New Thread Idea. Copy the format if you like. Share a little bit of your story, but save some so you have stuff to talk about. Maybe you can meet someone who gets you. Be sure to list any trauma types you're not comfortable talking about in the not looking for.

>asl
>summary of your trauma
>coping mechanisms
>looking for
>not looking for
>contact

good luck

>>34069899 (OP)

>asl
36/m/usa
>summary of your trauma
I've outlived multiple suicidal partners as well as peers and even my younger brother. grief and loss. suicide. isolation and abandonment.
>coping mechanisms
was a drug addict for a long time, but a decade sober. cooking, gaming, media consumption, playing instruments, talking to people.
>looking for
a woman or widow who understands grief and loss. someone that isn't going to commit suicide without me.
>not looking for
friend collectors. cock and balls. people killing themselves after they get to know me.
>contact
moth_dander

>asl
20/M/Wisconsin
>summary of your trauma
Abusive alcoholic father, mother passing when i was 17.
>coping mechanisms
i don't really know. I just go numb and on autopilot sometimes.
>looking for
A genuine, romantic relationship with somebody
>not looking for
Men, trans, sexual stuff, minors.
>contact
discord: chromascopic

bump before i go to bed

>A/S/L
37/M/US
>Interests
Video Games, anime, cartoons, comics, technology, music, fashion
>Looking For
Roleplay: sisters (cis, trans, nb), sexually curious, childhood friends
Over 27, wholesome, caring, and loving to spoil and be spoiled with
>Not Looking For
Masculine men; like with facial hair; moustache, beard, or hairy bodies
Under 27, gross, nasty, weird, dark, abusive, or hurtful roleplay stories
Voice, video chat, porn, nudes without getting to talk or know each other
Diapers, littles, and cubs. Not into being infantilised or childish typing
Mommies and daddies. Not into being your child or surrogate parent
>Discord
hya.kko

>>34069910
1 time is a tragedy.
2 times is a very unfortunate coincidence.
But more than that? Anon...

>>34069899 (OP)
fill this form nigga
https://ivkx30tk.forms.app/untitled-form

>>34069899 (OP)
it's an important thing to note that trauma bonding is actually a way to describe a relationship between an abuser and a victim. it's clear this is about bonding over trauma, but it's important to recognize that in spaces where unhealthy relationships are common.

>>34070753
oh my fault! i didn't have any maladaptive intent with the thread. what should we call it if it were to get made again?

>>34070672
i live in a bleak place and gravitate toward other people with depression. most of my peers from my teens to mid 20s are all deceased.

>asl
27 F USA, Married
>summary of your trauma
Physical, sexual, and emotional abuse in childhood. Loss. Institutionalization. Homelessness and poverty. All that fun stuff.
>coping mechanisms
Making art -- writing, painting, miniatures, collage, etc. And escapism -- video games and documentaries on obscure topics. I also like to hike and swim.
>looking for
Friends
>not looking for
Anything nsfw or romantic.
>contact
deathobsessed

>>34070753
thanks for posting this. the OP of this thread is definitely an abuser looking for a young girl to groom

>>34071680
seethe. cope. my ex is 30+. sorry if you're struggling.

>>34071737
>nearly 40 making "trauma bonding" posts
also notice how he didn't deny the abuser allegations, steer clear he will get you to kys

it's not about confirming or denying anything because you've made your assumption without talking to me and nothing i say will change your mind. add me on discord and talk about it or stay a troll kid.

I'm not going anywhere near you, malignant tumor

>>34071771
>not looking for
>people killing themselves after they get to know me.

you can't read and are rage baiting. stay small.

19 f usa
depressed
lonely
need someone to make my life meaningful

tag serenecabbages

Who's volunteering to be my little secret tonight? emyriion

>asl
18/f/usa
>summary of your trauma
...
>coping mechanisms
personal*
>looking for
a friend
>not looking for
people who make me feel more sad and perverts
>contact
lalalambyy

>>34072735
archives indicate you're a fucking psychopathic cunt.

20m. US

Everyone has daddy issues. Come text me, and I'll be sure to degrade you like a whore, but call you my good little girl afterwards. I'll make you into Daddy's personal little sex toy

Discord: johnny011758

>>34072912
this is really gross to post in a trauma thread. but also even grosser you think a 20 year old can pull off being a daddy lol

Tell me I'm your type, and maybe I'll stick around. emyzeth

>asl

22/m/ny

>trauma

Well. I had some sexual abuse at a very young age. Eventually, I went on and had a domme who would have "no verbal limits" in what she would say to me. We came to find out that when I am put through a lot of emotional stress, I age regress. She would encourage me to kill myself (because I specifically asked for that, and I've never attempted nor will I), and she would make me depressed all the time. She triggered me a lot. A lot of people feel like they have to walk on egg shells around me, but she did not hold back. I kind of wish she went harder though. I passed out into a slumber a couple of times from the pain, like I would be jerking off, start getting too depressed to jerk off and then I would slow down mentally & take a nap to cope ig.

It's really dumb and illogical, but one of the insecurities I gained from people (and not from porn) is the classic small dick insecurity because I'm 3". I wouldn't change my size, but it's depressing how people will treat people with that body type sometimes. It's not so much about being rejected by a woman because surprise surprise, women really like penis in general. Like I've been rejected for my size about twice or a little more, idk. It's more being afraid of what others think because I personally am happy with my body. I fetishized that with my old domme. It's dumb, but it hurt a lot.

Idk if it's trauma, but I was also neglected a lot as a kid.

>coping mechanisms

I like to look at porn & hentai and jerk off a lot. It's hard to do anything besides sexual or online stuff because I have anhedonia for things like idk skiing or playing soccer or hiking or small talk or something.

I feel like I need constant reassurance to be happy, but idk if that's true.

>looking for

18+ cis women only. VC only.

Idk if I should even post on here. But, I'm curious about having someone who could indulge in my age regression trauma stuff a lil.

>not looking for

Minors, men, anything illegal

>discord

worhtla

Lonely and looking for someone to change that... any takers? emyzeth

Want a little tease? Ask me nicely. emaquiie

Too hard to resist, wouldn't you say? emaquiie

Generous guys, you know where to find me.

>asl
18, mtf, US
>summary of your trauma
Transgender from religious family with generational trauma. Narcissistic dad and alcoholic bpd mom, sole witness to mother’s suicide. Regrettable underage prostitution.
>coping mechanisms
I don’t remember a majority of my life from 13-16 and have never revealed large parts of my trauma to anyone, I feel it potentially makes me impure. I’ve tripped on acid a good bit recently and it has helped me gain some mental clarity.
>looking for
Anyone, a friend, maybe another trans person, someone around my age, maybe someone who knows a way to remember my past or ways to cope with inability
>not looking for
Anyone to call me an idiot
>contact
theoclubberlang (Alt account on discord, will add you on my main)

Let's make tonight one to remember... or forget.

>>34069910

immediately asked me to vc and when I declined told me he could see why my boyfriend killed himself and unfriended me, 10/10 trauma bonding

>>34069910
what happened with your long distance gf?

>>34085639

>inb4 she committed suicide as well

bump

>asl
18/female/usa
>summary of your trauma
i will not share my personal trauma on 4chan.org
mental illnesses... schizoaffective, schizoid, and ocd. not suicidal, just tired.
>coping mechanisms
i isolate. i don't mind it, but i've been told it's an unhealthy coping mechanism. i also used to cut myself, but that's cringe.
when it comes to healthy ones, i usually read, game, sleep, draw, or listen to music. i've looked into journaling, but it'd just turn into me seething about not wanting to talk to people
>looking for
a single person to attach myself to. yes, i have schizoid, however... i have craved one person to call my own for a while.
>not looking for
sociable people
>contact
exhumeyou
[[art by doomedsarcoma]]

niggas think they all that and a bag of clit chips until they see my pussy. you want some real trauma? come ovah here and eat this pussy. my pussy squirt looks like grill cheese had a baby with the chernobryl nuclear reactor waste site.

Our server was made for trauma dumping and venting to egirls and eboys, you'll 100% find the validation you seek inside

https://discord.gg/Qzm49qHRcn

Hello, we're trying to make a Discord server that can be used to talk with anons and share porn to fap together with them. Please join, it'll be great to have you there! >.<
https://discord.gg/vwsQfahwdy
Gooning is a coping mechanism, so you can use it to trauma bond as well!

>>34069899 (OP)
>asl
25/f/usa
>summary of your trauma
severe enough to get a personality disorder or 2 out of it
self aware enough to not be completely awful but i have permanent issues
>coping mechanisms
all forms of escapism, functional drug addict until i quit everything last year
>looking for
someone to talk to
>not looking for
balls on my screen
>contact
newwavve