>>213319984Yeah there’s a clear example of a therapist being good in the one that works with Carmela briefly. Sometimes the solution is obvious, leave your criminal husband, stop doing crimes, etc. I’m reminded in Mad Men when Don is in a relationship with Faye and she’s essentially the one and only person to tell Don to just stop running from his problems and stop pretending to be someone else, confront your past, turn yourself in, it’s the only way he’d find any permanent semblance of peace. But of course he can’t and won’t. It’s the oldest joke in therapy, how many therapists does it take to change a lightbulb, one but the lightbulb really has to want to change. Tony didn’t want to change, he just wanted his symptoms gone. Don didn’t want to change he just wanted to be rid of his symptoms. Carmela didn’t want to change, she just wanted to be rid of her symptoms.