This place has caught my attention, and I've been reading several posts, etc., and I have a question: Have people really found partners here? Or is it just a cycle of despair and no return? It's curious to me and I would like to hear the general opinion of several anons too.

>>34075584 (OP)
I've found one before

>>34075587
And how was it? Was it a good experience?

>>34075584 (OP)
i have, it feels insane to come back here because it's such a wasteland but my thought process is, if it's happened before surely it can happen again. I am thinking of just accepting being single though

>>34075584 (OP)
Meet deez nuts

>>34075584 (OP)
It's like finding a needle in a haystack.

>>34075600
Another thing I've noticed is that there are more men than women, isn't that depressing or something?

it is entirely a matter of luck, i found a very cute and very awesome girl here

Total despair with no actual women here willing to date and love. All stuck up heartless selfish bitches

https://discord.gg/G7NFvFQH plz join if ur bored also bored

Yeah I'm a femanon and hooked up with my fat looksmatch from soc but he blocked me two weeks later. We cuddled and he fingered my pussy and told me how wet I am.

I tried e-dating off discord and he started drama with me instead of simply fucking me.

So far 4chan has given me more favorable results compared to dating people I met on discord.

>inb4 you probably did something to the discord dude to make him start drama
He chose to get involved with my former friends and chose to stretch the drama out. He could have chose to block everyone who hated me and chose to block me too, but he started drama.

I have a 4chan boyfriend now who is openly affectionate and sweet and he's meeting me soon.

Tldr; dating on 4chan has been less hostile than dating anywhere else ironically enough. My ex boyfriend from soc never started drama with me.

>>34075584 (OP)
no not really, the cases where it has worked are outliers. i think a lot of people want to believe it works because going outside and talking to people like a normal person scares the average fag on this board

if you seriously want to find a partner (a good partner at that) just go talk to people

My vagina works if you count it stinking and attracting insects with its awful doo doo garbage smell as working also toxic goo squirts out my clit so beware I guess

>>34075958
>just go talk to people
easier said than done man. Most people are too generic to be with in that regard anyway

>>34075958
based

I found my partner on 4chan, /soc/, specifically even though I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time. I could chat more about it via discord if anyone is interested! We've been together for six months, if that means anything.

disc: deleted_user_4f92b8c13d7a

>>34075963
this is my type. you from New York?

>>34075584 (OP)
I did and she nearly ruined my life.

>>34075887
This seems plausible though. The histrionic babies on discord are probably worse on average than the broken loners here.

Just find someone irl if you can. It will be better.

been here for over a year now.... absolutely nothing

>>34076668
When you write to people, or in a hypothetical case, do they remember you? I mean, do many of them know you added them or do you use a lot of alternate accounts? I'm curious to think about that scenario.

I think I fucked up. I think the people I was talking with ended up thinking I ghosted them and now they won't even respond to me. I just wanted to make friends but also need to study for my exams. How bad am I, guys?

>>34075607
there aren't that many more, even discounting trannies, it's just that the women almost entirely lurk whereas it's mostly men putting themselves out there. what the fuck would you expect when women get 100 adds just by putting "F" in their ASL?

>>34075584 (OP)
Depends on where you look and what you want.
Personally, I never ever ever manage to get anything outside of the Ideal BF/GF threads.

Online and open to... let's call it possibilities. emaquiie

Idk if I’m lucky, but I keep coming back here bc I keep meeting once in a lifetime people here. People are correct when they say, ‘’you have better chances going outside and talk to real people,’’ but this board has a unique value in the way that I’ve connected with people from outstanding and different lives I would never have the opportunity to cross paths with in the real world. so that’s cool.

Its very fucking weird, but you would be surprised with who you find here

>>34076837
That’s probably the worst thing here. People will unadd you because you have a life outside of discord.

>>34075593
welcome back, brother
>>34075887
why are you here if you have a bf?
>>34075958
you have to be equally maladjusted to be in a successful /soc/ relationship. the positive is that you don't have to hide your power level as opposed to traditional platforms, but the biggest negative is that typically the people on this board lack the social skills to thrive in a relationship to begin with... but if you have two retards who have compatible forms of autism then you have a chance
>>34077777
you keep coming back because it doesn't work out

>>34077799
Wdym ‘’doesn’t work out’’? As in you think I cant find anyone, or that the connection doesn’t last?

>>34077777
Big check here brother, nice get
>>34075584 (OP)
Depends what you’re looking for. I’ve fucked a few chicks from soc, from one night stands to very long term stuff. Sexted close to 70?ish. Never say never but low chance I’d ever look her for a relationship

>>34077821
whatever you think makes these connections special offers no longevity

>>34077149
I believe the idea that most women are hiding and lurking is a false fantasy people tell themselves to feel they have a chance. Most women who come here are Young and looking for quick attention, so 100 adds is not a negative, especially when They have the freedom to ghost whenever they feel like it. If they wanted a genuine relationship, why lurk here when Most could easily find one irl or through some zoomer shit like instagram?

But I am really curious to know if people commonly get adds from real women and have gotten proof they’re real women

Sweet words might just earn you my attention. emaquiie

>>34077799
I'm still here despite having a boyfriend because I still need friends.
And like I said above in my initial post, people on 4chan tend to be more reasonable, ironically enough considering the anonymous aspect, than people I could befriend on discord. I did try to befriend people on discord and they made drama and negative tension with me instead of simply telling me they disliked me or simply blocking me.


Tldr; I'm still here because 4chan anons are more well adjusted and will actually block people they dont like as opposed to starting drama or plotting against them

This is just my experience.

>>34079320
Me too omg

If you're trying to find a sane woman who wants to have a long term lasting relationship, you're 99.9% likely not going to find her posting on soc. If you look at the catalog, it's filled with more penises than vaginas(male oriented), even then majority of these threads are focused on looks (sex/dopamine hits) than ideas (knowledge/self awareness/patience). A sane woman wouldn't regularly post here, she mostly lurks and is in awe of all the train wreckage occurring throughout the days, and keeping track of personal lolcows who attempt to mask themselves under the anonymity. The lurking itself not as often as you think.
Also the vast majority of women who are posting in the relationship/marriage threads are not fit to be in a relationship, they like the fantasy of one, like a majority of people want, but they're too mentally unwell to be able to even take care of themselves. I've witnessed women claim they are *SO* ready to be a future stay at home mom and want a future husband who's going to be a provider and loyal and never look at another woman in a lustful way, meanwhile they're actively posting content on porn sites, on a cocktail of psych meds, can't keep a job for herself, struggling to pay rent, etc... the list goes on. Not saying a woman can't have high expectations, but they need to hold similar expectations on themselves first, at least have stability. Live the lifestyle of the future you can possibly have without a partner at your side, then you'll attract the right one.
This goes for you too, OP. If you're moping around, desperate you're not going to find the right woman and posting about your woes on a hookup heavy board, what life are you leading for yourself? I'm mostly saying, if you can find a good external Discord here that has active meetups that aren't hookup based, join that. You're going to find your person and develop a better relationship if you do things in person. Use soc as a tool, not as the place.
t. femanon in a long term relationship

>>34077866
>They have the freedom to ghost whenever they feel like it
Oh. One of the kids who messaged on me on Discord was a 19yo. foid. Then all four of them never responded to me. Is this that kind of ghosting? Or like do you really have to be a discord mod-NEET-no-lifer to be able to make Discord friends and me breaking this rule was that egregiously offensive?
>this guy >>34076837 btw

I think real love on /soc/ is possible, you just have to get lucky. It's easier to find people here because everyone is looking for someone here, so you'll end adding lots of people and ending up talking with 3, and meeting 1 or even 0. On other boards is different, I got extremely lucky years ago and met someone on /r9k/ that was as deranged as I was (it was very unlikely for us to be living in the same city, plus finding out in a thread that lasted like 5 minutes), it lasted 4 years. It ended but not because of the way we met, and yes I would do it all over again. This is not a perfect place, but it's worth a shot, don't get too deep into it and keep your eyes open in real life too. It's all about it being the right moment, in the right place.

Its like trying to date anywhere else, you have to be worth meeting, actually looking, and honest about it. 90% of people here are just trolling, catfish or otherwise, so it takes alot of luck to actually meet someone compatible and with the right mindset. And alot of women will ghost because its a buffet to them, they don't meet guys one at a time even when they aren't posting their own tag, so they sort them out in batches and keep looking for a 'clear winner' out of a pool of average people.

Its a valid place to meet someone, but you gotta end up lucky

a discord server for fucked up people

https://discord.gg/KBNsurNrVr

Online and open to... let's call it possibilities.

>Does this really work?
Same way few people do win the lottery but forget about the millions of people who lose.

>>34079477
What threads would you recommend I browse to find ads for the type of discord servers you're describing?

>>34079477
What do you think of age-gap dating or DDLG dating or whatever, 43yo. foid?

Also want to bump this >>34081444 because hopefully this anon gets some kind of answer.

I've found my boyfriend on here! (Well, to be accurate, he found me.) So yes, it does work, it's just really rare, and I'm also semi-sane as a woman (also really rare). But my boyfriend off of 4chan has legitimately been one of the sweetest, most loving, secure and emotionally healthy guys I've ever dated. But I really think I just got really, really lucky.

I met an amazing guy on /soc/ through a Discord server around six months ago. It wasn't romantic, but in another timeline it could've gone that pathway. Oh how I miss my fluffy.

yah i plan to move in with someone i met on here haha.. dont know how that will go

Found my ex-fiance on here in a sfw thread. They had a severely bad day that led to horrific issues and then their parents forcibly separated us. I thought I was one in a million but I've had over a year to get over it.

Sometimes I come back every couple of months looking at the catalogue thinking I could win the lottery again but it's so full of perversion that I quickly drop the idea of even just throwing my online handles out there. It can happen, and it can be beautiful but just be a decent enough person first like in any other social situation.

>>34075584 (OP)
it's in a similar vein of oldschool personals. you shouldn't expect anything from here, but in order for it to work you do have to either create and post your shills, or read thru the shills (or both, but that's wild.) it's very RNG dependant

>>34083090
Care to share the details? I'm interested to hear what 'parents forcibly separated us' means. How old are you?

>>34081444
Just on a guess I would say local threads, .e.g Norcal. / Socal / whatever and join discords focused on location so you can get out a meet people. Eventually you'll want meet people in person, may as well get in the habit of doing it. Avoids the catfishing problem too. Maybe you'll even meet some random while you're out touching grass

>>34081510
Kink based relationships will not yield a sane person

Since this is related to Ops question, I just want to ask any fellas here who have had success in finding a partner, even if it was just an online thing, if you have any tips on writing posts or which threads are best?
I used to get the odd add when I used this place like a year ago but since returning in like the past month, I've had no luck.

>>34075584 (OP)
Every guy I liked has ghosted me eventually

New here, but I know how to make an impression. Thoughts?