asia and it was mostly the same, I'm not rich but people were just out for my money constantly. When I was religious, I mostly found people who were after someone to fix their mistakes/get mondy. I was Lutheran, and it was again older single mom's who presented a veneer of religiosity as an attempt at showing purity/remorse.

I know steroids are damaging. The thing is, when you look noticeably abnormal you stop caring about that. I do have a lot of hobbies, I can pour my time into hiking, travelling, music, politics but it doesn't provide me peace.

>>34020477
Politics is also a cancer and not a hobby. The less I read news stories the better I feel. And I get it too, but you’re looking in places where exploitation is rampant. I’ve never understood the advice I’ve seen on here about Asian women. Most Asian women I’ve encountered are after money, when I was in the military the dudes who married the Japanese girls ended up divorced and miserable. I will say that my cousin married a Filipino girl and seems very happy. She’s cute but I wouldn’t call her hot, and he’s certainly not conventionally attractive, but she was looking for a stable dude who would provide, while she started a baking business and they’ve really grown together.

As for the hobbies dude find the one that brings you peace. For me it’s fly fishing. My brain shuts down and I don’t think about the shitty wars we lost over the past 20 years. All I think is about the fish and the fly and the sound of the water. My wife says it’s one of the things she was drawn to about me. I wasn’t in to fly fishing to impress girls. I was in it because I needed it.

What's the best way to tell a girl you want to burry your face in her ass?

>>34019439
>How can I bring up to my gf that I want her to lose 20-30lbs
Tell her you want to make health a priority and it's important to you that she share your values. Then, if she doesn't fall in line, break up with her; you have visible abs, which means if you're tall enough to ride Space Mountain you should have options. I find the honest, direct approach is almost always the correct one when it comes to women and relationships; most men are terrified of being direct with a woman, because then they might have to deal with a shit test, and most men have no idea how to pass a shit test.
>comments about how she lovers her curves
They're not curves, they're rolls.
>and it's society that makes her feel bad about it
KEK. The entire "body positivity" movement exists to coddle the fragile female ego. Also, it's total bullshit, as evidenced by how Meghan Trainor, Lizzo, et al. took the discipline shot as soon as it was available.

>>34019900
Sorry to hear that, being cheated on sucks. But hey, what did we learn? That's right! *Do not date military, or law enforcement.* Worry less about why he did it; he's an immature asshole, simple as that.

>>34019901
To be fair, most men are completely capable of genuinely loving one woman, while simultaneously having sex with other women and having it mean nothing. That said, most women don't like being cheated on (exhibit: you) and fidelity is a bare minimum thing to ask in a relationship.

>>34020264
This is what no pussy and no grass does to a mfer.

>>34006996
>i'd think he's a little autistic, but so am i, so i'm probably biased.
cute answer thanks
>>34013283
expected ig
>>34019890
video related made my night thanks anon

>>33998635
No, it's a fucking cope. Land whales are dating sixes and sevens occasionally. It's absolutely insane.

>>34016767

I felt like it. my girlfriend being upset and leaving me over cheating is an acceptable for me.
>>34010493

not likely.

>>34020264

grow up

>>34020443

if you are going to roid, take testosterone injections.

the most dangerous thing about stuff like tren is hypertrophy of the heart muscles.

that is typically how roids kill you

>>33998635
I fall into the group of people not having sex at all.

>>34010493
Not in the slightest. I have a tendency to date very tall or very short women, but this isn't really something that I'd consider to be a prerequisite.

Quite frankly, about 70% of being attractive as a woman can be summed in "don't be fat"; it's fucking amazing how many women mess that one up.

>>34016195
>>34016199
>>34016201
Male, but I'm actually quite impressed by the seeming dedication to this idea.

>>34016767
I've never cheated on a woman with I've been in a committed relationship with. However, suffice to say, I've never been in a committed relationship; so I've definitely been in a position where I'm talking to or seeing multiple women at once. How does this happen? You all make it pretty easy, and I'm an egomaniac.

>>34019261
Horsey girls are all fucking lunatics; I'm at a point now where I don't even conceive of it as a stereotype, and more just a hard truth.

I would also say your observations definitely have a kernel of the truth in there. Shame on the catholic church for being so shit at getting people married these days, desu. It's often too busy trying to gaslight young me into the priesthood.

>>34020264
If you're gonna embrace religion, you need to make sure you are fully on-board; you will be miserable if you half-measure it.

To a similar end, I would also say that hormonal birth control and its consequences have been a disaster over the last 60 years.

>>34022265
>Horsey girls
As in girls who ride horses or that have horse faces?

>>34022676
Girls who ride horses.

>>34020264
>The real question is what do you expect men like me to do?
Violently lash out on society, preferably politicians, CEOs of companies behind dating apps, humanities professors in universities or faminists. Repeat until either shit gets fixed or system breaks down and everything reverts back to normal.

M or F
Would you go to therapy if this is what was involved?

Men, what was it like touching a vagina for the first time?

>>34024125
Interesting approach lol
Is that a tv program? What’s the name?

M or F
Oldest person you've fucked?

F or M
Having sometimes gooming session or casual sexting with unknown women online is cheating? No contact involved and no personal info shared

>>34024135
>Is that a tv program? What’s the name?
Virgin Island

>>34024145
>casual sexting with unknown women online
M
Seems like it's picrel
I think the answer to
>Is it cheating?
Is would you be ok with her doing it?

>>34024138
looks like shes doing the fucking here bro

>>34024174
It's just good therapy.

>>34024185
porn is 4 cuck

>>34024165
Good question because actually I’d probably understand the need of feeling sexy not only for your partner, you know what I mean. However this never happened (or I believe so)

>>34024189
Not porn, it's therapy

>>34024197
>I’d probably understand the need of feeling sexy not only for your partner
I think that's why married people still flirt, even though it doesn't lead anywhere.
It becomes a problem when you PREFER a stranger's opinion over your partner's.

>>34024210
Liars make me sick to my stomach. You're like a rollercoaster made of rickety planks.

I do admit I omit things sometimes but I don't call two women kissing therapy. therapy is a professional thing.

>>34024304
It's called sex therapy
She's fixing him like any therapist would.

>>34024309
I believe that's called prostitution

>>34024318
What is the end goal of therapy? To better yourself.
Isn't this the same thing?

>>34020264
you seriously need to unplug, touch grass, and interact with people irl

Women, is it acceptable for a guy to refer to the first woman he slept with as “sensei”?

Women, I'm 37 and never had a girlfriend or a date. I'm wracked with social anxiety, and even were that under control, I don't like social places where people usually meet like bars and clubs. Should I just not bother worrying about relationships because I've missed the proverbial boat? It all seems more trouble than it's worth. Also, am I an asshole for not wanting to be with a girl I find unattractive? It's not that I only care about looks, but there has to be some physical attraction in this hypothetical scenario.

>>34024538
o.o
>>34024574
Am half ur age(18) and I feel the same T^T feel bad for whinning about it now.
>>question. Men on pedestals.
Anways how do I stop idolizing men? Pretty it's just part of being young and daddy issues but I have a male friend and I always have him decide stuff for me. It helps that hes smart and older. All I ever think about is getting married, eveyone tells to me work on myself(career n stuff) but idk am stuck on a baby fever loop. I want a husband, and a baby. >:(
Lmao worst part is most men r stupid but like I naively very eveything they said (cz am retarded)

>>34024574
>Also, am I an asshole for not wanting to be with a girl I find unattractive?
this is the natural order. you should be attracted to a girl. that is the first filter in anyone's sorting process. if a girl is butthurt that you're not interested, that is her problem - not yours. a lack of desire on your part will erode what little foundation you had and she will eventually bounce. women need to be desired.
>>34024754
>All I ever think about is getting married, eveyone tells to me work on myself(career n stuff) but idk am stuck on a baby fever loop. I want a husband, and a baby.
don't listen to the feminist propaganda. you can't have it all. if you want to be a wife and mother, then focus on that. be someone who is worth marrying and impregnating. being female is not enough. you need to be a source of comfort and peace for your man, in addition to being fertile enough to breed. as the mantra states, "fit, feminine, and friendly".

>>34024851
You sound like a guy i use to have a crush on lol.
I have no clue how to find guys though (..)i am feminine and friendly, if you mean skinny by fit then yea(tho I prefer to read).
I was thinking maybe the clubs in my near libraries? But i noticed no one goes to them :[

>>34025103

What are you interested in? Maybe think of something you’ve read about and want to try and then find a group that does that. Then treat the men there as human beings and see if something comes from it.

>>34025103
you don't have to be super skinny, just healthy enough to birth several children without him having to worry about you dying or gaining 100 lbs. as for meeting men, your average man is either at work or at home. he's going to spend some amount of time doing extracurriculars, but not a lot. despite what they may say online now, women have always made the first move - strong enough to create an opening, but subtle enough to be passed over, depending on his situation or preferences. next time you see a guy you're interested in, try saying simply the word "cute" quietly but loud enough he can hear you, as if you're talking to yourself, but you're actually talking to him. if he looks at you, flash a smile then lower your gaze and go about your business. that's a somewhat bold tactic but if he's not interested he can still ignore it. be careful not to chase fuckbois.

if you're into heavy age gaps, i'd be willing to give you a fair shot.

>>34024138
>>34024185
>>34024210
>>34024309
>>34024323
what the fuck lol

is this that virgin island thing?

>>34025649
Yes
>gets paid
>still says no

>>33995187 (OP)
I am a 25 year old virgin male, how likely is it that a woman wants to marry me if i tell her i am waiting for someone to want to commit to me before we have sex?

>>34025925
>I am a 25 year old virgin male
>waiting for someone to want to commit to me before we have sex
She will see it as a red flag that no woman wanted to commit to you.
She'd be happier if you were a fuckboy and she got you to commit to her.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zYL-XylC74

>>34025915
>/soc/-dating-thread-meet.jpg

>>34025925
Dont listen to the other dude. Chastity is respectable and ideally my husband would also be one like me. Though i wouldn't judge if it was with a partner they loved, NOT a hook up. Dude just do what you think jts best. If you wanna wait, wait.

Does anyone ever add these spammers just to fuck with them? Seems like it could be fun.

>>34025958
Hey, i am back, how do i find someone like you? Take into consideration i am in Argentina.
Do i go to church?

>>34026268
Hey dude. Not her, but here’s my advice. Being from South America and in a predominantly catholic country, you’ll meet girls who want to wait at church most likely. My favorite high school teacher was from Argentina originally. She was a sweet woman. She passed away due to a brain hemorrhage 10 years ago.

Femanons:
When I suggest a movie night with a girl for a date, I pick like a normie movie or if they're nerdy, we can watch like anime. But what I've always wanted to do it watch like a Bruce Lee/Jackie Chan/Shaw Brothers Kung Fu movie on a date. Would a girl be into that? We would watch it subtitled, obviously.

Women, what are the top three places on your body that you like to be kissed?

>>34026268
:0 i use to live in uruguay lol. Probably gonna have to to back cz of trump :[
Me:>>34024754
>>34025103
>>34025958

>>34005971
Well 10 years ago I did find the only woman in my entire life who loved me (outside of family of course).
Although now as time has gone on I'm pretty sure that was just a freak occurrence.
Positive side I now know that I'm capable of being loved and her love quite literally cured my suicidal thoughts, I haven't had them since meeting her.
Negative side is I know just how God damn good it feels to have a woman say “I love you” and actually believe her and know that I will most likely never hear that again.

What do women resort to when they’re horny?

Yea I’ve heard girls give a big middle finger response “use our vibrators and get off” but I’m talking about whenever a woman just gets an urge for a REAL FUCK.

Where do you go, what do you do? How do you signal that you’re available?

I ask because I genuinely want to be there for that opportunity. I’m generally good at game and the pickup deal but it’s fucking hard now that I have no friend network (they moved out of state or died…or got pregnant). I’m not looking for a relationship, just a healthy rotation like I had before Hong Kong fever

>>33995187 (OP)
Okay, uhhhhhhh fuck.
Okay to the chicks of soc, so my friend and his gf set me up with some chick and we go on double dates. How do I know if said chick is into me?
We haven't kissed or hugged or any of that stuff. Only shared sushi.

>>34005971
Statistically unlikely. Especially considering that its hard to find a reason why a woman (biological and not a trannie) would want to be on a board filled with so many sex pests. No seriously, if there is any actual , XX chromosome having, woman here and isn't here to gather and scam orbiters then why the fuck are you here when there are clearly better places, even on the internet, to find a man.
I'm trying to think from a woman's perspective and I'm thinking that most women would close all their tabs the moment they saw /soc/s catalog and how many dick pictures it has.

As a lonely guy in his mid 30's, where do I even meet women my age?

>>34024125
I imagine one could acquire this same experience by paying a decent escort for the girlfriend experience; it'd cost you less, and you wouldn't have to appear on TV.

>>34025958
Based.

>>34033745
Why on earth would you, I mostly date women in their early 20s.

Would it be weird if I – someone ugly – want to talk to someone (a cis woman about my age) cute and pretty and not feel so bad?

>>34033706
My reason is that I hate all other social media and 4chan gets rid of my need for that.

>>34005971
Certified dude who infact met his current girlfriend on soc and imma be real with you.

I love her very much, however the mental illness isnt a meme on either end. Communication is important to me but it's very very difficult to have between us. She has a lot of trouble opening up about her feelings and issues and it's hard for me to just accept I won't know how she's thinking or feeling. Gals can be found here but know that it's a buttload of work and you may not always feel secure or comfortable with the person you're with. I frequently have to fight my own retarded feelings of insecurity or inadequacy. You may find the love of your life but be prepared to work towards a future you both want, you may not find the simple bleeding heart you're lookin for dawg

Generous guys, you know where to find me. aina0.107

ladies who can, yall ever just suck on yo tiddies? Like genuinely asking, yes I'ma gooner but its still a real question

>>34035545
I appreciate the honesty
Sometimes, not usually without it being for the male gaze though
And in case anyone's curious:
It does feel more like you're sucking a nipple than actually having your nipple sucked
It's probably not quite the same but I like to think I can pitch in on the age old question of how it feels to suck your own dick

>>34035658
I genuinely cant answer that coz i dont have the length or flexibility but I totally would if I could ngl

>>34035658
actually follow up, also i dont really know how to use this site so forgive me but, does it feel nice doh??? like i know you said it just feels like youre sucking on a tiddie but it has to be nice somewhat right?

>>34035687
No worries lol
I guess, a little, but it's not quite there vs other forms of nipple stimulation
The sensation of having a nipple in your mouth is the most overwhelming one out of the 2 lol so maybe if I was bi, or that was my thing I'd really enjoy it

>>34035887
so for you, sucking a nipple is more stimulating than getting ur nipples sucked on? So then yall do enjoy sucking dick solely at times?

>>34022836
Unironically the best advice for men ITT, except maybe for the "violently" part

>>34035897
Not really what I meant but, that is true for me too
Personally, I do, and Ik other women who do

>>34035914
mind elaborating then? and I'd like to say thanks for answering btw. Can't really find a place to genuinely ask questions like this besides asking a personal homie without it getting weird.

>>34035917
>more like you're sucking a nipple than actually having your nipple sucked
I was basically just saying this again, but with more words lol idk how to really elaborate
And no problem hahaha glad I could actually answer something for once
Real, ik what you mean

>>34035942
you ever get that delusion when you have a genuine convo on here (somehow) and think you could be friends? It's stupid but man is it tough to fight the thought. Ok so new question and I'm still trying to figure out if its just all the hentai and porn I've watched but can yall get off from nipple stimulation? Or I guess in this case, can you?

women, are the majority of women ~25 years old actively posting videos of themselves and others on tiktok
t. goofy ass tardcel not wanting to be filmed if and when i get a gf

>>34035985
100% - that's both one of the pros and cons of interacting anonymously. I used to do this a lot more often, with anyone
Idk if it's just more rare to find people I click with or if I'm just jaded lmao, but anyway
Personally, no
It's something I've always wanted to try though - I am so touch starved and my libido goes through the roof when given the proper opportunity, I bet I could make it happen with the right person lmao
I've definitely heard of that being a thing,
It's hard to tell with women though, who knows how much of it is just performative bs

>>34036107
I would be so down to help a lady figure out if its possible lol.

yeah I dont really trust anyone on this website its just a damn shame coz some people seem so genuine. and then when you do try to make a genuine convo thread, someone troll comes in just to ruin it and its just like "fuck".

>>34035658
>how it feels to suck your own dick

Weirdly, that seems to be the only part of the body that you can tickle.

Seriously, why else jack off? Jacking can feel better than being jacked or sucked or anything by somebody else.

I say that to say this: sucking your own dick feels PG NGL. Yes you can focus on both the taste and the sensation at the same time. It basically feels like (probably) doing 69 with a dude. I’ve cum completely from doing it and yea caught but not swallowed. Now I know why women compliment my taste, it’s actually appealing, a taste worth craving, not bitter or otherwise gross.

>>34021085
This, then you see men who are fives (DYEL, 5'9"ish, balding, but not genetic dead-ends) having to settle for full on mutants. For men who are fours and below? It's not over, *it never fucking began.*

>>34022261
>70% of being attractive as a woman can be summed in "don't be fat"; it's fucking amazing how many women mess that one up
PREACH. "Muh unrealistic societal beauty standards" BITCH, PUT THE FORK DOWN.

>>34022265
>How does this happen? You all make it pretty easy, and I'm an egomaniac
Been there. It's hard to not be toxic when they reward you for being toxic.
>Horsey girls are all fucking lunatics
True, but at least they know how to ride.

>>34024309
>It's called sex therapy
Women use semantics and pseudo-intellectualism to sell degeneracy as something more meaningful, beneficial, or valid than it actually is? Stop the fucking presses.

>>34027998
i use to live in uruguay lol. Probably gonna have to go back
If you're here under unambiguously legal conditions, you're fine. If not, good riddance.

>>34033745
You shouldn't be dating a woman older than 28, and even then, only if she just finished law school or a PHD program or something. If a woman is single in her 30s, it's for a reason.

>>34035988
This is what I meant earlier ITT, when I said men are afraid of shit tests. You can, and should, establish boundaries and set expectations. If you don't want this hypothetical woman to film you, *tell her to not film you.* It's almost guaranteed she'll ask you why, then say "because I asked you not to." Then, if she presses the issue, without making concessions or apologies, or letting your pulse raise a beat, tell her the reason why you don't want to be filmed. If she doesn't fall in line after that, be willing to show her the door/leave. Few things will make you more attractive to a woman than her genuinely believing that you're not afraid to lose her. Refusing to compromise on standards, preferences, and boundaries will set you apart in the best way.

>>34010493
No, men don't care. If they do, they probably want a shorter woman anyway. Women care about height so so much more it's actually kinda ridiculous

>>34037626
I love short girls! My heart just melts for anybody 4’9-just 5’0. Adorable

discord: seizureslug

>>34010493
the shorter the better, as long as you don't have the weird distorted midget proportions. miniature is sexy af. midget is gross.

>>34037698
I made a mistake, ignore this

Tell me I'm your type, and maybe I'll stick around. hoiyo83

Both genders:
What's petty red flag for you? Like if the person you're into likes a show/movie/band or whatever that you don't like. For me? If they're into the Smiths, it's a red flag

>>34043321
Tattoos

Inb4 “Hur not all of them”. All of them.

It’s easy for you people nowaday to make excuses and say “it’s ok to have tattoos” but the same mentality goes for whores. The first time you have an opportunity at marrying a virgin who waits until marriage, you would take it. Don’t lie. You find a woman with zero tattoos, you’ve won.

>>34043350
Weird projecting, I want no such thing.

Men,

would you find it weird if a girl asked you to jerk off in front of her. or wanted you to watch her jerk off?
Would you do it?

how weird is it?Like would you wait until youre far into the relationship or?

>>34043421
I mean, I'm an exhibitionist, so, that's kinda my thing. And I've got no complaints with watching her, either.

>>34043421
>or wanted you to watch her jerk off?
Say WHAT?

>>34043321
M
Sneezing into ones hands. Its horrifying behavior

>>34043421
I'm definitely down to do this but yes it would be a little weird to request, I'd be thrilled though.
>Like would you wait until youre far into the relationship or?
No, as long as we've boned a couple of times then shes free to ask me to jerk off in front of her

>>34043365
Just admit you’re a bum that has or does work in service industry and have no retirement plan outside of hoping you receive a good inheritance. You flip out if you can’t get weed

>>34043505
Huh?

>>34043321
Swifties, girls with tattoos, girls who vape, girls who go to protests, girls who give a fuck about Palestine, girls with pierced septums, girls who post daily selfies, girls who photograph their food.

>>34043421
Not weird, just not something I'd be into at all.

>>34043474
Based. We're not animals, we live in a society; you sneeze into your fucking elbow.

>>34025958
chastity retains your spiritual power theres no other point to it. your husband is either a total faggot or some kind of strong man if he can manage that

>>34024323
idk sex for pay is prostitution not therapy. therapy is someone helping you solve your problems

if you pay someone to fix your pipes they're a plumber if you pay someone to talk to you about fixing pipes its a teacher

>>34043731
>girls who go to protests, girls who give a fuck about Palestine
It's wrong to have moral beliefs?

>>34044524
Calling septum piercing chicks that have abortions when they’re bored moral…

well i've gotten to the point where i'm fantasizing about my work wife now. this can't be good

>>34044524
Subversion and sedition masquerading as activism is not morality.

>>34044840
Why is it a problem, friend?

Too hard to resist, wouldn't you say? emaquiie

Where are the guys who know how to treat a woman right? emaquiie

>>34043321
for me it's (consistently) using the wrong you're/your, there/their is also up there but it's less common to run into
i don't know how someone can have english as their first language, go through a full 12 grades of school, and fuck up elementary level english. it's really petty for it to be a dealbreaker but i just cannot find myself attracted to someone making that simple of a mistake

>>34043321
I really don’t like tattoos. The vast majority of them look ugly to me - part of the reason my ex and I broke up was because he wanted to get my name tattooed on him if we got married, which I have only seen end tragically and trashily.
I also cannot get behind constant food delivery. I don’t care how often you eat out, but stop paying some poor shmuck to deliver your energy drinks and go drive to the store like a grown-up. You’re spending more for the same thing at a worse temperature.
Vaping is gross too, but that feels less petty. You do not smell like cotton candy. You smell like shit.

>>34045716
Lol agreed

All of this shit is degenerate yet people today are so conditioned and domesticated that you sound crazy if you don’t adopt all of their fuckboy consooomer rituals.

I asked a forum where to find a TV that didn’t have any smart features and got ripped apart because I use a TV only occasionally and only as a display rather than bouncing from one gay brain drain app to another and giving voice commands and connecting it to my dishwasher. Cucks.

>>34045893
I can’t pretend I don’t engage in consoomerism. That being said, if I ever have a ‘smart’ device in my house, I’m shooting it.
That’s another one, I suppose. If you have a device in your house that is constantly listening to you, I am not coming over.
(If you have TV recommendations, I’d like to hear it. Not looking for one right now, but I’m moving soon and it’s on my list for when I get settled in.)

>>34045949
Buy a cheap Chinese TV, open the back, remove the WiFi board and microphone, you’re good to go. It will not be able to auto-update and nag you.

Get a Sceptre or Hisense. The amount of use you get out of it for the price is well worth it. As soon as something goes wrong or you damage it, there’s no pain in letting it go.

Can’t stand these gadget brains. They’re the type that base their car purchase on the size of the screen in the middle. These tards are constantly showing off their newest irresponsible purchase then complaining how stupid it was…then repeating the process. “Surely THIS device will live up to all the expectations sold to me by sponsored influencers!”

>>34026323
Hey Anon,
I personally love action movies, though I’m a bit of an anomaly as I’m a tomboy and possibly autistic. Some girls love action movies though, if they don’t, they might be willing to try it for you. Another way of doing this is most girls love a good romance subplots, maybe pick an action flick with a good romance and ease her in that way. Good luck!

Hello Anons,

I suppose this can be answered by both genders: what do you put on a profile to attract dates and/or potential boyfriends as a woman? What are guys attracted to? Women, what’s gotten you the most matches? I’ve waited half a year to get over my ex, and wanna hop back in the dating game. I’m playing behind due to being 32, but I’ve got some other stuff going for me. I’m definitely overweight, lost 50 pounds though since September and dropped into a better weight category. Yay! Still wanting to lose more though and plan to. I was in a relationship for almost 3 years so I’m rusty for sure. I’m also awkward, tomboyish, and possibly autistic. Got multiple nerdy hobbies, some I’m embarrassed about. Would this be offputting? I’m surrounded by nerd friends who say it’s a plus, but I want other opinions. Thanks for reading.

To Women:

What is your opinion on the cold approach? What venues/situations would make you most receptive, notwithstanding how attractive you personally find the guy?

>>34046346
I wouldn’t mind chatting if you have discord. I feel I’m experiencing a similar arc, as a guy tho.

Don’t list specific interests in your bio. Guys will legit pretend they care about animal crossing just to reel you in. Just put a short positive blurb, NOTHING NEGATIVE EVEN IF YOU THINK ITS CHEAKY.

For instance, if you’re a traveler you might say “47 states down, three to go” and leave it at that so somebody will ask you where you’ve been. It also sounds ambitious, like you have future plans.

>>34044524
girls who give a fuck about Palestine don't have moral beliefs, they're fucking sheeple who just care about what social media told them what to believe. not the same fucking thing.

>>34046446
Hey there!
Willing to add, I’m not comfortable posting my Discord due to a really, really bad experience on here, but I’m happy to add you. Maybe this is presumptuous but I only meet people in my state (this is related to my bad experience) but I am happy to chat. :)

>>34046578
I’m ok with chatting without meeting. Just like to make connections.

manyphases

>>34046346
i genuinely asked about tiddie sucking earlier in the thread. but i generally dont think being into nerdy stuff is off putting, aint nothing wrong with passion. It is however all about how you present yourself I suppose. totally down to chat
my discord is altpalc

>>34043321
Already posted but wanted to add a few more; women with fake nails, women with fake eyelashes, women who wear excessive makeup... basically if a wet wipe can turn your ass into an Animorph, I'm not interested.

>>34045570
Hard agree; how you do anything is how you do everything.

>>34043350
>>34045716
I actually have a theory when it comes to tattoos; I think they're often a way of compensating for an anemic personality or lacking a sense of self. Obvious exception for Polynesians or people who come from backgrounds where tattoos have cultural or spiritual significance; tatau and irezumi are not comparable to getting your zodiac sign on your ankle or a sleeve which prominently features Art the clown.

>>34046346
You're a woman; you will not struggle to get matches. *Quality* matches, however...

>>34046446
>Don't list specific interests in your bio
This; skew more toward vague and esoteric references.
>NOTHING NEGATIVE EVEN IF YOU THINK IT'S CHEAKY
Also, this; coming off as arrogant or entitled will alienate decent men, and fuckboys will take it as an invitation to ruin you.
>if you're a traveler you might say "47 states down, three to go"
Again, I agree with everything being said here, and the logic behind it. I'll also add that liking to travel is just assumed at this point, and the difference between Anon's suggested line and "I love to travel" is the former showcases your personality and is a natural conversation starter, while the latter comes across as "I have no personality, and would like someone to pay for my vacations" even though on the surface there's not much of a difference.

>>34046473
This, pretty much. Modern activism is invariably performative, recreational, and dishonest.

>>34046780
>quality matches

That is my concern as well, and finding a nerdy Christian bf, that’s ideal.

>>34043321
Probably too many video games (playing or collecting) and ANY hint of inceldom/blackpill.

>>33997180
we don't treat treat women like humans because they don't treat men like humans.
>I would rather be alone in the woods with a bear than a man

Sweet words might just earn you my attention. emyzeth

Tonight's the perfect night for a little excitement. You game? emyzeth

>>34046803
I hate people like you. Leave the needy men alone. Most of you who speak like this cannot handle a nerdy man. You have no interests you don't engage with his. It's just such a waste of everyone's time.

>>34047786
Bro, one of my hobbies is calligraphy, TTRPGs (not just D&D), I read a fair amount, and I’ve played competitive Pokemon since gen 5 in multiple tourney sets including a Nintendo sanctioned one. But yeah, guess I’m just a phony.

>>34046810
>Probably too many video games
Do you agree with her?

To women:
Do you have a threshold as far as how much a man makes that you'd look for, like a lower bar to achieve salary? I get the whole "more money is always better", but realistically speaking the standard idea that I've seen thrown around (that women want a man who is 6' tall, 6" long, and makes 6 figures) is unrealistic for many men. If a man makes less but can manage it well and not have to live paycheck to paycheck, does it even out? Is financial stability in the form of living within his means, even if that means not being able to shower you with gifts, a good trait to look for?

Also I know it's not portrayed often in media but do lots of women still want to be a housewife for a man that will provide for them, and maybe be a mother, or is that still deemed as 'oppressive'? I heard a lot of people post around Covid that they don't want to work anymore and want to be housewifes again and not have to have a career, but idk if that's a minority or if that's a reasonable amount of them. I know (good) men still want to provide for a wife so she doesn't have to work and they can adhere to more traditional nuclear-family roles, but is it the same for women?

did girls assume i have a small dick because i have a big belly?
ive gotten the impression they do and i have experienced suprise

>>34048395
>"BRO, I've got SUCH AUTISTIC fixations, people say I'm "special"."
>>34048948
"I'm autistic and actually believe women want to be smooshed and shoved back into the box of being a "nuclear family house wife"."

You two are perfect for each other lol

>>34048851
Nah, I’ve put that and more into several of my games, mostly Pokemon but a few others as well. I think it’s if they put off chores, friends, and girlfriends to only do video games is when it’s a red flag. The excessive collecting too, especially if they never even touch them.

>>34048979
>Being a housewife is being crammed into a box
I don't mean taking away their rights and chaining them to the floor or something like some boomer era fantasy larp
I think some women might be fine with having their husband work for 40-50 hours a week so they don't have to, instead of having a job on top of the standard house stuff

>>34048948
I feel like it’s not fair to judge; I’m not a rich model or anything, so I shouldn’t ask that of the people I’m interested in dating.
I would like it if my partner had a stable job he was happy with and that had a good work/life balance, but I do find financial responsibility and knowledge far more important than actual income. A new car or a fancy bag or whatever doesn’t mean shit if it’s going to get repossessed.
I think the latter is more variable from person to person. I personally like housekeeping quite a bit, and in a dream world I’d have no issue with it, but in the now, I’d rather have a ‘real’ job + higher household income and split the chores than have myself and my family completely dependent on one source of money. I’d also feel really guilty getting to do the fun stuff like vaccuuming/cooking/grocery shopping while my husband is slaving away for some megacorporation.
I’m sure there are women who feel differently, but at least in my friend groups, this sentiment is pretty common.

>>34049356
That makes sense
I wish that wages were still high enough overall that a one-income household wasn't a challenge for some to obtain, but I get that some people like working too

>>34046346
>What are guys attracted to?
No filters, light makeup, pics that aren't excessively staged and honesty in the bio.

why are women so pro-gay? are they just stupid or something? same question but about blacks and mexicans

>>34046810
what in the cinnamon toast fuck is "inceldom" anyway
the term gets tossed around like goddamn mardi gras beads as if it were the perfect catchall for anyone someone happened to not like that day

>>34050137
>"What is inceldom?"
>"I honestly hate women because they do not see me as a romantic interest, much less a partner for sex, despite – as far as I can see – doing nothing wrong. I hate them even more that they are psychically repelled to me even though I've done nothing: crossing their legs, changing seats, clutching their bags, because, as we have established, they dress down to strips and tatters singularly for Chad, and not the layman..."

>"Therefore I will wage war against dipshit, radical, feminists who shriek and cry, arms flailing, hair flying, and motor scooter breaking underneath the girating 500lb. load, demanding I fuck their hags in their old age, these sagging sacks of skin. Demanding that I settle for these landwhales whom no one desires, their hair more tinted of BPD than of youthful rebellion, because "If looks mattered, I wouldn't be dating you". Demanding that I acknowledge and kneel before their altar of presupposed intellectual superiority and university degrees because Chad wasn't there when she wasn't 20 anymore and suddenly she became "a serious and dedicated sapiosexual."..."

>"So, I will stand. I will fight them by denying them what they only half desire. Regardless my place in the relationship's dynamic, I am not a permanent, irreplaceable person in someone's heart nor them in mine. In a suicide attack against the depths of my own sanity and society's sadistic oppression, I scream "Banzai!" as I dive into the red fires of passion and youth by striving to adopt and breed a young, virgin, qt3.14 18yo. – the prime age for motherhood – and grooming her to love me only. Together, we will rebuild society as it was meant to be: pure and white and full of great men (((no homos allowed))). Simple as."
>"The Elliot Rodger Manifesto" Ch. 2 "Our Anthem", Pg. 38-42

Jokes aside, I AM looking for an editor to help me write this as a better book. Thank you.

>>34051029
Pretty good summary, I can agree there are women who go overboard with “feminism” that borders or is outright misandry and demanding praise over simply existing, but there are men who have done that in spades and see no issue with the status quo and are enraged when they are not gifted women’s affection, attention, and sexually. They hate girls with a sexual history but their ideal virgin gf would only have sec with them (insert men can’t stand criticism joke here), they read into social interactions even if they are neutral, they listen to pickup artists and podcast bros like Andrew Tate and buy into the “all women are whores” belief hook, line, and sinker. Again, plenty of women with issues, but historically? Men are the far bigger offenders. As the saying goes: men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid a man will rape and kill them. 1/3 women have been sexually harassed, raped, or even CSA, and that speaks volumes.

>the person above me is a ginormous faggot

>>34043321
Definitely tattoos. And dreadlocks.And if somebody doesn't like dogs; I don't necessarily mean somebody who doesn't want a dog as a pet, I mean somebody who dislikes dogs. Never trusted them, they're usually wrong'uns.

>>34043421
....Yeah, I'd be pretty down for this, tbqh.

>>34046803
>inding a nerdy Christian bf,
You're better just meeting one in church.

Maybe you're the spark I've been waiting for tonight. emaquiie