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>Women don't fix you.
She can be a catalyst for you to better yourself.
>They don't fill the hole in your heart.
She can't fill the place that belongs to your relashionship with the eternal, but she can be one of, if not the most important piece to see your mission fulfilled.
They're not "your other half" no matter what hollywood propaganda has told you in order to force you to have babies.
One flesh. It's not good for man to be alone.
>You need to work on yourself first.
This work never finished. If you're lucky, you'll be working on yourself for the rest of your life. Being with her and having a family is the fastest way for your working on yourself to be effective and ordered to your nature.
>Become whole, get passionate about something.
These are two statements that are irrelevant ot each other. If you ask me, to become whole you'd need to fullfil your purpose on this world, both as the flesh you were born in, but also as the higher being you are called to act as.
Passion is besides the point, it's of little use when the world is against you. Entertaining your passions is a sure fire way of walking askew.
>Women are not looking for someone who depends on them.
This is true. Women seek someone resolute, a person who is capable of fighting but also protecting. If you want a good woman, that is, a good mother, it's best to be a good man, that is, a good father (even if you don't plan to on having children).