Romantic Mommydom/Gentle Femdom Thread
This is a thread that is dedicated purely to long-term, monogamous romance and the beautiful companionship that blossoms from it. There are plenty of friend/casual threads as well, so please keep things to clean romance here.
Recommended Format is below. Otherwise I ask to please keep it clean:
>ASL (Mention if you're okay with long distance or not. Keep in mind your chances are practically zilch if you aren't open to ldr's on soc.)
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, living/working situation, anything really.
>Your hobbies and interests
>What you're looking for in this thread. Gentle femdom? Role-reversal? Mommydom? Mixture of them?
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner in terms of personality, hobbies, interests, situation, ASL.
>What would you like to do with and for your partner? Romantically and for clean fun? Tell us of your hopes for daily life and special days together. In-person and long-distance.
>Contact info
Do remember that you miss every shot you don't take! Give it your best shot each time. Be patient, respectful, considerate, and understanding with each other. Be reasonable with your standards. Love is acceptance, after all. Anything else is fantasy and self-serving infatuation. Everybody appreciates being rejected politely over being ghosted. Remember that your special one is out there and is waiting on you to post and add.
I wish you all the best!
Discord: bunnyboymeow
(ID: rK87Ttl/)
10/18/2025, 7:38:56 AM
No.34418701
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27/M/Washington State U.S.
5'4" slim, nice facial hair, long hair, warm beige-skin. Work service, live with roommates. Depression & OCD. Take meds, helps greatly. Range from being playful, feminine, and bubbly to more tame, relaxed, serious, a bit of a doomer, to dank, derpy, and silly.
Hobbies and interests:
Memes, singing, etc.
Huge videogame buff, from N64 to Wii U, Gameboy Advance to 3DS, is my area of expertise. Super into youtube videos of all sorts: Corruption, Game Industry, History, Let's Plays, creepypastas, podcasts, etc.
What I want out of this:
A Service Sub-Mommy or Mommydom dynamic would be great. Romantic and monogamous. I would love it if you were very motherly, doting, and sweet. Showering eachother with praise, affection, focus, and time would be really lovely and appreciated. Mutual obsession is heavenly. Making random noises together, rotting together, parallel play, getting better together. Make me feel special as I would you. I want this to last for the rest of our lives.
What I want out of a Mommy:
A lovely lady 18 to 35 that is nerdy, geeky, silly, and WEIRD. Honestly, so long as you are kind and open-minded we can make it work. Open-minded to try out different hobbies and interests, but also willing to hear and accept all manners of jokes, opinions, and ideas. Easily clingy needed, obsessive is a plus. Long calls, big texts from the start. Be in contact as much as possible. I'm easily pleased with looks. I don't care about your job, status, height, weight, or anything else.
Bonus: I adore black ladies and big ladies. Tall Mommies Girly Girls.
Important:
-Don't want kids.
-Autistic, homebody, lonely, introverted, no-life types adored, of course!
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/18/2025, 8:00:56 AM
No.34418752
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Cute pic for loving gentle vibes
Anonymous
(ID: /xWXKgcs)
10/18/2025, 8:06:56 AM
No.34418772
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>>34418807
>ASL (Mention if you're okay with long distance or not. Keep in mind your chances are practically zilch if you aren't open to ldr's on soc.)
33/m/FL, okay with long distance
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, living/working situation, anything really.
Sarcastic, sardonic, musical, funny, optimistic
>Your hobbies and interests
I'm interested in everything, currently have piano and guitar playing on my mind
>What you're looking for in this thread. Gentle femdom? Role-reversal? Mommydom? Mixture of them?
I posted in this thread because I thought it might attract women that are interest in motherhood. Mommydom is ok I guess, but having kids sounds awesome. I can't imagine a better way to spend my time than raising john connors.
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
I'm okay with regular roles.
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner in terms of personality, hobbies, interests, situation, ASL.
If we mesh well let's build an army.
>What would you like to do with and for your partner? Romantically and for clean fun? Tell us of your hopes for daily life and special days together. In-person and long-distance.
Going to the apple orchard in fall sounds like a dream date. Maybe a cooking date you could help me learn how to make an apple pie? lol. I'm a good cook but baking pies from scratch is difficult.
>Contact info
hidyl on disc
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/18/2025, 8:23:46 AM
No.34418807
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>>34418772
>Mommydom is ok I guess, but having kids sounds awesome.
Ur in the wrong thread brah
Anonymous
(ID: tjIos2Xh)
10/18/2025, 8:28:11 AM
No.34418820
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Its most likely to snow where I live than to meet an actual dom woman here but lets roll the dice anyways.
>ASL
26/m/Brazil (I dont mind ldr)
>Nerdy guy that lives taking care of the elderly, Im indoors type of person. Im 175 cm (5'9) and 65kg (140 lbs). Im very pale and have long hair with the lower middle lf my head trimmed off. Brown eyes and hair, behind huge rounded glasses, a modest beard with a hint of red.
> Reading,(sci-fi/horror) Cooking and taking care of rescued animals.
>Im not sure what all the terms mean exactly, I just want to talk to someone where I can be more relaxed and not worried all the time if Im being manly enough. Mommy dom is very hot to me but I dont expect anyone to be in that role always.
>evrything but a sub woman please. (Also mtf are welcomed)
>20-45 and someone inteligent, kind and affectinade its all I ask. Artist are a huge plus.
>Share my life wirh someone who can take care of my stress while pushing me to be a better person. Cooking calls where I teach and experiment wirh diferent dishes would be amazing. Movie nigths in a VC call. Sleep in conforting calls. Reasuring each other when doubt plagues either mind. Im willing and wanting to do this all.
PS: i live 300 meters from the sea.
>Contact info
Discord: Escamado.
Anonymous
(ID: Pp4K119i)
10/18/2025, 8:31:01 AM
No.34418830
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I've had a rough and abusive childhood. I'm a man looking to be treated as a kid or teen by a female. I don't like baby or little space roleplay. I prefer a middle or high school range. You can be middle or high school aged, or you can be an adult.
It can be a friend, romantic, or sexual RP. My biggest dealbreaker is childish typing. You know, the full babytalk / animu moe / furry UwU act. Just talk to me as normal. I'm not into dark or edgy roleplay stories. No abuse, cucks, taken, poly, open, etc.
My interests are older video games, kids TV channels, cartoons, comics, children's books, toys, in and out of RP. I don't care for IRL age just as long as you aren't too young or too old in real life. My childhood was the '90s and '00s. I'm a private man.
I'm looking for strictly text replies. That means no phone calls or video. I'd like to keep this online. I'm not going to meet up with you or date. Any country is okay just as long as we keep the RP in English. My timezone is EST; I'm most online at night.
>Discord
shi.meji
Anonymous
(ID: Pai4Rq1J)
10/18/2025, 9:10:45 AM
No.34418935
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Generous guys, you know where to find me.
Anonymous
(ID: q3q8YxCr)
10/18/2025, 9:45:50 AM
No.34419005
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>31/M/Texas not against ldr but please be in the US or at least able to travel here, fine with online but would like things to become irl eventually
>I am a broken man that has had to put myself back together again trying to find someone I can trust. Despite that I remain an optimist. I try to always be kind and treat people the way I would like to be treated. I would like to eventually have my own home and more time for my hobbies and kinks but for right now I'm just working my ass off saving money. I am not religious but I do believe in God, and politically I am a centrist but liberals would call me a nazi and conservatives would call me a libtard. I am an OTR trucker and more or less live in my truck.
>Big fan of gaming and have a bunch of kinks I approach as a pretty serious hobby, considering starting a fansly both for fun and additional income - also a foodie but haven't been able to indulge much because I've been dieting lately.
>Big fan of femdom both gentle and more strict, wouldn't mind it extending outside of the bedroom but largely prefer to keep it in it. If you give me the opportunity to still be a person and speak to me as an equal at least occasionally I'm fine with you leading most of the time
>I am a switch. I very much enjoy being both Dom and sub with sub slightly edging out the win. I enjoy topping and bottoming and am competent and capable with both. If you expect monogamy it's not going to work out if I can't at least service top and indulge some kinks/fetishes of mine while doing so. I have many and I shan't be naming them all here, but suffice it to say I enjoy the larger side of life both giving and receiving.
(1/2)
Anonymous
(ID: q3q8YxCr)
10/18/2025, 9:48:09 AM
No.34419016
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(2/2)
>I would like to meet someone kind and caring, hopefully very much so of both, that isn't afraid of indulging in a bit of cruelty as well. Being able to game together is a big plus but I also enjoy sharing tv and movies, learning about new things, going to museums, traveling, and just generally spending time together. Whatever you're interested in just be passionate about it and tell me about it. I would prefer that you're single and want to be monogamous but am not totally opposed to ENM on a person by person basis. It would be great if you were gainfully employed. As for age, at least 20 and not older than 38, and located in the US if not the south or preferably Texas.
>I'm big on acts of service, emotional support, and problem solving. I enjoy talking about all manner of things for hours on end. I also enjoy cracking jokes and being there for people through difficult situations. Making people smile in the hard times brings me joy. I would hope we could speak every day throughout the day as able, and as for dates, I'm oldschool and really like dinner and drinks and a movie but am open to other stuff as well.
>Discord - steersandqueers93
If you message me on discord, include the word kumquats in your message so I know you read all of this. Or else I will not respond and will likely block you.
Anonymous
(ID: zTf9oJ1F)
10/18/2025, 11:47:31 AM
No.34419267
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>ASL
27M USA
>About you
Quiet, shy, nerdy, medium long hair, small. Women think I'm funny if we talk a while.
>Interests
Guitar, Antiques, Psychology, Science, Animals, Nature, Woodowrking, cars, and a bunch of other very sepcific things related to mechanical inclination or just old things that are coo to me; General movies, tv, anime, music etc.
>Things I do irl/on dates
Going to a restaurant I haven't tried and just ordering a cheeseburger, antique stores, places with animals, nature trails, drive around not knowing what we're gonna do and eventually just settle on just smoking weed in her car (I do have my own car but I don't have my own weed.)
>What you're NOT looking for
people under like 24, masc men, bigoted people
>Contact
you gotta give like a similar type of infodump to this in your first message and ideally why you messaged me or my autism is gonna make me repel or just not know what to say to you in all likelihood and also if you don't I will be actively annoyed by that because my first assumption is that you're a fat old man or a minor that's my default conception of you.
discord: precasey7
Anonymous
(ID: voYqpyN4)
10/18/2025, 3:19:14 PM
No.34419714
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>>34418692 (OP)
>ASL
22/Male/Russia (Moving to germany)
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, living/working situation, anything really.
I am a dorky kind fella with a wide array of eccentric interests, as you need to keep that kind of energy when working in special ed. My hobbies, when I have time for them, primarily include game development and tabletop RPGs. I am a very compassionate, caring and straight-edge person with a sense of humor.
Currently I am doing my best to, legally, dodge draft and get the fuck out of this hellhole of a country.
>Your hobbies and interests
Gamedev, Linux and Opsec broadly (I won't bore you with it, promise!), Vocaloids, TTRPGs, Gardening, Cooking, general internet trivia and culture surrounding it. You're on 4chan, you already know what I am talking about!
>What you're looking for in this thread.
Ladyfreinds to talk to and possibly have a relationship if we click. Tell me about your weird niche hyperfixation, show me your drawings!
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
I am submissive, with an emphasis of finding differences in height and strength very attractive (I am 170 cm). If you don't currently work out, I promise to motivate you and help you achive yer goals >:з
>Don't write me if you are
Male or trans (Sorry I already get 20 adds per post of you guys not reading a gosh darn thing I wrote).
Consider showers to be a leftoid/rightoid conspiracy theory, or otherwise have your life consumed by /pol/itics.
Want sexual stuff from the outset. I am not super horny or sexual and I wanna talk to you first.
>Contact info
atomicsubmarine on discord!
Anonymous
(ID: rImm/iPP)
10/18/2025, 3:27:31 PM
No.34419727
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>>34421450
i gave up on finding this
Anonymous
(ID: rGDvBM35)
10/18/2025, 4:45:43 PM
No.34419932
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Who's ready to pamper me like I deserve?
.....
Anonymous
(ID: 7KWjebpE)
10/18/2025, 10:58:28 PM
No.34420770
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>ASL
30/M/Chicago, IL, USA
Open to internet or in person/IRL, prefer IRL of course
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, living/working situation, anything really.
I like to think of myself as a generally laid back individual. I live alone in my own apartment in the city, currently working and this semester started going back to school to get a degree in engineering.
>Your hobbies and interests
I like to work out/fitness, I enjoy being outdoorsy and going hiking and camping, playing tabletop games like RPG"s or miniature games, some video games, anime and manga of course. I really enjoy reading, reading a lot of science fiction lately, but I also enjoy writing and have my own stuff I want to write.
>What you're looking for in this thread. Gentle femdom? Role-reversal? Mommydom? Mixture of them?
Ideally I'm looking for all of the above, sort of? I'm not a dominant person, at all. But I'm very happy in and good at being a supportive role. I'm looking for a partner who enjoys being in charge, being in control, making decisions, telling me what to do, so I don't have to.
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
I'm 110% a sub, ideally I'm hoping for a partner who is happy to be dominant full time.
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner in terms of personality, hobbies, interests, situation, ASL.
Ideally,
>older than me (doesn't matter how much older, just older)
>smarter than me
>large breasts (please)
>soft/thicc/chubby body type but I'm not picky if you have big breasts (please)
And then compatible interests and kinks as well, of course.
>What would you like to do with and for your partner? Romantically and for clean fun? Tell us of your hopes for daily life and special days together. In-person and long-distance.
Road trips, camping, going to museums and things like that, Anything you want to, as long as you want me to do it with you.
>Contact info
kik: blackwinglucien986
discord: blackwinglucien986
Anonymous
(ID: MmH6lOgv)
10/19/2025, 12:56:30 AM
No.34421047
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>ASL (Mention if you're okay with long distance or not. Keep in mind your chances are practically zilch if you aren't open to ldr's on soc.)
19 M eire! (yes im okay with long distance!)
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, living/working situation, anything really.
ermm im rather shy at first but once i warm up i will become very affectionate and will never shut up! i love making people laugh and havin a good time, im also pretty laid back and easygoing! im rather sensitive and got a slim frame and long-ish hair (twinky). i study a STEM subject in uni currently!
>Your hobbies and interests
i enjoy creative writing, driving to nature and taking pics of it and exploring. i also collect the walking dead comics and bottlecaps. i love apocalypse themed stuff! i do play video games too. ive been watching a few shows at the moment when i get the time xD
>What you're looking for in this thread. Gentle femdom? Role-reversal? Mommydom? Mixture of them?
uhmm im not picky i wanna meet people who will appreciate me for me! i do like the idea of having a mommy figure i'll admit..
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
I do lean more subby, but i can dom too! id prefer a dominant woman who can kinda take the reigns hehe
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner in terms of personality, hobbies, interests, situation, ASL.
again im not picky... would like an older woman , some similar hobbies/interests or even being supportive of each others interests and such!!!
>Contact info
puppychemist
Anonymous
(ID: q9TjaxKB)
10/19/2025, 1:14:51 AM
No.34421076
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33M tall skinny autistic nerd with messy dark hair and a very deep voice. Generally subby but can switch.
Not really looking for a kink dispenser, I'm just a guy who happens to have femdom fetish. I want someone to connect to and care about. Let's actually give each other good company and pleasant conversation. I love music; making, sharing and discovering it. Also like cinema, literature, PC games, typical nerd stuff in general. I'm a huge loner and I'm fairly calm and soft spoken, not a very intense person in general. Add me if you're looking for someone to try to form a deep intellectual bond with. One of my relationship goals is becoming best friends with my partner. Us against the world.
Discord: periapts
Anonymous
(ID: socjWUJy)
10/19/2025, 4:12:47 AM
No.34421450
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>>34424443
>>34425392
>>34419727
At least you're less retarded than the all the other aging soiboys on here that think, in the infinitesimally small chance that a woman is interested in mommy gf shit and not just doing it for porn money, that she would want any of their subhuman asses.
Anonymous
(ID: hDpht1Su)
10/19/2025, 6:43:42 AM
No.34421889
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NSFW asl:
28/m/DC area US
about:
straight subby switch nature boy
looking for:
a tomboy lady into pegging and prostate play
not looking for:
men or transwomen
hobbies:
cars, camping, gardening, guns n grilling
tag:
thiswildkindness
Anonymous
(ID: vkrEFGXb)
10/19/2025, 6:57:11 AM
No.34421931
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Am looking for long-term
Telegram AinaGo6
Anonymous
(ID: Sxt48Lkv)
10/19/2025, 7:26:52 AM
No.34422013
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Too hard to resist, wouldn't you say?
.
Anonymous
(ID: HnhXqJU6)
10/19/2025, 7:34:13 AM
No.34422037
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> ASL
34M
> me
6’1” hairy bear bod, shy nerd with big fantasies. SFW interests include film and retro anime/games, I’m trying to read more, and I would love to share those or other things if we connect. Looking for an erotic connection that could potentially be emotional too: I love passionate, articulate, nerdy girls who feel and think deeply and want to do it together in the most fun ways.
> into
Pleasure domming or being gently dommed, praise and affection, contrast, detailed dirty talk and sexting (with much discussion of body worship), sharing porn, lots of oral and anal play, hairy girls (HUGE kink), female bisexuality (I just genuinely love bonding over attraction to women). Also any woman who is turned on when I’m gentle or shy, even though I can be quite dominant once my barriers are broken down.
> not looking for
Anything violent, cruel or degrading, pedo/loli stuff, edgelords, penis havers
> tag
mysterman1052_2
Mr_kips
(ID: 1Sc718pB)
10/19/2025, 11:37:57 AM
No.34422491
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25/M/Cali
Looking for Mommydom/Mommyrp/Mom-son text/sext relationship. Really just looking for a mommy to help goon/with
Not looking for findom, donation/fees. You're into it bc you're into it
Discord: mr_kips.
Anonymous
(ID: pF8eG9Vb)
10/19/2025, 1:36:53 PM
No.34422650
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>ASL 18 M europe open to long distance
>still in highschool, got held back twice because of grades. very clingy and affectionate. pretty much a hikkikomori loser irl.
> Likes GW2 , world zero, MC , drawing, manga, anime, manhwa, webtoons. im also working on making my own language from scratch. (yes unemployment hit that hard)
>i dont know the difference between mommydom and gentle femdom. but i just want a normal gf who takes charge when it comes to decisions like movies, dates, food, and all. im really bad at everything so i wouldnt know what to pick
>im okay with switch. routine is good and all but we dont want to kill eachother out of boredom.
>I'd really like a girl in her 20s or 30s to do girlfriend stuff. but dominant. i havent been in a relationship of any kind before, so i wouldn't know what to expect. i guess i wouldn't like being a cuck.
>long distance is fine . we'd chat everyday, call sometimes. trade sfw/nsfw pics and affectionate messages. if we ever met up we'd have a blast. but it wouldn't be complete without cuddles.
> disc ._sclm kik aloofcoomergoon
Anonymous
(ID: EmS3XhRZ)
10/19/2025, 1:42:36 PM
No.34422656
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Tell me I'm your type, and maybe I'll stick around.
Anonymous
(ID: DOa1jReJ)
10/19/2025, 7:13:45 PM
No.34423292
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>>34418692 (OP)
18/m canada (idm ldr)
im kind of small for my age but i have a decent bit of muscle from playing lots of sports as a kid, im very pale with dirty blond hair and blue eyes
i get very lonely often im not very good with making friends and keeping them for long irl, i have autism, I love playing games and watching movies and learning about how they're made, i like computer stuff alot ive been working on electronic stuff since i was very young, im going into trade school to become an electrician but i hope that i can be an electrical engineer or work on movies in the future.
im looking for a girl older than me (literally by any margin idk why i find even like 2 week age gaps freakishly hot) to talk to and get to know, im sometimes a bit timid at first but i can be very verbose after maybe a night or 2 of talking, id like somebody to care for and have care for me back without abandoning me after a week, watch movies, play games, call eachother in vc, that sort of stuff.
for more sexual stuff i think im more of a switch, some days i want o be rough, some days i want to be roughed up, im not the best when it comes to sexting and things like that so you might have to be patient with me a bit, side note i dont like things in my butt so pls dont ask to finger me
dis:boogie_balls76
Anonymous
(ID: GkMHIxp2)
10/19/2025, 10:12:36 PM
No.34423755
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Curvy, confident, and craving some attention... sound fun?
....
Anonymous
(ID: NoYZsrnS)
10/20/2025, 2:56:41 AM
No.34424397
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>>34418692 (OP)
>Your hobbies and interests
I like computers and IT and cybersecurity and extreme survival and outdoors and extreme sports.
>What you're looking for in this thread. Gentle femdom? Role-reversal? Mommydom? Mixture of them?
Mixture. Looking for sweet girl who will be nice to me and praise me but can also be rough. I want to be your toy and obey every command. Mommy stuff is nice too.
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
Okay with a switch
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner in terms of personality, hobbies, interests, situation, ASL.
Woman, assertive, Technology or outdoors stuff, any situation, any age I prefer older though. Any location is good I travel all over. I LOVE nerdy dorky woman they are the best.
>What would you like to do with and for your partner? Romantically and for clean fun? Tell us of your hopes for daily life and special days together. In-person and long-distance.
I would like to sext and esex and be there for each other and lift each other up and be positive. Would like to game and work on IT stuff with them. Daily life, wake up hug, say I love you, get on with day stuff, then spend rest of day loving you when I am done. I will do whatever you tell me to sexually.
https://pomf2.lain.la/f/7g949w0a.png
pic of me
Hi. I am 6'3 attractive blue eyed white male with six pack abs and muscles. I am a mental cel with bipolar adhd ocd anxiety. I am also a bisexual faggot.
I am looking for friends. I like computers and IT and cybersecurity and extreme survival and outdoors and extreme sports.
Hit me up on XMPP. My XMPP is arackar@yax.im
No I wont use discord (spyware).
Hit me up and we can talk about whatever.
Download "dino" or "gajim" for xmpp on computer.
Download "monal" for iphone and download "cheogram" for android.
Then message me arackar@yax.im
AGE - 23 - SEX - AMAB - LOCATION - CANADA. looking for friends or potentially more. Anyone is welcome.
Anonymous
(ID: rImm/iPP)
10/20/2025, 3:15:59 AM
No.34424443
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>>34425255
>>34421450
they are easy to find, the problem is they are all either mentally ill or straight up dysgenic
Anonymous
(ID: eoYicvim)
10/20/2025, 3:40:42 AM
No.34424506
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>ASL
18/M/US
>About me
170cm stocky build. Currently a college student who likes physics and math. I like to play games and watch anime like most people here. Looking for things to do irl aside from the gym.
>looking for
A older women who likes a mommy dynamic. Preferably a mtf but I’m not picky cis woman are fine aswell as long as they are older. 35-25
Just be older than me by a bit it’s not hard
>not looking for
Really weird people or people into weird sissy shit
>discord
john271e_
Anonymous
(ID: uUMG5z8X)
10/20/2025, 7:29:29 AM
No.34425111
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30/m/indiana
Favorite sitcom is brooklyn 99.. or scrubs, but i watch far more of the former then the latter.
Why did i mention that? Its important! You should know something about me to start! If nothing else ask me my favorite episodes or which character i am!
I read.. or well read a lot of manga, ive been on a break for a while maybe i should pick it back up!!
I spent a while in culinary school and was a chef, left the culinary field and now im trying to climb the corporate ladder in the hotel industry!
Im a goofy friendly loyal lil guy, except well.
I look like an authority figure a lot. Bald, pretty blue eyes, but short and thick though that is a work in progress. Help be my motivation? 320 to 246 pounds as of today.
Almost quit smoking, im so fucking close i just need the push.
I like having someone kinda in charge of me ya know? Im an independent guy but i always feel a little lost without someone to kinda guide me. I need my domineering wife to keep me locked in and give me that kinda nice or bitchy advice with what to do at work.
But most importantly i like us to be friends. I want us to love and learn to love each other!! I believe in love and the joy in life and all it brings!! Lets go camping!! Road tripping! c :
Distance is fine BTW i move a lot and have hotel discounts so lets not take too long!!!
Discord MaxamillionKing
Anonymous
(ID: 68id47j5)
10/20/2025, 8:30:14 AM
No.34425255
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>>34425311
>>34425320
>>34424443
Sure they are. Sounds like you got catfished 90% of the time and got the actual few women mentally ill enough for mommy shit in the remainder
Anonymous
(ID: KfFukZ2p)
10/20/2025, 8:34:16 AM
No.34425261
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Tell me I'm your type, and maybe I'll stick around. ...
Anonymous
(ID: rImm/iPP)
10/20/2025, 8:57:45 AM
No.34425311
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>>34425255
inspector clouseau over here
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/20/2025, 9:02:02 AM
No.34425320
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>>34430240
>>34425255
>few women mentally ill enough for mommy shit
Are the guys mentally ill too then?
Anonymous
(ID: v61OKVJy)
10/20/2025, 9:36:22 AM
No.34425392
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>>34433464
>>34421450
>subhuman
I’m like a 9/10 but most of this board will never know ;)
Looking for a straight biological male who possesses the following traits: tall, pale, kind, and performs acts of service.
I want to pour into you and expect honesty and loyalty in return. You must be >30 years old and willing to relocate when the time is right.
If you think this arrangement sounds like what you're looking for, leave your contact and I will add you. The more information the better.
Anonymous
(ID: jfkdLtFn)
10/20/2025, 9:52:37 AM
No.34425420
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>>34425403
im white and skinny from est united states and khhv
Tag is megadogroll
Anonymous
(ID: myDPbCKO)
10/20/2025, 9:57:30 AM
No.34425434
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Most of the people in this thread really just want a woman to love them unconditionally, sad!
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/20/2025, 10:03:40 AM
No.34425450
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Restoring vibe…
Anonymous
(ID: /xS7J7wv)
10/20/2025, 11:40:18 AM
No.34425636
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>>34425707
>>34425403
aw man im only 5'9
Anonymous
(ID: +WDYliFG)
10/20/2025, 12:19:42 PM
No.34425707
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>>34428479
>>34425636
Its ok, shes brown
Anonymous
(ID: /xS7J7wv)
10/21/2025, 7:33:08 AM
No.34428479
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>>34425707
Phew! Thanks man that one almost got me. HH brother.
Anonymous
(ID: dEGd2HHw)
10/21/2025, 10:40:57 PM
No.34430171
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>>34430201
>34418692
I think I fit the description
@Kb200000000
Anonymous
(ID: dEGd2HHw)
10/21/2025, 10:53:46 PM
No.34430201
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Anonymous
(ID: erkRnbzc)
10/21/2025, 11:00:09 PM
No.34430216
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>ASL
37/M/US
>Interests
Post-Hardcore, Emo, Pop Punk, Oi!, Melodic Hardcore, Crossover Thrash, Ska Punk, Beatdown Hardcore, Skate Punk, New York Hardcore, Street Punk
>Looking For
last.fm, RYM, Discogs, record club, or Topster friends
>Not Looking For
Spotify playlists
>Discord
gun.hed
Anonymous
(ID: socjWUJy)
10/21/2025, 11:08:41 PM
No.34430240
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>>34430261
>>34425320
How about you read through the profiles here and tell me
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/21/2025, 11:14:46 PM
No.34430261
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>>34430279
>>34430240
Then that means they’re meant for each ofher <3
Anonymous
(ID: dEGd2HHw)
10/21/2025, 11:16:50 PM
No.34430267
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>>34425403
I meant this mb
Anonymous
(ID: socjWUJy)
10/21/2025, 11:20:45 PM
No.34430279
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>>34430294
>>34430261
Nah, in the rare cases women are like that the soicucks here aren't what they'd want. Look at the guys falling for that "acts of service" paypig bs post a few replies back.
Anonymous
(ID: socjWUJy)
10/21/2025, 11:27:00 PM
No.34430294
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>>34430372
>>34430279
Literally there's one guy on here bragging about how he loves working out and he has a distended gut and zero muscle, another saying he has a "six pack" but it's just his ribs being visible on either side and zero definition in his actual adominal region lol. You're just bluepilling your fellow mommycucks, the reality is they could have gotten some milf off a dating app to do this for them if they actually had any appeal to women
Anonymous
(ID: uFPE0skK)
10/21/2025, 11:32:52 PM
No.34430314
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Anonymous
(ID: T5jMRvdd)
10/21/2025, 11:51:06 PM
No.34430352
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>>34425403
I meet your criteria but I am from EU. M/32, decent looks too.
Disc: dbk2_
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/22/2025, 12:01:12 AM
No.34430372
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>>34430294
It’s rough out here but you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
Anonymous
(ID: AlI0T1Tk)
10/22/2025, 1:32:51 AM
No.34430581
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Has any mommy Dom answered on this thread?
And if there are any lurking here is my telegram maybe we can talk and see if we vibe.
@H1l0H
Or if you prefer the anonymous in the beginning
https://t.me/IncogNoteBot?start=e3fwhqan2t
Please open with more than hi or something.
Anonymous
(ID: aaB+jCt8)
10/22/2025, 2:56:41 AM
No.34430762
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>>34430768
Fuck it, why not.
>ASL (Mention if you're okay with long distance or not. Keep in mind your chances are practically zilch if you aren't open to ldr's on soc.)
19/M/Upstate NY. I'm OK with a LDR as long as you're within New England/Midatlantic region
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, living/working situation, anything really.
I'm in college, live with family, work a part time job. I don't really know if I have any hard, defined dreams, save for a happy marriage and a family.
As for personality, I feel like I have a hard time accurately describing myself. I do know that I tend to be clingy, anxious, and eager to please.
I will mention that I tend to ask a lot if you approve/disapprove of my behavior in relationships. I tend to worry that I'm being too clingy, and I ask a lot to double check that I'm not being annoying.
Physically, I'm white, 5'7", 130-ish lbs, very skinny runner's body. I have shaggy to long-ish semi-fluffy blonde hair, and I've been pretty consistently told by people that I have pretty hair.
>Your hobbies and interests
I love to read and to watch movies, and I love to talk about books and movies. I don't have super defined tastes, and I love recommendations. I also like running, hiking, shooting (although I'm not very good at it), and generally spending time out in the woods.
Anonymous
(ID: aaB+jCt8)
10/22/2025, 3:00:25 AM
No.34430768
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>>34433687
>>34437383
>>34430762
>What you're looking for
I'm looking for a more assertive woman who I can support and kind of be led by. Female-led relationship would probably be the best term for it.
I honestly just want to be told what to do and then do it and then see that it made them happy, I guess.
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner in terms of personality, hobbies, interests, situation, ASL.
Someone 18-35, biologically female, in New England (or Canada if you're near the border of a NE state) who also likes talking about books/movies. I also like when someone has something that they're passionate about. I love hearing people talk about their interests even if it's something I have no preexisting knowledge or interest in.
As for personality, I tend to get along with most people pretty well. I think you just need to interact and decide if you're a match for one another.
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
I would prefer a full domme or domme-leaning switch.
>What would you like to do with and for your partner? Romantically and for clean fun? Tell us of your hopes for daily life and special days together. In-person and long-distance.
>Long Distance
I've had some people recommend me books/movies/whatnot that they liked, and then we discussed them afterwards. Other than that, we could play video games and watch movies together. I've also read aloud to people before they fell asleep, if that's something you're interested in.
I also feel like I should mention that I love being called pet names at some point.
>IRL
Going for walks in nature, in addition to doing the other aforementioned things in person.
I like having my hair patted and played with, holding hands and cuddling. I really love cuddling.
>Contact info
disc is weiger_941
Picrel is me LARPing in an abandoned hotel
Anonymous
(ID: uxQDYuBm)
10/22/2025, 4:03:28 AM
No.34430889
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ASL: 21/M/Southern California
Totally fine with long distance-it's basically my only option.
About Me:
I'm AuDHD (Autistic & ADHD), high-functioning. I can be clingy and need reassurance sometimes-I love being told sweet things. Right now I'm in community college studying programming. I don't have a job or car, and I still live with my parents, but I'm doing my best to build a future in tech. I can't cook much, but I try!
By the way, I am masculine.
Hobbies & Interests:
Programming is my main passion-I build stuff on Roblox, Discord, and just love creating. I'm super into Roblox Doors, Mario games, and I draw for fun sometimes. I also love Vocaloid (especially Teto & Miku!). Gaming, coding, and goofing around online are my comfort
zones.
Looking for:
A soft, sweet mommydom type. Someone who praises me when I accomplish things, like studying or finishing a project. I'd prefer a full domme. A kind, encouraging caregiver figure is the dream.
You:
Ideally 23+, 5'5"+ (not a dealbreaker), woman. I'd love if you lived on your own, but no judgment if you don't. Being able to cook is a big plus-it's super attractive to me. If you're a fellow gamer, artist, or programmer, even better! Please be sweet, supportive, and willing to play games, exchange memes, and just hang out. Talk to me in a baby voice if you want-praise really motivates me.
Romantic/Daily Life Stuff:
I'd love to VC, game, share silly projects, and fluster each other. In person, I want lots of cuddles and soft moments-just holding each other, maybe baking something together or roasting marshmallows.
I can make you pixel art or code little things just for you.
Discord: nolrith
If I sound like someone you'd vibe with, please DM me! I can be forgetful sometimes, so don't be mad-just remind me! Happy to share more.
Hi all, 25 year old female here. I dont use 4chan often and was browsing and came across this. I dont mean to be rude or condescending in any way, but why do men want relationships like this? I understand the innate want to be cared for, but there has to be some give and take, no? I'm not sure if the lack of women is just because it's 4chan or if it is because it's just not desirable to care and not get anything in return. I know i could comment this on a daddy relationship thread but this was just the first thing i saw, and i'm confused as to how this could be a long term thing. Feel free to correct me if i'm wrong though!
Anonymous
(ID: Sb7nzanj)
10/22/2025, 5:38:51 AM
No.34431115
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>>34430939
this is a cope fetish for insecure men
I used to be think I was into femdom, but all my interest in it evaporated when my mental health and confidence improved
there are 0 mentally healthy, confident men that have this fetish
it's pure cope
Anonymous
(ID: v0/pENbX)
10/22/2025, 5:40:00 AM
No.34431121
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>>34430939
Men who, for one reason or another, never actually grew apart from their mothers, or have severe mommy issues. Deep-seated puer aeternus, inexperienced or insecure with women, or they simply don't want to try.
And on some level it's understandable. Every now and then it's nice to be cared for. But a man should never be the fucking submissive. That is unsustainable.
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/22/2025, 6:06:35 AM
No.34431171
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>>34431217
>>34431226
>>34432156
>>34430939
24 yo female and I don’t think it’s as deep as the other anons are making it. It’s basically the inverse of the traditional dynamic. It’s fine to enjoy an unconventional kind of type of connection, even if it did stem from some sort of mental issue or trauma imo. If a guy wants to feel safe and cared for because he had some trauma from his past, I don’t see the problem with that, and it could even be healing.
As for the “give and take,” there are women who get pleasure and/or comfort from being the one in “control”—or they simply find it cute when a man is sensitive/vulnerable over the tough-guy persona. Those are my thoughts
Anonymous
(ID: v0/pENbX)
10/22/2025, 6:23:55 AM
No.34431217
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>>34431230
>>34431171
I'd agree with you if every relationship where this was actually a thing didn't turn to shit because women inherently can't be in control.
Anonymous
(ID: HIz/DsG0)
10/22/2025, 6:28:44 AM
No.34431226
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>>34431230
>>34430939
>>34431171
Mommydom is nu-terminology for matriarch(family foundation architect) seeking dynamics despite the constant urge for women to be independent tax cattle
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/22/2025, 6:30:10 AM
No.34431230
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>>34431236
>>34433047
>>34431217
Well what do you mean in control? Because I was thinking mostly intimate contexts
>>34431226
>matriarch(family foundation architect)
Idk what this means brah i just think it’s cute and hot
Anonymous
(ID: HIz/DsG0)
10/22/2025, 6:33:16 AM
No.34431236
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Anonymous
(ID: Nm0amcnR)
10/22/2025, 6:37:38 AM
No.34431245
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>>34430939
I dont care for being "momied" and i think that around 38% of people that do are turbo faggots so i dont post in these threads, but i like tomboyish women with actual human souls + interests and according to my calculations toilets of that flavor seem to prowl this environment
Anonymous
(ID: eoYicvim)
10/22/2025, 7:32:34 AM
No.34431357
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>>34430939
Why do you think anon
Anonymous
(ID: s2VeMEch)
10/22/2025, 7:43:59 AM
No.34431377
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>>34431408
>>34431409
>>34430939
I know I don't speak for all the other guys in here, but at least for me, I don't want something like this as a 24/7 thing. For me, it's kind of comparable to most women who call guys "daddy" during sex. I'd like to incorporate that dynamic from time to time, but nowhere near the extent of a neverending roleplay where I'm just constantly being taken care of. I just want to suck titties while someone strokes my hair and tells me I'm a good boy once in a while
Anonymous
(ID: eoYicvim)
10/22/2025, 7:49:04 AM
No.34431391
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>>34430939
I have a deep mental scar anon. I cry sometimes while sleeping thinking about mom stuff. I am haunted by it every night anon that my pillow is all crusty sometimes from all the tears and snot. The only comfort is when I imagine a woman holding me tightly and telling me it’s okay. Therefore I chase that sweet sensation no matter what. I don’t really know why I am this way. I don’t really have many memories with my mother to be honest. I have forgotten all of them pretty much. So I really don’t know but I think something happened
Anonymous
(ID: eoYicvim)
10/22/2025, 7:54:53 AM
No.34431408
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Anonymous
(ID: rImm/iPP)
10/22/2025, 7:56:09 AM
No.34431409
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>>34430939
honestly as woman into actual femdom I think most men who come to these space saying they are seeking "gentle femdom" are not actually subs at all. They are just the kind of guys who don't get a lot of female affirmation and so crave the idea of women being both very verbal+physical about their desire/affection for them. They crave the emotional connection + assertiveness but do not actually want to engage with the Domme/sub aspect when it comes down to it.
Essentially "topping from the bottom" for hetero relationships. "Lightly hurt me in exactly the way I want to be hurt, but nothing more, and nothing that's only for you--and then tell me how much you love me after".
This is fine. I get why so many men crave it, there's not a lot of spaces in the world for guys to get positive affirmation outside of sexual/romantic relationships. But it's not really a femdom dynamic.
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/22/2025, 8:17:31 AM
No.34431458
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>>34431476
>>34431436
Interesting do you think it’s good there’s a separate femdom thread then?
Anonymous
(ID: U3OoKPNx)
10/22/2025, 8:24:16 AM
No.34431476
[Report]
>>34431490
>>34431458
Honestly I'm usually pro thread consolidation so there's less to scroll past but in this case yes, I think it did help desu. I posted to the prior thread that had labeled itself as gfd + femdom, and got a lot of replies that really were not what I was looking for to sift through, and respond to people that I didn't think we were compatible in what we wanted. Vs my comment on the current femdom thread got me a lot more matches for what I was specifically seeking, though I did fine tune my wording a bit which probably also helped.
But for example in reading the posts on this one, none of this is what would be personally appealing to me. There's a lot of things that go into being a "good submissive" just like there's a lot that goes into being a "good dominant", and I think a lot of people into mommydom/gfd aren't really interested in engaging with the power dynamic as much as they crave validation and comfort.
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/22/2025, 8:33:21 AM
No.34431490
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>>34431524
>>34431558
>>34431476
Ohh I think I recognize your typing style from the other thread I lurk both. I hope you find a cute guy to peg or whatever you like in particular lol <3 I kinda like both aspects
Anonymous
(ID: U3OoKPNx)
10/22/2025, 8:49:12 AM
No.34431524
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>>34431490
ironically I actually like the gentle stuff a lot too myself, I just think the people who are after only that just aren't very good at reciprocating/introspection/being open to the other person. good luck to you too nonny, you're very sweet to keep up encouragement in these threads too <3
Anonymous
(ID: AlI0T1Tk)
10/22/2025, 9:07:59 AM
No.34431558
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>>34431490
I agree with you.
For me personally it's about feeling cared for.
I myself am a switch and I started out as a Dom so I can bill both roles for my partner.
But it's also about unconditional love it's really hot and attractive imo to be able to care that much for someone else.
And it feels way more intimate to me.
Anonymous
(ID: kueiHvkZ)
10/22/2025, 10:27:30 AM
No.34431721
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>ASL...
19M, Missouri, in-person or LDR, would like for things to eventually become in person.
>About myself...
I have tan/light brown skin, super long black hair, and brown eyes. Wide face/head. I have facial hair but usually shave my beard off, I like to tie my hair into a half-up bun sometimes. About 5'6 120 pounds. I have rectangular glasses too. I'm pretty ugly, sorry.
I'm quiet around people I'm unfamiliar or uncomfortable with, very outgoing and social around friends. I'm very anxious about how my friends think about me so I'm a pretty big people pleaser. I've dealt with severe anxiety/depression/suicidal ideation from a young age but have recently started medication. I'm (cannot exaggerate this enough) *very* clingy. Currently working part time (25-29hrs/week), in the process of being promoted to full time.
>Hobbies/interests...
Not much. I mostly just play videogames or do other internet-stuff. I really like watching other people engage with or talk about their interests. I'm a quiet listener though. I like anime, but watch it very rarely. I like cute things in general (dolls, fashion, plushies, etc.) Sometimes I do DXM but I hope to stop someday.
>Looking for...
Gentle femdom/mommydom. I can try being dominant if you're a switch but it's not really my thing. Any (18+) age, I'm not picky about it. I hope for a partner who's honest and blunt, but understanding and sympathetic. Other than that I'm super open! I'm fine with any personalities and body types.
I mean it when I say I'm a people pleaser. I'd work, then come home, cook, clean, and do any other chores! I only ask for your happiness and love in exchange. I hope to spend most of our time together just relaxing and enjoying each other's presence. For dates we can go anywhere you want! I'm not sure about kids in the future. Maybe, and if we do want some I'd prefer to adopt.
Only come if you can handle my mental troubles/clinginess.
Discord: trashreap
Anonymous
(ID: i3dbfSIu)
10/22/2025, 11:37:34 AM
No.34431825
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I've been wanting to try this for a long time, but I've never been able to find anyone.
33, cis M from Brazil
magnumdml
Anonymous
(ID: tjIos2Xh)
10/22/2025, 1:13:00 PM
No.34431987
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>>34432637
>>34431436
Thats an interesting point of view, but dont you think it could be a point of entry into exploring more of the kink?
I can only speak for myself but I feel pretty open to experimenting and exploring new things. It just feels like "normal" relationship dynamics is the reverse of what you say in regards of the give and take, I feel obliged as a man to be the dominant one, always, wich I dont mind but dont enjoy as much either. But I feel like if I refuse to act my "role" I wont have any intimacy at all.
Honestly it just sucks, I wish I could like being dominant but I really dont.
Anonymous
(ID: tjIos2Xh)
10/22/2025, 1:23:45 PM
No.34431998
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>>34432637
In retrospect maybe trying to cast as wide a net as possible is not helping me out in these kind of trheads and I should be more specific to not be confused as another "tourist" in the kink.
Anonymous
(ID: NBND1B1B)
10/22/2025, 2:29:02 PM
No.34432087
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>>34430939
>it's just not desirable to care and not get anything in return
Not how it works, the whole point of being submissive is wanting to be devoted to the woman's pleasure first. Of course, there are lots of shitty subs who just want a kink dispenser, but desu lots of dommes suck ass too (see the findom grifters).
Anonymous
(ID: J8r83+n+)
10/22/2025, 2:31:57 PM
No.34432094
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>>34430939
i like gfd and sucking on tits so the mommy thing just kinda goes with that
Anonymous
(ID: CRhLnj6s)
10/22/2025, 2:45:26 PM
No.34432115
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>>34432637
>>34431436
>Lightly hurt me in exactly the way I want to be hurt, but nothing more
So, consent?
Anonymous
(ID: Sb7nzanj)
10/22/2025, 2:53:14 PM
No.34432129
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>>34432637
>>34431436
>crave the idea of women being both very verbal+physical about their desire/affection for them
literally what is weird about that? Would you be okay with a man that didn't verbalize or otherwise demonstrate his attraction to you?
Anonymous
(ID: 7S0XIA8+)
10/22/2025, 2:54:21 PM
No.34432132
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>>34430939
32/m saying this.
I’ve had a couple of relationships that led to me using the term mommydom/gfd in how I describe an ideal relationship.
It just simplified and made my life so much better and easier being with someone who was soft with me. When I wasn’t working and when I wasn’t with my friends? I could spend time with them and just fully let go. I was happy to serve. I was happy not having to think. I was happy with how much physical touch there was outside of sex. Those periods of my life were gentler. And it’s what I want in a relationship, whether it’s me going on dates or me browsing threads like this. Someone gentle who I can fully submit to.
Anonymous
(ID: zRP97IFu)
10/22/2025, 3:10:51 PM
No.34432156
[Report]
>>34432671
>>34431171
hey can I ask you what are you looking for specifically, have you added many people from this thread?
From the ID count I can see you're lurking the thread often enough so it's clear you haven't found what you're looking for.
are you that one girl who's really into skelly guys?
Anonymous
(ID: U3OoKPNx)
10/22/2025, 7:16:12 PM
No.34432637
[Report]
>>34432738
>>34431987
I do think it could be an entry for exploring more, but it is hard to tell who in this thread actually wants more with the kink and who only wants that aspect in isolation.
>>34431998
I do tend mostly to reach out to people who seem like they have more clear/specific ideas of what they both are like and are looking for, because it shows me they've done some introspection on it already
>>34432115
Well there should always be consent. but what I mean is the difference between someone who is like "please act out this fantasy I already have in this specific play by play, I'm not interested in anything else, just copy this role from my head” vs "here are my limits, here are my kinks, here are the things I want to explore more--use them as you see fit". I like the creativity allowed in the second. But it's hard to tell from a lot of posts which category people fall into. If you are thinking “well obviously I mean that second example” you fortunately haven’t encountered a lot of people from the first I guess, who still want to dictate everything that happens but just be in the receiving role instead.
>>34432129
No, I think it's very understandable and sadly normal. I wish most men got to experience it more regularly, I just think that if it was more common a lot of people wouldn't be seeking these spaces instead, since they don’t seem interested in the rest of the femdom power dynamic. I hope you guys can find it <3
Anonymous
(ID: vJYROa80)
10/22/2025, 7:35:30 PM
No.34432671
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>>34432156
I haven’t made any contact posts so skelly anon isn’t me, but I’m a little distant due to stress so I can’t give clingy ppl what they need + I don’t want LDR, so I don’t really know. I just don’t wanna hurt/disappoint so I’m just lurking for now.
Anonymous
(ID: tjIos2Xh)
10/22/2025, 8:14:02 PM
No.34432738
[Report]
>>34432637
Thanks for the reply, both gave me alot of insight.
Im just having trouble in defining what exactly do I want since I havent had any chance to experience what a Femdom relationship actually is all about.
Have to think more about its all, if I really want to pursue this, wich I still feel really want to.
Anonymous
(ID: Oikz+1rM)
10/22/2025, 8:30:35 PM
No.34432763
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>ASL
33/M/US
>About me
I'm a fairly typical introvert in a lot of ways: I like videogames, am afraid of rejection so I have very little experience with women, and have fairly low passion/ambition towards life. I'm not entirely happy with the latter two, but changing yourself is hard and numbing yourself with masturbation and gaming is easy. I do have a job, but career is an ongoing struggle for me; ingrained pessimism inherited from my parents has left me feeling that my odds of success are so low as to not even be worth pursuing. I know now this is a terrible mindset, but it's difficult changing it after all these years, especially with how behind I've ended up being. I do have a job, but it isn't something that would make an especially good career, so I still need to figure that out.
>Hobbies and Interests
In the interest of brevity, I'll simply say I like gaming, music, and anime, in that order. Some favorite games are Outer Wilds, Dark Souls, Hollow Knight, Overwatch, and lately League of Legends, but that is an extremely incomplete list. If you share an interest in gaming, I'd love to talk about our favorites! I also play violin, though haven't taken it out in quite a long time. I like a fair few shows and movies, but it's not something I usually spend a ton of time doing.
>What you're looking for in this thread
Someone that would like to online date, or be friends with benefits. Someone to keep exploring my submissive side with. I have some previous experience, and honestly the feeling of being called a good boy and treated gently, lovingly, affectionately is intoxicating. I do not enjoy cruel or humiliating treatment, but teasing is a different story... I would prefer someone that's a bit on the kinky side, since I definitely am myself. Your age isn't very important, my last domme was in her 20's and it worked just fine despite her being younger.
>Contact info
I prefer discord, my username is ghostly_silhouette
Anonymous
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10/22/2025, 8:38:42 PM
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>>34430939
I hate my real mom
Anonymous
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10/22/2025, 11:01:02 PM
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>>34431230
>Well what do you mean in control? Because I was thinking mostly intimate contexts
Even intimately, women crave dominance. That's why lesbians end up abusing each other, they mistake masculinity for violence and just try to LARP as men.
I used to like this stuff, but I got laid once and really it was just a stupid porn brained internet thing. It's ok to switch or give up control for a little bit but it seems women don't respect you anymore after that.
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 12:03:22 AM
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>>34418692 (OP)
M26 Argentina Caba
discord: arganon1234
I know i am too old for this at this point but i am still a virgin and good looking, i would rather get married before i hit my 30's
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 12:38:43 AM
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21 femboy desperately looking for anyone longterm who wants to see me show off my slutty panties n bras and goon to any sorta porn/hentai we want! i’m relapsing like crazy, and would love to goon all night with people! i’ll be horny all night, so plz hmu~ (prefer fem and trans) ;)
discord: femboynoelle
kik: femboi_noelle
snap:fembnoelle
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 2:26:41 AM
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>>34425392
22f portland oregon can i has some
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 2:29:39 AM
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>>34430939
oh my god fucking bait taken dude wow, guys are so bad at trying to sound like women in writing. no girl talks like this.
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 4:08:29 AM
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>>34431436
i lurk in the femdom/mommydom threads on soc every once in a while (old habits die hard?) and i see a lot of this everywhere
trying not to reveal my powerlevel here but a lot of the personals i read from men want the typical coddling, free therapy, and usual bangmaid song’n’dance.
my advice is to recognize if you just want to be catered to by your partner, or if you want an actual D/s relationship or FLR. i was lucky enough to meet my partner who was receptive to trying a femdom/mommydom dynamic, now he calls me mama desu
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 4:42:37 AM
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>>34433748
>>34433783
>>34430768
>LARPing
oooh, how sweet, you go outside and pretend to be militarymen with your friends! That works so well with the whole MOMMYMOMMYGIVEMEMILKIES thing you got going on.
Where did this trend of zoomers buying surplus to going on hikes and calling it "LARPing" come from?
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 4:55:09 AM
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Looking for someone who knows how to spoil me.
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Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 5:09:23 AM
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Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 5:26:38 AM
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>>34436428
>>34433687
you probably sit in your room day after day after day wanking your little chode and doing nothing else
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 8:49:13 AM
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>>34430939
Maybe my perception is wildly warped because I am as distant from normal relationship dynamics as you are from this dynamic but my perception is that whatever it seems like you're implying "give and take" would entail, is not something that's typically present in a relationship where the man is considered to be anything like a daddy-dom or anything. The girl just exists and gets to have the stuff done to her that she wants and the guy wants to do it. I don't see the difference other than that's harder for men to get because there are less women that want to do that stuff. Also you can just like this stuff in bed and have an equitable relationship otherwise involving whatever assortment of arrangements and dynamics regarding responsibilites or expectations
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 9:10:04 AM
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>>34431436
your aura is reading to me as being from a very very particular femdom space which you seem to percieve as being the type species of the genus when its much more particular than representative. not that it's invalid obviously this thread is for us. just i feel a lot of what you have said did not have much function besides to carve out things you disqualify as femdom and i just think all of the people here identifying with being into femdom serve as a better counter example to you saying it isn't femdom than your perception that you are an archetypal femdom. I think a fair assumption would be that most of the male posters in this thread taht arent jsut spamming every thread, more often than not watch porn that involves men being dominated by women in one way or another. I don't think it's useful to say it's not femdom when someone wants to get like some specific sequence of events to happen and thats all they want. my reaction is certainly that that is strange to me and i would wonder why they wouldn;t want something more organic but my guess would also be that it's because in the absence of even having organic sexual experiences, it makes sense to me that very specific replaying narrativized fantasies would manifest. I just don't see why it would ever be helpful to not call that person a sub. or a person that likes femdom, etc. and you know what in the spirit of the vulnerability that has come up in this thread, it hurt my feelings a little that you said you don't think people into this are into femdom and that's why i felt like saying this stuff. To be fair I definitely do not identify as being strictly into only gentle femdom but still
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 11:32:59 AM
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Anyone wanna play bf6? 33/m disc: bf6
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 5:36:32 PM
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>>34435176
>get added
>get un-added before even saying hi
>twice
Damn even my data packets put off dominant women.
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 6:09:47 PM
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>>34435179
>>34435094
at least you got added
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 6:12:42 PM
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>>34435176
Yeah you're getting addmogged me, the Chadd.
Anonymous
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10/23/2025, 6:15:26 PM
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26 m, 6'2, white, US, Athletic and fit
abnormally big dick. admit it, you're a little bit curious....
Looking to share deep confessions with a woman. Can range from trauma to an embarrassing memory, SFW, etc.
Love sending voice messages and deep conversations
18+ bio f only
discord doemoe62920
Anonymous
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10/24/2025, 4:15:41 AM
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>>34437284
>>34437288
>>34433783
No I regularly go camp hiking and I keep a backpack in my car for when I come across wilderness or BLM land. I just don't call it "larping" because I'm not a tryharding faggot afraid that he won't be a real man if he doesn't go walking outside wearing old fatigues and reading fucking technical manuals like a child going through a phase
Anonymous
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10/24/2025, 5:08:07 AM
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Haiii
>ASL
20/M/Eastern US
>About me
5'9" average weight, medium length hair, fair skin. College student currently. Couple of mental issues I'm still trying to resolve. I'm A bit fem in personality and voice. :3
>Hobbies
I'm a techie and I love computers. But prepare to be infodumped asking any questions about it :P. I listen to a ton of music and watch Youtube a lot. I also like intellectually stimulating stuff in general!
>Looking for
A woman, 18+ but preferably 21+, who's into gentle femdom and role reversal and likes younger softboys and can gimme cuddles! >w< I am fine with a long distance relationship, but I would like to VC frequently.
>Not looking for
Men, anyone AMAB, creepy people, people only interested in sex, people into overly weird fetises, people who refuse to ever VC, and people who'll ghost me after a week.
>Discord
lee.edgeworth
Anonymous
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10/24/2025, 12:00:08 PM
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>>34437293
>>34436428
I just don't call it "larping" because I'm not a tryharding faggot afraid that he won't be a real man if he doesn't go walking outside wearing old fatigues and reading fucking technical manuals like a child going through a phase
It's fun, anon. It's fun to camp out an abandoned buildings and shit and feel like it's the zone. If you're not into that shit, it's fine. But it's really not that deep.
Also
>zoomers
/k/ has been doing this shit since at least what, 2008?
Anonymous
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10/24/2025, 12:01:09 PM
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>>34436428
>I just don't call it "larping" because I'm not a tryharding faggot afraid that he won't be a real man if he doesn't go walking outside wearing old fatigues and reading fucking technical manuals like a child going through a phase
It's fun, anon. It's fun to camp out an abandoned buildings and shit and feel like it's the zone. If you're not into that shit, it's fine. But it's really not that deep.
Also
>zoomers
/k/ has been doing this shit since at least what, 2008?
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10/24/2025, 12:06:12 PM
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10/24/2025, 1:18:22 PM
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>>34430768
you seem like a cool wigger bro
Anonymous
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10/24/2025, 6:54:20 PM
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Online and open to... let's call it possibilities.
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Anonymous
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10/24/2025, 9:08:41 PM
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Tell me I'm your type, and maybe I'll stick around. ...
Anonymous
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10/25/2025, 12:19:32 AM
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>>34438902
>ASL
32/M (cisgender and straight)/Spain, long distance is fine.
>About me
I'm a fairly calm person (although I get nervous and a bit too active from time to time, but generally speaking I remain and share calm.) I dabble into magick stuff a little bit, nothing too over the top nor too often but yeah, I do. I have a low stress, part-time job which pays well enough and I don't have to pay for rent and I live alone, so I have time to dedicate to my hobbies, friends and a potential date or love interest, should one appear. I consider myself a kind, invested, respectful and caring person if I may say so myself. I have a wish to learn, travel to several places and experience new things within my capacity. Physically speaking, I'm agile, slim, not quite muscular but I dedicate a little time to staying active relatively often.
I don't smoke or use drugs, and I drink only sporadically and, generally speaking, in moderation. But I'm not against going out or drinking some more if the situation, or more likely the person, is worth drinking with and wants to.
>My hobbies and interests
I like reading novels, usually horror, mystery or investigative ones, although I also enjoy the occasional fantasy science fiction title. And also about mythology, of whatever topic catches my fancy at the time.
I watch anime, read manga and play videogames from time to time (usually retro ones, as well as a couple for Smartphones) and I also enjoy playing tabletop RPGs and, when I feel like it, I have a game of chess or two. Other than that, I like forests and such places, the wilder and more dense the better, nighttime ambience (although I enjoy my daytime activities) and I listen to several kinds of music, mainly rock and metal subgenres, but jazz, swing, their electronic variants, some OSTs, a bit of pop and other stuff are also in the mix.
Halloween, Autumn and Goth vibes are a 10/10 for me.
Also, I love cooking, and also trying meals/eating.
(Post 1/2, please check replies)
Anonymous
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10/25/2025, 12:20:36 AM
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>>34438962
>>34438899
(2/2)
>What I'm looking for
Gentle femdom, mainly but I'm open to explore a little. A friendship would be nice, and if something more than that clicks, why not? Also, something to note, while mostly optional I'm open to trying/interested into many kinks. As long as it's legal and doesn't involve a third person I'm fine with it, even stuff on the more hardcore side.
>D/S/Switch?
Switch.
>About my partner
I'm not particularly picky. Someone with similar interests, or open to share both of ours if they differ. In the context of dating or a relationship, I value the connection and the shared interest, being involved as it were, you could say.
>Contact info
Kik: degennerd, if you'd rather use other means of contact please share which one and I'll provide/create an account, thank you.
Anonymous
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10/25/2025, 12:42:40 AM
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>>34438902
One final note: reading around the thread, I see there's a concern about some men not being actual subs, but craving care, validation, contact etc: in my case yes, I want a Switch or Dom girl, I'm a good sub.
Anonymous
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10/25/2025, 2:04:44 AM
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>ASL
Sissy M35, Europe, bi/pan :3
>About me
Very submissive, kinky and obedient sissy from Europe, looking to talk to fun people. Outside of sexy stuff I love learning new things, linguistics, science, technology, gaming and lots more. I'm an easy going person and would love to find longer term contacts :)
>Kinks
Chastity, anal, denial, humiliation, piss, diapers, age play, rough stuff, and LOTS more, message me to get the full list :3 I am only sub for M/MtF, but can switch with F.
>What I'm looking for
Dominant girls, transgirls, or guys, who are interested in online domination, porn trade, dirty chat, or anything inbetween. Any age is fine! I'm open to just starting somewhere and see what happens :)
>What I'm not looking for
- Fake doms/scammers/people who want money
- People who only want to be fed porn or pics of me
- Low effort people who respond with 1-3 words per message
- Sub-only guys. Switches are OK. Sub F are also OK.
- Furries
>Contact info
Discord: serendipitous89_39257
Kik: misthiosanon
Snapchat: misthiosanon
Telegram: wub_ww
TeleGuard: G3TEAHMLC
I also have Session and Signal, ask on one of the other services for my ID! :)
Anonymous
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10/25/2025, 9:56:14 AM
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Sweet words might just earn you my attention.
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