>>211398303 (OP) In the film, it's made a point that it's only the first step. Before learning to talk to women, to know how to treat them, you first have to make yourself presentable.
>>211398303 (OP) Alright, no bullshit, just get straight to the point and answer this. In the position of a mid20โs-30โs male who only goes to work and doesnโt have much of a social life or friends, WHERE do you meet young women, or join a social group where you can regularly meet new women? It feels like no one has been able to give a concrete answer to this, and many here are in a similar situation.
>>211398640 Go to church or volunteer at a charity organization is the most common answers I've seen given on here. Others include taking dance/music classes or other artistic pursuits.
Honestly,kinda. As long as you're not gross and can make her laugh, you're good. If you have no personality then I dont know what to tell you other than git gud
>>211398640 Are you autistic by any chance? Took me years, but repeated social interactions with the same people is the only way to lead to making friends and finding somebody. I write out scrips in my head of possible ways to take a conversation before meeting with my friends I made.
Just do what normies do - go to pubs, clubs, join hobby groups, etc. That's what I did and have a tight pact group of friends. I went out with a girl through that group, but I broke up with her because I found out she smoked.
I've never had problem with women and I have dressed the same way since I was 16. Literally jeans and a hoodie all day every day my entire life. I also don't give a shit about women and am legitimately happier when I'm not in a relationship but every few years I seem to forget this fact and make myself miserable by getting a girlfriend for a year or two.
>>211398715 >That's what I did and have a tight pact group of friends How did you meet?
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 2:25:23 PM No.211399683
Complementary haircut, complementary clothes go a very long way. It isn't everything it's just the easiest way to not immediately turn women off. I went a long time buzzing my hair without realizing how much I was nerfing my looks.
>>211398640 If you're not attracting sociopaths and their shy, insecure tag-along friends who are just happy to be doormats, but would be happier to have a nice loyal guy at home then you're doing something wrong.
>>211398303 (OP) No, you have to do this consistently while putting yourself in positions where you meet other people (not just to hook up). Eventually you might develop a large enough social circle that you come across someone you click with if you're lucky. Or just be a chad. If you do none of the above the chances of meeting someone and having a successful relationship decline to near 0%.
>>211403198 Thank god no. But yes its tiny, 6 million laundries will do that
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:34:02 PM No.211403327
>>211398744 u know this isnt reddit u dnt have to lie about her age
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:34:59 PM No.211403352
You fags always ask โhow do I talk to womenโ or โwhat do I say to a girlโ or some other dumb virgin shit. Nigger, itโs 90% body language. Iโve gotten women wanting me without saying a fucking word.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:36:23 PM No.211403398
probably
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:39:15 PM No.211403474
He already had a wife, the movie is literally just about Steve becoming a complacent idiot who doesn't think about anything but then wonders why everyone around him is bored of his shit so he needs to go to a G-Rated pick up artist.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 5:55:36 PM No.211404011
>>211403263 He pumps and dumps 8 women and then goes back to his wife.
>>211399683 >Complementary haircut Yeah sure but how do I know what's good?
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:49:25 PM No.211405872
I dressed well in college and wore cologne and it just made girls think I was gay. So yeah they stopped thinking I was n incel or whatever but started thinking I was gay. So it didnt really make my situation better.
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:52:33 PM No.211405991
>>211398303 (OP) I thought it was pretty crazy that Gosling's character was fucking around with Emma Stone and then an hour into the movie you find out Emma's character is Carell's daughter.
>>211398714 all this proves is that if you're handsome you can wear whatever the fuck you want and still get most women. If you're less than a 7 then you need to get in shape and dress better to bring yourself up.