>>712769493Westoids and i say that unironically
East asians get shamed into repressing their retarded urges until they grow and mature (and South Americans get beaten with a wooden spoon if they retard it up)
But Westoids are taught that beating your kid for being a Retard is wrong, and so these kids grow with their worst impulses unchecked, nuance is lost and those around you are no longer able to chnage in your eyes because you've never had to change, being a retard never brought bad consequences so why bother, right?
End result, growth and self acceptance are no go's, because that means these grown up kids gotta look back to their crushing social life, the way their shitty parents neglected them and so on and that hurts them
And hurt is never acceptable for those people
Naoto can't accept her failings and pair them with her virtues, she can not fail because those identifying with her (or him as many want to see the poor girl as) would have to contend with the harsh realities in life they were never properly educated to prepare for