>>712426785The third one is pretty accurate. But for me it's the femdom aspect as well. Every man, gay or straight, has an asshole that can feel pleasure. And when you got someone putting something up there you definitely feel like they are exerting some control over you. I am comfortable with penis, I touch mine plenty. But I do not like men, don't care about their pleasure, and do not find them attractive. Sure I can get off to trannies, but there's always something off with them, because no matter how hard they try to emulate women, they are still men. I also still love pussy, on my dick and in my face. And I'm not going to give that up for a fetish. So IRL the avenue I've fallen into is a real woman who pegs me on occasion. Who knows, maybe if I didn't form a bond with the woman I've been sexually active with for so long I could have went full gay. I don't concern myself with such things because to me they aren't real. What is real is where I'm actually at. Why do I need a woman to dominate me? As a child of two working parents the lack of motherly affection could be a factor. I do remember even in elementary school it excited me to agitate girls into trying to "hurt" me, or course no girl ever really could. I also believe there is some aspect in chronic masturbation where you do form a romantic bond with yourself or maybe a role you have created. All in all I can see how futa can bridge certain desires for people to become a stronger attractor.