self improvement thread for self improovers - /soc/ (#34045267) [Archived: 790 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: XFYyBDmh
6/15/2025, 7:04:32 PM No.34045267
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>ASL
18F
>About
getting back into reading! i love french and japanese music, walks, embroidery, and anything crafty. i love feeling thankful for the small things in my life.
i struggle with depression. i have no motivation or discipline, its hard. everything is hard. i want to get better
>Goals
- deep clean + develop consistent cleaning schedule
- lose weight
- learn a language
- begin doing my dbt workbook + journaling
- probably more that im blanking on!
>Looking for
those genuinely looking to improve
>Contact
aobaoa
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Anonymous ID: 19N5p2Qs
6/15/2025, 8:04:03 PM No.34045381
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>A/S/L
37/M/US
>Interests
Can talk and shit post about:
/vr/, /a/, /co/, /mu/, /toy/, or /fa/
>Looking For
Someone else online that wants to know, learn, study, or teach:
Galician, Scots Leid, Irish, Welsh, Breton, Asturian, Scottish Gaelic, Doric, Shetlandic, Glaswegian, Dundonian, Orcadian, Cumbrian, Northumbrian, Ulster Scots, or Edinburgensian
>Not Looking For
Server, video, voice, horny, lewd, or porn
>Discord
yeeow
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6/15/2025, 10:52:54 PM No.34045763
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Anonymous ID: kWf7B8sz
6/16/2025, 1:27:29 AM No.34046150
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>Asl
31/m/Boston
>Looking for
Friends to chat, vc, hang with rl
>Hobbies and interests
I am an abstract artist, my post is the art I make with sharpie, marker, and pen on paper. I really like Aphex twin, Seinfeld, and a lot of other media. I've seen and heard a lot so I'm down with chatting about just about anything.
>Not looking for
Idk I'm pretty tolerant
>Discord
swang0
Anonymous ID: UrGrC2KV
6/16/2025, 1:38:35 PM No.34047642
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Let's spice things up a little, shall we? emaquiie
Anonymous ID: 6CSbp5SQ
6/17/2025, 4:36:42 AM No.34049626
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Hello! 24 M, USA here! I am looking for a longterm stroking pal. Biggest thing is I am looking for someone I click well with and can be actual friends with, not just horny stroke buddies (butt definitely that too)

>>Sexy Stuff
I am really into big booty girls, dancing girls, women in tight clothes, and more. I have a pretty small 4 incher, and I LOVE being humiliated for it! I currently have a hard time edging and lasting a long time when stroking so I would love a more experienced (HUNG) and older buddy to help me and my little dicklet stroke! While I am not looking for a feeder, I would definitely prefer a buddy who enjoys sharing porn, and does so frequently, although I also am able to share! I would love a bud to control my little dicky and make it cum whenever he wants:) also I love BBC!!!

>>Some Women I like
VixenP, LyraCr0w0, Alexis Texas, Siri Dahl, Jade Ramsey, GGE, Assondra, Ashley Alban and more!

>>Normal hobbies ETC.
I am into all nerdy things, comics, gaming, computers, anime, technology, music, and more! Please reach out about games, computer stuff, anything like that I would love to discuss! Some of my favorite games included, Enter/Exit the Gungeon, TBoI, and other roguelikes, at the moment I am playing through Cyberpunk2077!

>>Not looking for
Please don't reachout if you aren't seriously looking for a long term buddy, or if you would ghost me. I am also not a buyer of any sort, don't share money with people online. Please reach out!

My discord is: lilbrim

Thanks for reading!
Anonymous ID: UNWn81uQ
6/17/2025, 6:17:23 AM No.34049811
Full-Moon
Full-Moon
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>>34045267 (OP)
>ASL
27 M USA
>Looking for
A bio F to talk to daily, be friends with, fool around with or date/marry if it gets that far. Any kind of connection is nice as long as it is meaningful. I mainly want someone who communicates like a real person, with thoughts, feelings, opinions and little stories to tell. Of course there are other qualities I'd like to select for, but none of those matter as much as this one.
>About me
I'm not sure what you'd like to know about me. I like to think I'm smart and attractive. I'm very straightforward. Kind of scatterbrained. Some parts of my personality are mercurial.. I can be shy sometimes and outgoing other times. I'm restless at times and can't stop myself from walking or pacing around.
I'm currently studying. I exercise daily. Read. Journal. I have other hobbies and interests that I won't mention in detail here.
>Discord
memoryawake
Anonymous ID: 6o7YSc3A
6/17/2025, 5:53:57 PM No.34050949
>A/S/L
19m
>Interests/About Me
Into everything mostly. Really love cooking for myself and others, especially doing prep work for dishes and stuff like that. Additionally love to read but lately been slacking off on it. I also love learning and trying not to procrastinate, been learning German (around A2 but my speaking is shit) and Arabic recently (beginner and learning MSA mostly). Really love vidya, especially singleplayer games, tho I do play mostly on my ps4 still. I have a shit ton of other interests that I'm probably forgetting to list here lol
>Looking For
Someone that I can talk to and be productive with, my main goals are mostly
>losing weight (98kg at 190/191cm, want to reach atleast 85kg while at the same time making myself more healthy/active in general)
>reaching a good level on both German and Arabic (aim is for fluency but that's far out)
>stop slacking off on my studies by doing extra courses/learning while I wait to attend uni
I would prefer it we ideally became friends that hold each other accountable, such as talking about what we've done today and so on.
>Not Looking For
coomers/gooners, people that are overly edgy, dry texters and so on
>Discord
_zelkaps_ (alt acc but if we click i might add to main)
Anonymous ID: 3KD84uU2
6/18/2025, 4:19:01 AM No.34052321
18F
beginning a self improvement journey. mostly related to looksmaxxing, but also other things (eg healthmaxxing).
i guess im just looking for someone to keep me company on this journey. i can be more specific about my goals in dms.
im not looking to date rn. i want to focus on myself
>contact
.pygmalia
Anonymous ID: FjCyQ7Zk
6/18/2025, 3:46:35 PM No.34053511
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>asl
20/Male/Europe
>letters
twink
>interests
I like outdoorsy stuff (hiking, camping, foraging, hunting), cooking, video games (only the good ones!), coding (in C!) tinkering with computers (BSD and Linux) and electronics, music (metal, rock and classical), sports (swimming and basketball),history and reading.
>looking for
A friend or a boyfriend, someone who I can form a genuine connection with.
Someone to study/do CTFs with.
>not looking for
Dry people
People that forget why they add me
Coomers
>contact
ackee205

pic is me :3
Anonymous ID: M7IGVkvI
6/18/2025, 10:16:57 PM No.34054337
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>ASL
24/M/USA
>About
NEET, former hikikomori. Lately I've getting out and doing all the things I've always wanted to do in life, like buying my own beer and snacks at the grocery store. I know enough Japanese to watch and read what I like, but I'm not actively learning it anymore (eternal maintenance mode). I've been learning Spanish off and on for the past couple months instead, but I'm considering dropping it for French, since a lot of the stuff I've been reading has been translated from French anyway. I don't think I'm a lazy person, just someone with horribly mixed up priorities. I study, read, and exercise everyday. Setbacks: generalized anxiety disorder, injury prone body.
>Goals
- Graduate NEETdom
- Strengthen my body
- Learn either Spanish or French
- Read more non-fiction
- Write some essays
- Autodidact it up with economics and accounting textbooks and lectures before enrolling.
- Dive into French Baroque music
- Go to some concerts
- Meet cool people
- Expand my wardrobe
>Looking for
Discussions about stuff you're interested in. Also conversations about dumb shit. Just say whatever comes to mind.
>Not looking for
VC. Porn addicts. Hateful people. People who aren't interested in talking about anything I mentioned in my about/goals.
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Anonymous ID: M7IGVkvI
6/18/2025, 10:21:59 PM No.34054351
>>34054337
lol...
>tag
gambols__
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6/19/2025, 11:27:51 AM No.34055881
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Maybe you're the spark I've been waiting for tonight. emaquiie
Anonymous ID: QgmZVwZN
6/19/2025, 5:45:18 PM No.34056556
>ASL
30 M USA
>About
Just a serial improover who has been trying to stay consistent with my goals and make new ones. I enjoy reading and appreciating art like photography, cooking, staying active and love animals. I like looking into fashion and finding under appreciated movies. I work in STEM currently.
>Looking for
Someone who is also interested in creating goals and sort of like an accountability partner. Maybe work on a project together in the future.
>Goals
- get to 200 lbs benchpress
- <15% body fat
- run 5K every Saturday again
- start learning CS and firmware/OS development
- work on passive income opportunities
>not looking for
lazy fat people, people who complain a lot, always depressed people, browns
>discord contact
Vittun
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Anonymous ID: QgmZVwZN
6/19/2025, 5:46:00 PM No.34056559
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>>34056556
Forgot a pic
Anonymous ID: clB5HPEG
6/19/2025, 10:03:12 PM No.34057129
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>>34045267 (OP)
>ASL
19/M/EU
>About
depressed, lazy, NEET shutin programmer with social anxiety. I program a lot (mainly backend, sometimes I write sysadmin and devops stuff), read manga, watch a lot of movies, listen to a ton of music and I play videogames.
>Goals
- Get a proper sleep schedule. I am already pretty good on track with waking up (10 AM), but falling asleep is still something I need to work on
- Learning a new language. I was thinking of either Russian or Japanese, no particulair reason.
- Write more projects in C. I use it from time to time to write bindings or fork some FLOSS tools, but never for full fledged projects.
- Get a job. I am broke, and I am getting tired of rotting my days away in my room.
- Improve my body. Even though I am not fat, I am kinda chubby and I don't like it.
- Workout every day. I have a short workout I do daily, but sometimes I push it off until it's too late to do, resulting in missed days.
- Write more often in my journal, and write longer entries. I have been keeping a journal for the past month or so, and it has helped a lot with keeping my thoughts ordered. But the entries I write are pretty short, and sometimes theres a few days inbetween the entries.
>Looking for
Someone to push me to get off my arse and do the things I need to do. I lack the self discipline for it, unless I act on impulse.
If you want, I could also do the same (granted I won't forget your goals lol)
>Contact
keptcomposurefromexposure

Even though life knocks me on my ass every time, I always get back up, because I'm not a bitch.
Anonymous ID: NRu5S9+b
6/20/2025, 4:22:24 PM No.34059327
An American 23 year old man.

I am getting back into socializing with people. I like to talk about pseudo psychological topics about human behavior. I also like diving into topics about esotericism like religion and or extra terrestrial findings. I quite enjoy astrology as a guilty pleasure.

My current goals are:
- Getting into shape for the summer
- Learning to stay in a consistent positive mood
- Motivating myself to do more in my connections to other people
- Keeping a strict routine about cleaning my apartment

I am looking for someone to keep me company for the current summer season. Someone to really bond with and explore the internet with.

I am not looking for anyone under 21 or anyone quizzing me for information about myself.

I am a 23 year old male residing in the United States.

I have a variety of interests such as roleplaying, listening to obscure music, writing poems and recently have gotten into cooking. I am not very good at cooking.

I have Bipolar Depressive Disorder.

My favorite anime is Darker than Black.

I am looking for company throughout the 2025 summer. I may not be around 24/7 due to my seasonal job but I will be sure to respond when I can. Keep in mind, I talk like an AI and I apologize in advance.

I am not looking for anyone under 21, nor am I looking for people who just watch rather than act. I am also not looking for anyone trying to use my illness as a form of content or amusement.

staticconstellations
Anonymous ID: QK2fHdoY
6/21/2025, 9:56:22 AM No.34061514
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Only real men need to message me-boys can scroll. emaquiie
Anonymous ID: 4T4KVObm
6/22/2025, 4:22:17 PM No.34064777
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Think you can keep up with someone as fiery as me? emyzeth