What did she mean by this?

>>213523217 (OP)
What ahe thinks she said:

-Your a great man and would make a great husband

What everyone will think:

-I'm a whore and you're my fall back when I get old.

>>213523217 (OP)
it says "stay away from me for your own good"

>>213523217 (OP)
I haven't watched this but I'm assuming they played some feel good music in the background to make the audience think this was supposed to be a wholesome moment

>>213523217 (OP)
why is the hand brown

the fuck is ENM?

>>213523378
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethical_non-monogamy

>>213523217 (OP)
The whole ethical non monogamy thing isn’t completely absurd. There was some European anthropologist who studied some uncontacted tribe in Central America or Africa and he was taken aback by how no one knew who their father was. The tribesman who was explaining laughed at him and said that it didn’t matter since every child was raised by the entire tribe. That exchange points out not only a cultural divide but a temporal one. You have to imagine living in a tribe of 40-60 people was the natural order for the majority of human existence. Modern nuclear families and social norms of interpersonal relationships are relatively recent inventions and not necessarily optimal. Half of all marriages fail. The kids aren’t wrong to think there are better ways possible. The problem is that if traditional romantic relationships in the west are dependent on monogamy, then polyamory or “ethical non monogamy” is dependent on tribes or at the very least a robust community and they aren’t doing anything to bring those back. If everyone was in agreement to behave in this mindset and support each other it wouldn’t be weird. But we’re aren’t so it is. We are culturally a world of rugged individualism and consumerism so we are immediately suspicious of anyone who says that they are ENM as being opportunistic and trying to get the benefits of traditional dating (affection, support, sex) with none of the drawbacks (commitment, loyalty, responsibility)

>>213523408
Yeah not reading the wall of mormon text, lol

>>213523408
Ooof. This is a lot of text for this dude to say he was totally fine being cuckholded and it was totally a mutual decision.

>>213523217 (OP)
"you're too good for me and this is the only way I'll admit it"

>>213523408
Maybe they wouldn't live in huts if they married like God intended.

>>213523427
Yes, I would be fine with having sex with multiple women and multiple men having sex with them if I got to live in a group of 40-60 people who all existed to support each other instead of being completely alone and in competition with everyone else in the world. My point is that I’m not getting any of the community or support of a tribe by just being ENM, so I recognize it’s a bad deal and wouldn’t do it.

>>213523404
Wouldn't the opposite of monogamy be polygamy, not "Ethical Non-Monogamy" (what a mouthful!)?

>>213523217 (OP)
surely Connie would find it endearing if she got a card back saying she's not wife material because she's ENM material? KEK

>>213523378
Some gay pseudo intellectual modern shit

>>213523568
I guess polygamy implies an imbalance of power as it has ties to Mormons men who can have multiple wives but Mormon women can’t have multiple husbands

>>213523620
>the existing term that perfectly describes what you're doing but makes you uncomfortable
>instead of not doing it you invent some other bullshit term and pretend it's somehow different (it's not)
Ah, so it's like "sex worker".

>>213523217 (OP)
Reminder that Connie has an entire fraternity on her hall pass. Funny powder status has yet to be confirmed.

>>213523217 (OP)

>>213523620
polygamy has some implied stability in the multiple relationships but ENM is just getting plowed by random joggers while your husband is at home, maybe you keep seeing some of them but it isn't implied.

>>213523378
Electronic nigger masturbator, used in the nazi death camps.

>>213523686
>>213523620
No polygamy is still marriage for life, just multiple wives. ENM is more like people have as many different partners for as little or as long as they like, there isnt really any lifelong commitment or anything. It really is the only way to describe these people who are dating multiple people "above board" but not marrying

>>213523408
>Negroes don't know their fathers in their natural habitat either
Kek

>>213523768
What a weird way to say he doesn't satisfy her in bed.

Connie's body count?

I don’t understand why you have to intellectualize having casual sex without being in one specific relationship? What precisely drives someone to make this an official status? Ironically you’d have to be quite the prude or self-righteous person to need to do it that way, any normal person just has sex and doesn’t worry about it calling it anything, because they haven’t declared monogamy anyways. Meanwhile Connie is going through a pretty regular period of casual sex in college, yet somehow she feels to negotiate some higher status or identity with it, but by doing so she’s really just plastering herself with unnecessary synonyms for ‘i fuck around’

>>213523837
>le casual sex
They know they're whores, they're just doing mental gymnastics to avoid the label.

The whole idea of identifying as ENM, imagine if a guy walked up to a woman and just said ‘if we were fucking, I’d cheat on you, and you have to be okay with that’. Who fucking says that shit to a person? Like there’s something about a college girl or a feminist that just makes people say, ‘oh sure, her identity her rights, what a morally neutral thing, how bold! I hope i can fit into her lifestyle!’ Motherfucker she just told you she’s cheated on everyone she’s ever been in a relationship with, and she’s asking for a chance to cheat on you! A man doing the same thing would either be asking for pity, or be just plain disgusting! So ladies, please!

>>213523408
nah you're a complete fucking retard
>Half of all marriages fail
ignoring the fact that the significant majority of divorces are by those who have divorced before, skewing the data massively

>>213523862
But there are girls who have casual sex and don’t think of themselves as whores and who never have any trouble with it, This is obviously a label for guilty sluts trying to bargain with a loss of self-esteem. Not even the esteem of others!

>>213523862

Thats too bad cause whores are the best fucks

I've never even seen embarrassed nude male used acronym or not, pretty stupid to use it in a tv show.

>>213523408
>niggers don't have a father
shocked

>>213523217 (OP)
>simps on /co/ trying to claim Connie is just pretending to be a slut and is actually still a virgin
so she's just telling the whole world she's a whore for no reason?

>>213523837
It’s not even about sloppy seconds, you can’t ever go back from being a whore.

It’s the in ate disrespect and lack of worth.
A woman is “too good” to let her husband do anal for example, but was happy to let random guys in the bar plow her ass deep for years? All it shows is she valued these random guys more and was willing to give them more than she will give (You) and thus values you less.

>>213523774
>its ethical because its in the name
Ah I see, very smart

>>213524167
People do this. She probably does fuck, but every time she uses this label she is just saying ‘I will never not cheat’ for no reason. And it’s ridiculous too because isn’t this a type of relationship that you ‘form’ and not something you ‘want’ or speculate on when you haven’t even found the guy or guys you’re thinking of doing it with? Who the fuck spends any amount of a first date or sex, dodging the moment like that? It’s like, we’re fucking right now, just you and me, does it really have to be cheating themed fucking even though no one’s here? So we go on dates and you just talk about that you fuck other people, instead of like, talking to me about us? Pointless

>>213523378
Embarrassed nude male.

>>213524187
Well real women know how to keep their sexual history as the hidden personal treasure it is. Sure some are just monogamous and avoid sex until marriage or what have you, but beyond that there is a womanliness to the fact only this bitch truly knows how nasty she is, or what her history was like to get her into what hopefully she sees as her best newest form. Bragging your body count just destroys all the feminine wile and surrenders your sexuality completely. Which is why usually NOBODY DOES IT

>>213523217 (OP)
Keep yourself single for when I'm done slutting around and need a cuck to provide for me

>>213523217 (OP)
Never thought I'd say this but the French were right all along. Why can't people just have affairs in secret like the French have been doing since time immemorial?

>>213523217 (OP)
This is actually woman for ‘I regret that I became a slut and can no longer be with a real man such as yourself’

>>213523378
Its when people want to fuck around but also have someone be your emotional sponge like a actual relationship

>>213523408
Life is complex in a first world country. It's what makes it odd at times, but also makes it good.

We have social security numbers. Bank accounts. Individual debts. We don't share these things. Each person has to LEARN how to navigate this system. I personally believe it starts with the Bible. No morality and you're in prison. No humility and you think money is most important. After the Bible, reading books or watching videos about how your world works. "Books are an easy way to learn information that was difficult to obtain." I butchered the quote, but that's the general idea.

Ethical nonmonogamy is not absurd. Using tribes in less developed places is a shaky justification. Flowing from that to "why is the Western model a stable parental relationship" is a huge leap. I think it'd be more accurate to say "ethical nonmonogamy is a choice that consenting adults can make. It has upsides and downsides."

>>213523217 (OP)
Guys don't know what they want

Bobby thinks he wants Connie's titties and ass and familiarity. But she can only give him 2 of 3.

>>213525133
> "ethical nonmonogamy is a choice that consenting adults can make. It has upsides and downsides."
Yeah like it makes me not trust you for a fucking second, but I leave things in the trust of my liberal wife knowing that one day you will try and make your stupid move or do something disgusting, and she will hate you for it, which is what ended up happening when you sat on my couch for an hour in basketball shorts with your balls out, and now my wife properly knows, on her own, just from ypu being you, that you are a disgusting person, Travis.

‘So uh, which one of you cheated on the other led you to this arrangement?’

>>213525217
Yeah no it's theoretically possible. All partners are attractive and available and emotionally sophisticated and perfect sexual health. But I haven't seen it.

>>213524286
It's illegal for French men to get paternity tests. Nothing secret about it.

>>213523378
Emasculated Nu-male

>>213525133
> system. I personally believe it starts with the Bible. No morality and you're in prison. No humility and you think money is most important. After the Bible, reading books or watching videos about how your world works. "Books are an easy way to learn information that was difficult to obtain."
Bro it’s literacy that matters, not some jewish ethnosupremacy larp

>>213523568
Wouldn’t the opposite of good be bad? Well that’s too simple for the dystopian society we live in! We prefer the term doubleplusungood.
So since polygamy is such a taboo word well say ethical non-monagamy!!!

Remember when Futurama did a whole movie about it twenty years ago and it was treated as gross and creepy as hell but at the end there was this weird subtext that we just aren't educated enough to embrace it

>If there's a delicious cake, isn't it better to have one slice than none at all? Even if four other guys eat the other four slices, and they're all thrusting their sweaty naked bodies against the cake?

>>213525616
nta but the printing press was literally invented to create bibles lol

>>213524187
I had an ex who tried pulling that line, sighing about how “why does every guy want anal”, well, I took that bhole after that.
For those who don’t know, it’s very tight at first but then you break the butt seal and it’s like fucking a bag of warm air. Anal is only good because you’re degrading/taking control of a bitch.

>>213523553
Exactly. If i lived on some tropical paradise where everyone sucks and fucks , and feeds off the fruits of the land, and everyone has a role to play, why not? But in this competitive isolationist society you expect me to also share the one intimate aspect of my life i could have for myself? That's a shit deal.
>Egyptian and Medieval peasants had a lot of time off and didn't work THAT much, you should consider signing your land/possessions to the nobles and live a s a slave/serf! its what ancient humans did!
The French were too kind with their revolution and should've flayed the upper class.

>>213525715
yeah that’s great and all but the chinks had a mostly monogamous society hundreds of years before the printing press. Sometimes people forget there’s a world to consider.

>>213525676
Matt Groening is a literal cuck, I'm surprised the Simpsons never went in that direction.

My girlfriend has my permission to cheat but under the condition that if I ever find out she is, I'm dumping her. It works fine for us.

>>213525504
>It's illegal for French men to get paternity tests.
I think everyone knows that by now.
>Nothing secret about it.
I don't mean their lax approach to cheating is a secret, I mean that affairs themselves are traditionally done in secret. Ethical nonmonogamy is a psychological power game where the dominant partner forces the weaker partner into being a passive participant in their own sexual humiliation. Having an affair in secret is far more dignified, for everyone involved. I'm not actually French so I find the whole business disgusting, but if we're all supposed to become enlightened libertines, may as well learn from the experts.

>>213525728
nice fanfic, incel

>>213525847
total fuckin faggot.

How do you cope knowing that a girl who's had even 1 (one) long term boyfriend has been fucked hundreds of times? I'm not talking some promiscuous bar slut, just a regular girl.

Every time you kiss her, there's a guy out there who can think to himself her lips have been wrapped around his cock countless times. When you tell her you love her, some other guy got to use her body to his heart's content first. Seriously how do normies just accept this.

>>213523217 (OP)
This is edited.

None of this will be a problem when we finally get robowaifus

>>213523408
>but niggers do it and they turned out fine

>>213525916
You're a loser pretending your virginity is by choice and not because no woman has ever been interested in you.

>>213525916
In concept it's gross but when you're with a specific girl for awhile and things are going well, that stuff melts away over time.

>>213523686
No, retard. It’s not a synonym, they’re two different meanings. Psychologist and Psychiatrist don’t mean the same thing just because they sound similar.

Sometimes a girl gotta find herself. Wild. Oats.

>>213525847
how is this any different from a normal relationship

>>213523217 (OP)
alpha fucks beta bucks
hopefully Bobby doesn't fall for it

>>213523217 (OP)
That bobby is a fat dork with the voice of an old woman, but in the unlikely event his restaurant succeeds, she'll marry and divorce him for half his net worth.

>>213523378
whoring around

>>213523408
GMS! and shalom

I’m very polyamorous, have zero interest in ever being in a monogamous relationship and I make this fact known to any girl I’m romantically or sexually interested in. Not sure why this concept makes anons on an anime discussion forum seethe so much. Just enjoy your monogamous relationships and move on.

>>213526380
They've redpilled themselves into thinking women are the primary ones who want open relationships.

>>213526380
cool story *fucks "your" girlfriend*

>>213526380
Yet every single guy who was in an open relationship that i had to interact with at parties always had to justify or defend their type of relationship, always having to prove its a real relationship

>>213523217 (OP)
He did tell her to eat shit at the end right….right?!

>>213523408
>yeah bro some tribe in Africa or central America done it so it's fine

>>213526300
It's a "You can do it, just don't let me find out" instead of a "Don't ever do it", he's basically giving her permission to fuck around as long as he doesn't have to face the consequences.

>>213523217 (OP)
I thought it was funny as hell that Bobby got laid in the first episode and kept his fucking shirt on because HE'S FAT.
I don't hate it yet.

>>213526672
but that's how every relationship works. if the other person doesn't find out then there are no direct consequences

>>213525916
>I'm not talking some promiscuous bar slut, just a regular girl.
Why did you repeat yourself?

>>213523217 (OP)
>You're not embarrassed nude male material because you're husband material

>>213526576
Idk what it means for them to “justify their relationship” to you, but talking about their dynamic would be a normal thing to do with someone that isn’t poly. Especially when said someone is judgmental of that type of relationship. You don’t understand how conversations work?

>>213523334
Same reason why poop is brown.

>>213525916
It’s never been a problem between me and my wife

>>213526763
No i mean as in saying that a level of maturity is required, and that people who shun it dont understand it all while in a condescending tone
They also sometimes start those subjects too

>>213523568
Most people dont want an open relationship so we needed to slap a new coat of paint on it again since people figured out what polyamory, polycule, hotwife and whoring around meant

>>213523217 (OP)
Connie is fucking retarded if she's going to be a whore and tell everybody she is, then she should own up to it and be proud of how many cocks she's fucked and sucked like Bonnie Blue, not be ashamed about it when Bobby asks. All that STEM education but she's still a stupid bitch who thinks she can have cake and eat it too

>>213523217 (OP)
>modern women's idea of romance
grim

>>213523568
Women hate the word polygamy so they come up with their own terms to describe it.

>>213523768
kek

>>213527340
Sounds like you’ve been hurt before, huh?
*pulls up a bar stool and offers you a cigarette*
What’s her name?

>>213523217 (OP)
>I'll be with you when i'm done getting fucked
awww, so sweet

>>213523408
From what I've gathered, human breeding habits were more lax before farming became a thing. Farming solidified the concept of ownership. Daughters became cattle to trade away. The invention of rings served men mostly so they could mark their possession.

For the most part, if a marriage sucked, it sucked the hardest for women. Women could be absolutely miserable in marriage. The modern era has changed this a bit. Most divorces are initiated by women. Cheating is common (more common that you might think) by both men and women.

Even still, open relationships don't work or at least shouldn't work in the modern era. It might have to do with how hierarchial our society is and how people are judged by their individual merits. Some men win hard and they could get an endless harem of women. Some men lose hard. Their woman is getting passed around but they don't get anything in return. It's more balanced for women. Nevertheless, the problem is the huge amount of jealousity that people can experience in open relationships. It can turn violent, especially towards the kids. This is an evolutionary thing.

A big difficulty are also STDs. Since we're one global community, you can get any STD known to man from the opposite side of the Earth.

Parenting as a duo is way harder than having a tight-knit community to look after each other. Before it was seen by the bitterness of the great generation and boomer parents. Now it's seen by the unwillingness to have children and modern work life demanding everything from both parents. The result is less and less kids being born and the older generations surviving without young people to look after them.

>>213527761
> Parenting as a duo is way harder than having a tight-knit community to look after each other.
For me and many people we just have families and friends that essentially make up a larger community that are all involved in our children’s’ upbringing in some way

>>213523768

>>213527761
I think that with all this gloom and doom we often forget there have been millions of families just in America who have stayed effective, social, and on the level during and throughout the entire boomer era. Sure decay has hit a lot of people, but there really are tons of families who just weren’t screaming at the news and screwing their kids throughout the decades

>>213525916
Because theoretically you've also had sex with people as well in your past.

>>213527805
>>213527913
Fair points. Some boomers pulled it off and you can still pull it off.

>>213528117
Trvth nvke

>>213523378
bein' a ho

>>213525504
>>213525850
It is not actually legal, it just cannot be used in a court of law IIRC.

>>213528117
Men and women are not the same.

>>213523217 (OP)
>What did she mean by this?

That she sees Bobby as a beta cuck provider, not someone who sexually excites her. Women IRL say this type of shit all the time to men they’re keeping on the backburner.

>>213523217 (OP)
Has anyone ever squared the circle on how female thought can think a man is too good to have sex with? Is that something they genuinely believe or is it just a half-hearted justification they throw out in a vague attempt at social grace

Bobby is an impotent, scared, man-child. This makes him easy prey for hyper-social women who will clamp their dusty labia around lesser male 'virility' as a last evolutionary gambit. The era of cat aunts and incel uncles is upon us, and we thought the boomers fucked up; imagine the voting block this will become and how easy it will be to pander to their infantile and broken ability to deduce reason from observation of reality.

>>213523217 (OP)
why did Connie turn out so bad?

>>213530040
Men want to have rough, degrading sex with whores but would see their own wife as a whore if she asked for that.

>>213523217 (OP)
>I'm going to wait until I'm 40 and fat to give you a chance. Get your money ready to take care of me

>>213530158
>woman
>nonWhite
Shocking

>>213523246
how is "i wouldn't have sex with you if money's not involved" a compliment?

>>213530040
Because they know they are whores and don't deserve a decent man, and no I'm not kidding

>>213530284
How is that what she said?

>>213525916
The unwritten social contract in a liberal western society basically assumes that everyone is open to have as many relationships as they'd like as long as they're outside the bounds of a committed relationship. You shouldn't care if your girlfriend has had a few boyfriends in the past because theoretically you've also been free to meet women and have girlfriends that you slept with. In an ideal scenario, you're extending the same courtesy to her that you've been given, with the understanding that a real love between you is worth investing in and is ultimately more important than her (or your) physical past. Of course, this falls apart when you're getting your first and only girlfriend after you turn 30, but that's the theory anyway

>>213530702
That's true, and has always worked for me

>>213523837
Community enables mental illness

>>213523378
Embarrassed Nude Male

>>213530307
Just how dense are you? There's no other way to interpret it even.

>>213527805
This sort of community building falls apart for some because they have to move for work. Stability is hard to achieve, especially since we're taught a well paying job is what you should strive for, instead of a solid community to grow from.

>>213526380
>Not sure why this concept makes anons on an anime discussion forum seethe so much.

Because the foundation of western civilization is built on the idea of committed monogamy, as much as you weird Bushwick gender people try to act like your bizarre inability to commit to someone is the same thing or same kind of love.

>>213524286
MNAAGHHHHH the French cuckposting has always been celebrated for its excellence
There is a California polycule by Mike Judge... inspired by that same french excellence....

>>213523768
you promised never to bring that up cuh.....

>>213523408
Yeah let's just go back to cousin and half-sibling orgies.

>>213523378
It's basically FWB except you can introduce them to family as your partner. Though whereas I've heard of FWBs upgrading to LTR, I think ENM is doomed to always fail.

>>213523217 (OP)
Why is this show suddenly so redpilled about womeme

>>213523217 (OP)
So basically you are not worthy of pleasure, admiration, and being a virile object of carnal lust but you are just meek enough to be considered for financial and emotional stability, famously unmasculine qualities.

goddamn, that's rough

>>213531983
Her worthless sex is not a prize, buddy, she's saying he's too good for her. Bobby fucks, btw

>>213533116
It's not about worthiness, because she has nothing worthy to give him. She is the one who feels she is unworthy of him

>>213523774
Polygamy can be both polyandry or polyginy.

>>213523217 (OP)
Translation into male: "you are too beta for me, but after i play the field and get hordes of cocks and become old and blown out I will feel bad and require a simp to tend to me and you are it".

>>213533308
How is getting access to her tight Laotian holes not something worth receiving? Are you saying pleasure is not worthwhile? It feels better to be cockblocked by someone you genuinely care about?

>>213533335
Connie's not his chosen one or anything, by the way. I don't think Bobby's going to have a shortage of women who jut want to be monogamous with him

>>213533434
>tight Laotian holes
If you're not going to take this seriously then that's your decision

>>213533589
If you think such things do not enter a man's mental calculus you are living in fantasy. Spare me the "not a serious person" rap, it will blow over as a "valid" comeback soon enough.

>>213524286
i think the french get sex the best of any country which is hilarious given how cowardly they are

>>213533036
If you use all those acronyms non-ironically then you should KYS

>>213525728
a ONS wanted me to fuck her up her
>arshehole (bri'ish)
i declined even though she had indulged my fetish kek. why would i want poop on my cock.

>>213533636
You're right it plays a factor but if a slut is telling you it doesn't make sense for you to degenerate yourself to her level, then I know how to put it down instead of daydreaming about south asian asshole about it

>>213533723
Again, the "down to their level" speak is something we tell children to keep them from rightfully standing up for themselves. I know you're a woman and this flavor of discourse does not come naturally, but you must understand that some of us have to see things as they are.

>>213533815
Im really not a woman, I'm saying she's a dumb slut and if she's acknowledging that for a second then you should take the red flag she is willingly raising in your face for what it is

>>213523408
>Half of all marriages fail

Because they aren't enforced anymore.

Back in ancient Rome a man could kill his wife AND the man his wife was cheating with if he ever caught them.

Do you people understand that simping for a slut can ruin your life and destroy your manhood, so if you give her the monogamy ultimatum and she literally says 'no', you just consider her a dumb slut or a ruined girl and move on?

>>213533903
Get you a girl who would rather be married than divorced, and make it clear you'll divorce her if she does anything like cheating

>>213533854
Then how can you not see the weight of the circumstances. Its not just a red flag, its Kahn Jr, in a certain sense its akin to Bobby being deprecated by his own mother, a loving institution for most of his life. Now he has somehow failed that institution in what feels to be a critical aspect, intimacy.

>>213533947
Yeah, there's some humiliation about it and we're witnessing Connie ruin a part of her own and Bobby's life. I agree with that. It's painful and retarded, the wages of her being a dumb slut, it hurts. I'm just saying you gotta let the bitch go or you're going to be damaging yourself

Ive wrapped around into the Norm school of thought by now. Sex is just boring at this point and largely the same experience every time. Most things are boring but sex is work *and* boring. The point of ENM is to string yourself along with theoretical variety, but there's not that many flavors of women. And a good chunk of flavors are bad anyway. And really there's not that many.
Even when I was having sex a lot I came to realize it was mostly to chase different types of women and voyeuristically peer into other lifestyles. But everyone is pretty much the same. Maybe 4 different types of people. It is all drudgery.

>>213533992
Of course he has to pass it over, this is the best option lest ye kick against the ocean, but he'll never be whole. He has been violated at a fundamental level from which other structures grew and will suffer, at least somewhat.

c'mon, you're a chick

>>213525916
lol what a loser
>>213526130
Called it

>>213534043
Yeah you can definitely have great sex when and if you want to, especially with your ONE PARTNER. But all this polygamy is really nothing more than sex addiction. Yes in other worlds it might work, or maybe you've really got it all figured out and polygamy is the best most organic thing for everyone involved, but jesus christ man it's a form of masturbation at a point. I give them as much respect as I give gooners (myself included, which is a very very low amount of respect)

>>213523217 (OP)
Betabucks

>>213534096
>this is the best option lest ye kick against the ocean, but he'll never be whole. He has been violated at a fundamental level from which other structures grew and will suffer, at least somewhat.
I didn't say that wasn't true either. I'm just saying it's life. She's become a dumb slut, it might hurt forever
At this point I'm not sure what we're arguing about except that I'm a guy

>>213526380
How tall are you?

>>213534170
Just bolstering the facts while pointing out that its worse than some flavor of the week leaving a bad taste. For a guy you seemingly glazed over attachment from the male perspective.

>>213534170
Okay faggot

i am 25 and have never even kissed a girl

i hate life and women

I dont evek know how to find women. I'm on every single dating app and get nothing but bots

>>213534169
This guy should sue Mike Judge.

>>213534243
Maybe I'm just jaded but Bobby's been fucking other people and I'm just giving you my fairly successful reaction to the same experience in my own life. I'm getting happily married in a month so maybe it's easier for me to put this shit behind me

>>213533932
>divorce her

And lose 50% of my net worth + alimony payments from here to eternity in addition to any child support payments.

>>213534293
That would have been the other option, i.e. "I got mine" attitude. No offense. It can be difficult to sort a domesticated man from an off-the-shelf woman.

>>213534333
It's a good life!

>>213534333
Also, yes
>"I got mine"
I say this shit to myself all the time, not just about relationships but about everything in my entire life. You get me. People should know how to get theirs

>>213534260
if you didn't get a gf in school, it's over because you don't have the social circles after school to incidentally meet women anymore. workplaces are largely still segregated so give up bro hate to say it. accelerate the western collapse so then people are forced out of the house again

>>213524286
Because the French actually enjoy sex and the poetry of life while over here we feel the need to analyze and categorize everything like it's cells in a spreadsheet.

>>213523217 (OP)
It means she doesn't want to fuck him. She isn't sexually attracted to him.

>>213523217 (OP)
She doesn't want him to be an Embarrassed Nude Male, because she wants her future husband to be dignified. Why is this bad?

Women can be re-virginized, chuds. A woman’s past doesn’t define her.

>>213534457
There's always the simple (but often hidden) route of learning just to be comfortable as an adult and being playful and honest with women you meet in shared settings you choose to go to because you actually enjoy them and feel comfortable there

>>213534761
That's uh... not necessary, lady. Really a warning sign for how she might handle conflict or guilt in the future

>>213534761
>58% match

>>213534457
Anon I've had like six relationships and a dozen hookups in the decade since I got out of school. You're fooling yourself if you imagine girls don't want some action from a guy who's not afraid of commitment. Go out a few times and you'll catch some pussy. I've gotten to the point where I have more fun turning girls down and watching them collapse. One time a girl asked me to come home with her and we laid in bed and I was like "btw I'm just here to cuddle" and she burst into tears and asked if there was something wrong with her.

>>213534917
The best part about starting dating after graduation, is the satisfaction of seeing how fucking strange and unfit the types of women you used to pine over are. Even as adults!

>>213534770
I envy people who can feel comfortable with others.

>>213534770
>>213534917
see these dishonest jews say absolutely nothing that could help you meet women out of school.

>>213523408
This is what every poly says when they are young.
It’s a bag of shit.
It never works out.

>>213534917
>the pixie hair curvy gf with cold skin and poor coordination who's got muchausen and malingers, who you break up with because she hurts herself on the first day of every job and quits, and is relying on being in school on her father's dime with no graduation plan
>big titty cocaine girl who calls you the nicest guy she ever met as she apologizes for having a diabetes indicator installed on her arm, saying its her own fault, tears up thanks you for letting her sleep in your bed tonight
>blonde chubby weed dealer who owns a half-breed miniature pig and invites you to the house her grandmother landlord gave her which she has trashed because she's got no sense owning a house
It's been awesome. Dating with actual self-respect rules

>>213523733
>I'm a slut, just not with you

Never goes well.

>>213535102
>could help you meet women out of school.
When did I mention school? I was talking about bars really

>>213523217 (OP)
Women really do say shit like this and think you're supposed to feel uplifted. They really do think empty platitudes mean something.

>>213535283
Hopefully you've got other prospects

>>213525754
Pretty sure there's an episode where Marge fantasizes about a black man fucking her and the episode is Homer accepting her fantasy.

>>213534917
I dont exactly have fun with it, im not a pussyhound but this year i had to turn down a girl i used to be FBWs because she got too fat and even tho her sex drive was up to 11 and she was literally begging me for sex i refused
It was just annoying

>>213525672
Nice

>>213534457
>school schizo here to post again about how bad he fucked up his life