>>150095388
well for me it was just undoing the damage from over a decade of gooning. you’re not supposed to push hard, just enough to get it in a “relaxed” state. if your pelvic floor is overly tense like mine was, relaxing wont even really feel like relaxing.
just try to do some reverse kegels next time you’re masturbating to feel the difference in sensitivity. once i learned how to keep it relaxed during sex for the entire session i was pretty much able to last as long as i wanted to.