Questions For /soc/ - /soc/ (#34058630) [Archived: 761 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: 7fBHXxqg
6/20/2025, 9:10:01 AM No.34058630
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1. Do you femanons hate the male anons who are struggling with their life and looking for someone to love? (If so, do you really truly feel within your hearts that you want those male anons dead?)

2. If there are better P2P FOSS apps out there that doesn't spy/collect any data, and doesn't require phone numbers and/or emails to sign up, would you use them over apps like discord, kik, snapchat, telegram, and others? (And would you ever try/use qTox?)

3. What can be done to help all anons have more success with finding some love here regardless of their current life situation?

4. What can be done to help any nervous anons feel more safe and comfortable with text/voice/video chatting? (And what could be done to help any nervous anons feel more comfortable with sexting?)

5. If you femanons had only two choices to pick from and nothing else, what male anons would you pick: Genuine sweethearts who are poor and loves you unconditionally but aren't as good looking, or abusive sociopaths/psychopaths who are very rich and hates your guts but looks amazing?

6. How do you male anons feel when some of the other anons make fun of you and call you incels and other nasty names, especially when you're struggling in life and having a hard time finding a femanon to love?

7. In a hypothetical scenario, let's say that a few scientists decided to illegally experiment on people without their knowledge or consent, and they laced some medicine with a new technology never before seen, but when this new technology enters the people, it silently sterilizes their entire reproductive system, and it passes on from person to person like an STD. If you were one of the lucky people that doesn't have this technology inside you, but there's a really attractive person that you love so much who does have the technology inside them, would you risk your entire reproductive system and have sex with that person even though you won't be able to make a family ever again for the rest of your life?
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Anonymous ID: PJRet97i
6/20/2025, 9:11:33 AM No.34058632
bruh stop overthinking it
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Anonymous ID: uxyd5yBE
6/20/2025, 9:42:50 AM No.34058689
yeah dude, the issue is that very few people take anything seriously, so the odds that two people can properly connect with the right goals, mindsets, and at the right time... you can shoot your shot or not, and you can choose to not become part of the problem, but its just how shit is...
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Anonymous ID: XlH01NXm
6/20/2025, 10:16:24 AM No.34058732
>>34058630 (OP)
I don't mean to be mean anon, But I can smell this post.
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Anonymous ID: DwJ48Oje
6/20/2025, 11:59:55 AM No.34058856
>>34058630 (OP)
1. Uhhh, no? This is a weird question to ask. No one wants poor guys who are struggling and want to find someone to love to be dead.

2. Had to look this one up, so like a messaging app? And absolutely if there were. Discord is full of degens, furries, and groomers, and sometimes it’s like a circle instead of a Venn Diagram.

3. Get them offline, outside, engaging in hobbies, communities, fitness, and church.

4. I mean, the above would probably work because suddenly VC/texting doesn’t seem nearly as scary as talking to women IRL. Sexting, unsure as I don’t sext or like to receive them, I’d just say be confident and don’t let nay sayers or nasty people get you down. If they don’t like you that’s one less broad you have to waste your time on, they’re not for you!

5. Definitely the former over the latter any day. Actually had the horrible combo of poor, mid looking, psychopath that legitimately tried to kill me about 6 months ago, do not recommend.

6. Doesn’t seem to apply to me, these do seem very navel gazing questions though that are directed at a very specific audience.

7. Eh, depends on a few factors. Is the human population dying or becoming increasingly rare? Is it a machine causing the sterilization? What if a cure could be found? Would this person be already established in a loving relationship with me? I waffle back and forth on kids, but sure.

Hope that helps!
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Anonymous ID: 7fBHXxqg
6/20/2025, 12:27:57 PM No.34058897
>>34058632
>>34058689
>>34058732
>>34058856
Okay I'm sorry! I won't ask anymore questions! I was just trying to figure out how to fit in properly so that I don't end up pissing anons off by accident. Just ignore this thread.
Anonymous ID: f2uMG3R9
6/20/2025, 3:03:21 PM No.34059135
>>34058630 (OP)
i'm just answering this one because it's probably the only one i have something useful to say about
>6. How do you male anons feel when some of the other anons make fun of you and call you incels and other nasty names, especially when you're struggling in life and having a hard time finding a femanon to love?
i mean, i don't enjoy it, but i also don't take it terribly seriously. there are at least as many posts out there on 4chan which make the foids feel terrible and i know those don't represent how i feel... well, not unless i'm really mad. but if you're in a really bad spot mentally then you're only going to focus on the posts being mean to you and you're gonna miss all the ones which aren't like that.
Anonymous ID: kzMjr4re
6/20/2025, 3:25:07 PM No.34059176
>>34058630 (OP)
>1. Do you femanons hate the male anons who are struggling with their life and looking for someone to love?
no? why in the world would i?
>2. If there are better P2P FOSS apps out there that doesn't spy/collect any data...would you use them over apps like discord
i already deleted discord and only ever use signal
>3. What can be done to help all anons have more success with finding some love here regardless of their current life situation?
no idea
>4. What can be done to help any nervous anons feel more safe and comfortable with text/voice/video chatting? (And what could be done to help any nervous anons feel more comfortable with sexting?)
no idea and sexting is kind of gross/degenerate
>5. If you femanons had only two choices to pick from and nothing else, what male anons would you pick: Genuine sweethearts who are poor and loves you unconditionally but aren't as good looking, or abusive sociopaths/psychopaths who are very rich and hates your guts but looks amazing?
would rather be alone
>6. How do you male anons feel when some of the other anons make fun of you and call you incels and other nasty names, especially when you're struggling in life and having a hard time finding a femanon to love?
no one should take shitposts from 4chan seriously. you really shouldn't let it affect your mental state
>7. In a hypothetical scenario, let's say that a few scientists decided to illegally experiment on people without their knowledge or consent, and they laced some medicine with a new technology...would you risk your entire reproductive system and have sex with that person even though you won't be able to make a family ever again for the rest of your life?
no
Anonymous ID: 4A8n6X5R
6/20/2025, 3:58:43 PM No.34059266
>>34058630 (OP)
I'm not even saying this to be mean; please seek help. Counselling, therapy, psychiatrist, medication. And simply changing your daily habits. You CAN do it.
You are not in a good place, and no amount of love by itself is going to pull you out of it. Believe me, I know.
You're miserable now. And if you found a relationship, you'd end up miserable in it, too. Or worse, in a cycle of seeking love to fill a hole in yourself, like it's a drug.
Don't do that to others, but more importantly, don't do it to yourself.
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Anonymous ID: xOoAaoMi
6/20/2025, 8:09:19 PM No.34059810
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Do I have your attention, or are you playing hard to get? emyriion
Anonymous ID: zKKzM0no
6/21/2025, 11:30:55 AM No.34061689
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Feeling a bit bored today... anyone wanna brighten my day? emyriion
Anonymous ID: zKKzM0no
6/21/2025, 11:52:47 AM No.34061714
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Sweet on the outside, wild underneath... intrigued? emaquiie
Anonymous ID: yR+madwx
6/22/2025, 4:50:41 AM No.34063582
>>34058630 (OP)
So many men ick me out. I know there's good men out there but a lot of you seem to not see women as human beings, just a different species that you like to blame your shitty life choices on.

You aren't entitled to a girlfriend just because you think you are a nice person and FYI you are not a nice person if you grow bitterness and animosity for women not grabbing you off the street and trying to fuck you when you have a shitty attitude about them and life in general. Women can smell men like that from miles off and want nothing to do with you because we know you dehumanize us and think of us as a collective in an incredibly ugly light in general.

I'd prefer a man that likes women and sees them as human beings with autonomy, feelings and validates the fact that they can make their own choices, even if that choice doesn't include them.
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Anonymous ID: 5L9C3kFc
6/22/2025, 6:35:19 AM No.34063787
>>34058630 (OP)
1. No? This is an odd and sad question. I don't think there are many people who think like that. I hope there aren't.
2. I use Discord because all my friends do. If my friends moved to a more secure app, I'd be happy to swap. I have no issue using multiple messaging apps, either.
3. Spend more time prioritizing your health, hobbies, and loved ones. I'm not going to say love will magically find you, but I will say that people are far more attractive when they have priorities outside of finding a relationship.
4. As cliche as it is, be yourself - you'll naturally filter out the people who don't click with you, giving you more time for the ones who do.
5. I would never want to be with somebody who hates me. Don't really care how rich or handsome they are. Somebody who actually gives a shit and treats me with kindness wins every time.
6. N/A.
7. Doesn't matter to me, I can't get pregnant anyways.
>>34059266
Also, listen to this anon. Be good to yourself and the people around you.
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6/22/2025, 8:47:05 PM No.34065369
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Let's chat and see where things go... I don't disappoint. emyriion
Anonymous ID: zjw+MmsG
6/22/2025, 8:52:53 PM No.34065388
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Older guys, you always know how to make me smile. emyriion
Anonymous ID: um3KBU6a
6/23/2025, 12:00:38 AM No.34065875
>>34063582
>So many men ick me out. I know there's good men out there but a lot of you seem to not see women as human beings, just a different species that you like to blame your shitty life choices on.
>You aren't entitled to a girlfriend just because you think you are a nice person and FYI you are not a nice person if you grow bitterness and animosity for women not grabbing you off the street and trying to fuck you when you have a shitty attitude about them and life in general. Women can smell men like that from miles off and want nothing to do with you because we know you dehumanize us and think of us as a collective in an incredibly ugly light in general.
>I'd prefer a man that likes women and sees them as human beings with autonomy, feelings and validates the fact that they can make their own choices, even if that choice doesn't include them.
>So many women ick me out. I know there's good women out there but a lot of you seem to not see men as human beings, just a different species that you like to blame your shitty life choices on.

You aren't entitled to a boyfriend just because you think you are a nice person and FYI you are not a nice person if you grow bitterness and animosity for men not grabbing you off the street and trying to fuck you when you have a shitty attitude about them and life in general. Men can smell women like that from miles off and want nothing to do with you because we know you dehumanize us and think of us as a collective in an incredibly ugly light in general.

I'd prefer a woman that likes men and sees them as human beings with autonomy, feelings and validates the fact that they can make their own choices, even if that choice doesn't include them.
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Anonymous ID: AJCfgpd1
6/23/2025, 9:41:23 AM No.34067056
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Let's spice things up a little, shall we? emyriion
Anonymous ID: m7yJ+pJ8
6/23/2025, 9:49:21 AM No.34067067
>>34065875
if i make a post here that i'm looking for a boyfriend i could have 250 discord adds in 10 minutes. cope and sneed
Anonymous ID: SzwGun8F
6/23/2025, 10:02:51 AM No.34067087
bro you are overthinking it completely stop gooning get off 4chan find a job go gym and pick up healthy normal interests and maintain basic hygiene and try to get some social skills. its 2025 its not hard to get a girlfriend. the hard part is finding the right one for you. if youre a degen youll probably find a degen gf its that simple.
Anonymous ID: h8hbgWXe
6/23/2025, 10:21:49 AM No.34067120
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Think you can keep up with someone as fiery as me? emaquiie