>>96278527 (OP)By using your brain. Lust doesn't work in combat outside bullshit mind-affecting malarkey, but this way you can bullshit your way into making people suicide or lower guard anyway.
Outside combat, you can make a conscious choice not to masturbate, not to racemix, not to forgive jews, blacks, asians, demons, whatever and don't give them ground.
It's that simple. Don't pretend this is a hard decision if you actually want to win.