Had watching movie ever wanted you to experience love ?

>>212740366 (OP)
>Has watching movies ever made you want to experience love?
Translated for everyone.

>>212740475
Thank sirs...

>>212740366 (OP)
Experiencing love is like experiencing ultraviolet light visually. It is literally, physically not in me to do that. You may as well ask me to experience ultrasonic sound. This capability simply does not exist in my body, never has, never will.
So, no. Can't miss out on what is fundamentally alien to the core to one's essence of being.

>>212741327
this is really quite sad

>>212741417
Not for me, I don't agonize over the lack of ultraviolet or ultrasound qualia, either.

no, not movies. movies is just fiction and i'm not bothered by it.

but sometimes when i see happy couples holding hands or being at the beach together i feel sad because i want to experience that too. but i also feel a kind of happiness as well, knowing that life isn't as bleak as i sometimes feel it is.

>>212740475
thank you sar, am still doing learn of english

>>212741327
You think that because it never happened.

>>212741327
desu senpai what people call "love" as in "true love", is just an extreme form of desire.
If there was such a thing, there would never be divorce or any sort of relationship breakdown, ever.
Like all things "love" is impermanant. Its a mental factor of genuine desire, liking, wishing well and care for another person.
If there was such a thing of love, there would never even be anyone unhappy when a love one dies because love would counteract sorrow.
This alone can show you that love is faux.

Still there is conventionally an experience of what we call love, like I mention above, a mental factor built up of many positive thoughts, ideas, which cause emotions.

From my experience, i dislike love. Well the conventional love for a woman (man if you are a femanaon)
Its just extreme desire that makes one ignorant. Blinded.

>>212740366 (OP)
What's it like to hold her hand?

cuddles!!!!

>>212745145
Isn't that stinky though?

>>212740366 (OP)
sauce on pic?

>>212740366 (OP)
love is a movie trope.

it doesn't exist

>>212740366 (OP)
no

I'm 33 now and have had 4 gfs, but I never experienced love like the first month with my first gf. It was never quite the same again. I dumped her so I'm not hung up on her at all, it's just the confluence of youth and inexperience makes it so much more intense. I've kind of given up on it ever being like that again. If I have a family someday, I'll be happy. Love, actual pounding in your chest love, is something you have before you're 25.

>>212741327
Woah, you're such a cool loner schizo. You have such a cool black hoodie and take deep brooding night walks. One of the most epic posters on 4channel right now.

>>212742987
love is just performance art for normoids too cowardly to admit they're lonely
you meet some random person, your brain gets flooded with dopamine because they smell right or whatever
suddenly you're "bonding" but really you're just getting psychologically dependent on your fix
mfw people think this is romantic
then you move in together and it's just mutual hostage situation
can't leave because you've merged bank accounts, signed leases, bought furniture
tfw you realize you hate their laugh but you're stuck with a $2000 couch
most relationships are just elaborate roommate situations with sexual benifits
and the cope levels when you don't validate their performance
>anon you just don't understand real love
mfw they need my approval to feel secure about their life choices
if your connection was so genuine and transcendental why do you care what I think?
the whole system is just emotional MLM where paired people recruit people to validate their investment
>when you find the right person you'll understand
yeah ok bro

>>212746847
No one is saying love is not chemicals flooding your system to blind you to the toher person's flaws long enough to produce kids, everyone knows this. The thing is, just like the Matrix, it doesn't matter what the reason for feeling good is as long as you are happy at the end. Intimacy and affection feel good, simple as that.

>>212746820
I do not fit your mental image at all, I'm afraid.

>>212745651
Love is what holds our reality together

>>212746941
>The thing is, just like the Matrix, it doesn't matter what the reason for feeling good is as long as you are happy at the end.
You are not happy at the end. Nobody is. People claiming they are have just successfully gaslit themselves over decades. Old couples, at best, find a semi-comfortable equilibrium in their mutual resentment.

>>212746847
I agree with most of what you said. the worse thing about it is that our entire social systems are built around this social bond and reproduction that it is doubly hard to live as a single adult, obviously much easier to do it together, cheaper, 2 heads are better than one, half the household chores etc.
It frustrates me, as a broke person as I am poor and cant enjoy life like my peers.
On the other side I also dont have the dramas they have.
i know full grown men who cant even take care of themselves because all they have done since they were teenagers is just substitute their mother for a girlfriend.

Like you said, the feeling of love is just a dopamine fix and from my experience its short lived but also leaves us longing without it.
Shit i still miss my last gf which was over a decade ago and am pining for a woman now who I saw recently and had not seen for a long time.
The simple solution is prostitutes for sex of course, but that initial feeling of meeting a new woman and bonding is pleasurable that cant be found anywhere else.

Don't think I would be capable of it at this point desu

No idea where you dorks get this idea that love always fades and is replaced by disgust/hate. Love can still remain strong forever even if less than its peak. And Love can lessen into close friendships where people still greatly care about each other more than anyone else. That's what matters in life. Family, friends, loves, they're the only people that give a shit about you in the world and vice versa. Everyone else is just strangers that try not to interfere with each other's lives or purposefully fuck with you since they don't give a shit about you.

>>212747201
I mean at the end of the relationship not at the end of life. As long as the chemicals last you are happy af.

>>212740366 (OP)
Laying naked with someone like that for more than five minutes sucks. You get hot and sweaty where you are touching, and cold on the outside. Your sweat glues your skin together, so when you get uncomfortable and want to adjust your skin rips apart and feels ultra uncomfortable. Anyone that thinks this is romantic has never done it.

>>212747594
Jesus how fucking fat are you?

>>212746941
>just like the Matrix
>literally using the blue pill analogy unironically
this is your brain on cope
>intimacy and affection feel good, simple as that
yeah so does heroin, doesn't make junkies enlightened philosophers
difference is junkies don't try to recruit everyone else and get butthurt when people don't want to shoot up
mfw normies think "it feels good" is an argument
I bet you drive a honda civic

Cameron Diaz in Life Less Ordinary is like a perfect facsimile of being in love with a psychotic bitch

I wish everyone in this thread finds love

>>212747700
I'm explaining how it works, retard, not endorsing it. It is what it is.

>mfw normies think "it feels good" is an argument

It's the only argument

I've been with my wife for 6 years. When I cum inside her, she cradles my head in her arms as I recover from cumming. You all that seethe are only making it more difficult to be vulnerable to someone else. In your minds, love doesnt really exist. I assure you, it does.

>>212740366 (OP)
good morning saar do you have pictores of her vageme??

>>212747206
exactly, the whole system is rigged to punish you for not playing along
society literally charges you extra for being lonely
single tax brackets, no spouse benefits, paying full rent alone
restaurants with "couples discounts"
insurance that costs more because you don't have a "family plan"
meanwhile your coupled friends are getting tax breaks for successfully domesticating each other
>congratulations on your legal merger, here's your government subsidy

>>212747765
H-hey cutie, wanna hold hands?

>>212747935
It makes sense from a governmental position as it encourages us to reproduce and create the new cattle to be fed into the system to die for jewish interests in pointless wars or keeping the economy flourishing.
iirc nazi germany had a massive tax and other incentives for couples to get married and have children, all to increase the population.
Ironically though instead of our so called "benevolent" systems, they would rather shove loads of shitskins in our society and create discord rather than encourage the indigenous population to breed.

Still its very disheartening for someone like me who is poor and also dont want that life.
Sure it would be nice to have a woman to fuck or even cuddle but all the other issues that come from it are not worth the hassle.

I can’t experience love because I simply lack the attractiveness to have it.
It’s not my fault either. I workout. I shower. I just have the wrong face, race, and height for appealing to women.

>>212748246
I'm white af and 2m tall exactly and no women has shown interest in me (workout and shower as well kek), so it's face mostly and confidence / money

>>212748246
Short ugly Indian?

>>212748372
5’11 So yes short

Ugly yes

and half black half white which makes women hate me

>>212748212
Because indigenous people develop the delusion they have a say in how “their” country is run, whereas browns have generations of learned helplessness

>>212746847
yah it's just dopermene in there branes.ppl don't have be in love bcoz dopermene make them trick happy and that is trick so dopermene is fake.

I'm too ugly and bad at sex

Yeah, at one point I had hope since I felt like I had time. But now I'm 34 without anything, can't even entertain the idea anymore.

>>212748297
If you’re white and 2m tall, your loneliness is your fault desu.

>>212748246
I'm white, somewhat attractive in the face, and not fat but I'm meek and socially stunted so I disgust women. At best, they feel pity for me. More often its revulsion. In the early stages of talking to them I sperg so much that it inevitably ends in one of the two.

>>212748550
Even if you’re meek and socially stunted, if you’re white and attractive, you can find someone. You just need to look for weird women who fetishize weakness in men. I wouldn’t mind being abused by such a woman if she was cute

>Had watching movie ever wanted you to experience love?
Kinda half the problem right there. Romeo and Juliet isnt a romantic story about two teenagers falling in love, it's a tragedy, a warning about following your base desires and romantic infatuations and creating a fantasy relationship in your head that doesnt exist that neither party can live up to.

I've been in love, probably the greatest feeling I've ever had in my life. It is straight up addictive because it elevates life to such a high that it's very hard to come down from. No such romantic attachment is sustainable. It just isnt.

Havent felt love like that since my late teens and I dont think I'll ever will. It's the fantasy of LOVE we all fall in love with, especially that first big one. It's kinda like santa claus. You turn 6 years old and suddenly you find santas beard in a box in the garage and your world comes tumbling down.

Doesnt mean you cant have meaningfull romantic relationships with people, but that high you once felt as a young man is never coming back.

>>212740475
Thank yous my american/israeli brother sir bro. We are brothers in arms like proud lions bro

>>212748550
join something very social, either work, volunteering or an activity where you're always dealing with people.
you'll level up your social skills reasonably quickly and the more you do it the less nervous you'll be, become better at making eye contact, feeling relaxed, opening up a bit without it being too much. the repetition of meeting new people all the time also trains you.
it might sound unnatural, but it's what you need.

>>212740366 (OP)
Nope, I avoid movies that involve love because I don't wanna be reminded of it

>>212740366 (OP)
Sometimes but I also realize the movies are only really a highlight reel of that “love”. It doesn’t show the nitty gritty boring aspects.

>>212740366 (OP)
Need a name for this kino

>>212749354
Love and Other Drugs

>>212749271
I don't want to sound like I'm making excuses, but I work a very social job. I can do small talk, I can at least not weird people out too much in a work environment because I have to be there, so its ok for me to be there. In a social setting it just becomes "how do I justify being here with people, I'm not funny, I'm not interesting, I'm not charismatic, I'm not particularly nice" and I crumble.

>>212745561
Lady Jane, 1986. helena bonham carter (harry potter, tim burton films) naked

>evil dystopia gives you time to fuck an out-of-your-league 20-something a bunch of times, to make sure you feel EXTRA sad that you can't do it any more after being arrested

what did Orwell mean by this

>>212749354
>>212749479

>>212740366 (OP)
Eh, movie romance is like a buddy cop movie, wanting to find a gf because of a great romantic story is as silly as wanting to become a policeman hoping to enact these scenes of heroism and comarederie. Not to downplay love, but one really shouldn't mix the two worlds up.

>>212740366 (OP)
Damn she really got no ass.

Is there anyone in this thread that isn't Indian? Holy fuck, what a bunch of low IQ incels.
Superman has fucking ruined this board.

>>212740366 (OP)
No?

>>212747666
Not fat at all, Satan

>>212740366 (OP)
i like when a girl falls asleep on my leg and i wake up in the middle of the night and she's humping my knee like a dog. girls are so dumb and cute.

>>212740475
thank you for ai translation sar

This is the only kino that made me want to get out there and find someone.

>>212749954
we are talking female humans anon, your chihuahua doesn't count

>>212750053
Boom gottem

>>212746766
Same, but my first gf was also the only girl who was ever obsessed with me. She wanted me in that naive, idealistic way only teenage girls are capable of. The girls I would date now are too mature so to love me like that, plus I’ve probably become too jaded to be that attractive to anyone.

>>212750053
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

>>212744585
like bags of sand

>>212747594
I’ve done it and that’s as close to heaven as you can get here on earth.

>>212750053
>your chihuahua
if i'm gonna rape anyone's chihuahua, it's gonna be yours, faggot.

>>212750111
Yeah that's the other side of it. I was her first and she was mine, and she was completely insane about me. Every girl I've been with since has had other men. It's not as intense for them or me.

>>212740366 (OP)
I was drunk playing BG3 and had a romance scene with Lazael. That got me horned up and I grabbed my wife and fucked her brains out.
That's the only time media has ever had that effect on me.

>>212747594
If you've never lain naked with a girl during the winter and warmed each other up through body heat I pity you.

I am under the impression that people are mixing up "love" and "being in love" in this thread. These are two different mechanism with different but complimentary functions. Being in love is supposed to fade out, it's there to get you started. It's not a bug, it's a feature. Love is supposed to be lasting. Not that I blame you guys, we're failing our young'uns like this and have been for decades, this creates unealistic expectation for relationships.

>>212740366 (OP)
No but I dont watch romantic movies as they are for women

Not Here to Be Loved/Je ne suis pas là pour être aimé (2005)

>>212750302
why did seeing a frog girl make you wanna fuck your wife

>>212750432
>I've failed me young'un