>>211490722He went to the onsen regularly
People at the small restaurant liked him
People at the bar liked him too and they'd chat in a relaxed way
He was seen as attractive (by the shy girl and the park and the bar owner) and fatherly (his niece/his coworker's gf) by women
So he had friends, younger ppl who looked up to him and intimate alternatives (that is, the 2 women which were sexual/romantic prospects) as well as good social skills since all of these people saw him as likable