>>212505833 (OP)They are similar but not identical.
If you are charismatic you have the capacity to inspire interest / enthusiasm / loyalty.
If you are charming you can charm people. You make them feel warmly towards you, even if only superficially / temporarily.
A good leader has to have charisma, not necessarily charm. (Consider R. Lee Ermey in Full Metal Jacket. He's charismatic but not charming.)
>>212506101>can't fake or learn charisma.The word "charisma" comes from Greek meaning more or less "gift from the gods". So this is exactly how they felt. It's something you've either got or you haven't.