Have you ever made a real friend through online gaming? How long have your online friendships lasted?
>>714101518 (OP)No, I don't play enough online games
Yes. Have friends of 15+ years I've met up with irl. Dated a girl I met playing games for 3+ years. Have friends I've known anywhere from 3-8 years that I'd meet with. Stop being autistic it's not that hard.
>>714101518 (OP)6 months then nothing
>>714101518 (OP)I thought Disney movies were supposed to be happy
At the end of this movie theyโre literally not friends anymore, who the fuck ends a movie all depressing like that
>>714101746it's called the Disney dark age for various reasons, including your point.
an easier question would be, "how long has any friendship lasted" and mine would be when my childhood neighbor friend for 11 years got a girl teen pregnant when he was 17 and ran away.
>>714101518 (OP)When I was like 12 years old I had a lot of late teens and early 20s female friends on WoW. Typically Iโd assume they were just guys pretending to be girls, but I eventually added a few on MSN and to my surprise all of them were actually female. One of them lived one town over from me, and she wanted to meet me to give me some manga (she had a collection and I had never read any. Funnily enough she made me swear I wouldnโt tell any of our internet friends that she liked manga, which at the time I understood as her not wanting to be outed as an otaku to or our western media oriented friends or something, but I understand the true meaning now).
I met up with her after school on a Friday afternoon and we went to a park. The manga she showed me were largely /ss/ stuff. It started raining and when we took shelter below a tree she kissed me and made me fondle her breasts. Then we both left. In the weeks afterwards she made me call her on the phone while I masturbated to the /ss/ manga, I believe she was masturbating too. Eventually my parents got mad at me for the phone bill and I told a bullshit story about my online friend (and never called her again).
I just googled her and sheโs a spokesperson for some mid level tech company now lmao
>>714101518 (OP)They don't actually say that in this scene
>>714101518 (OP)Ive made friends on Twitch
>>714101518 (OP)M8 of mine from wow ended up living in the same city as I do.
Met up to get pizza and ended up being good friends, still my goto when I need someone for anything MP related.
>>714101746Fox and the Hound was when Disney still had the balls to scare the shit out of kids.
Mine lasted 13 years. I was his best man in his wedding. He ended up going woke and got mad at me for saying nigger, even though he also said it all the time, and he ended our friendship.
>>714101518 (OP)I think this is one of Disneys best movies.
I met a kid on runescape in 2003 that I still talk to every day. he showed me 4chan a couple years later, that faggot escaped this shithole somehow though
I also still regularly talk to 8 or 9 people I met either on WoW or a private tracker forum that I've known since between 2010 and 2015 or so
out of those people I've met 6 of them irl
>>714101746Disney if anything sanitized the book. In the book Tods children and previous mates at various points are killed in some fashion by the Hunter. They also both die at the end Tod dying of exhaustion and Copper being shot by the senile owner so he can live in a nursing home.
>>714101518 (OP)Nope, I act like a psychotic piece of shit when playing games cuz it's funny to me.
>>714101683>Stop being autistichttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubKUMlEppAs
I know one guy who met his 2 girlfriends on lol
He's a retard who's always flaming, guess some girls are into that
What was the moral of the movie?
Friendship is stronger than blood?
>>714102352oh and during WOTLK some 16 year old girl from my town joined my guild, the same night she joined I found out she lives 2 miles away and she picked me up and we smoked a couple joints in her car
I ended up seeing her a few times a year for close to a decade but haven't talked to her in years at this point
now I haven't touched a multiplayer game in years
>>714102738Despite societal division and conflicting nature you can still remain friends with someone.
>>714101746Retard. The scene literally pictured in the OP is meant to wordlessly indicate they still like one another.
>>714101518 (OP)Met a buddy of mine on gmod in 2013, ended up being into a lot of the same weird/autistic shit as I am, seemed like the only person that had the same sort of incoherent and stupid sense of humor.
Don't talk to him anymore sadly, went full tankie sperg and constantly tried to turn every conversation into "haha that's so funny btw in 1953 Mao said XYZ which is almost related lol" and throwing a fit any time someone didn't think like him.
I hope he gets better, but he's pretty far down the rabbit hole.
He used to be a cool dude, literally the only person I could run tarkov with and not hate every second of it.
>>714101746Childrens movies can show different emotions.
>>714101746It's kind of a bittersweet ending, it's implied that they know they can't "be friends" the way it was when they were kids anymore but they've still got each other's backs and it won't be the last time they see each other. I like to think the implication is that Tod and his fox waifu moved to the area around the houses and they'll probably chill at night or something and Tod will probably start visiting his human mom again too
>>714102264In the original Tod's mentor dog dies instead of getting injured and I think them toning that down really harms the narrative, it makes Copper getting so vindictive actually make sense. It's the core event that drives them apart and the story kind of doesn't work without it
>>714102745>first night you talked to her, she drove 2 miles in her own car so you could smonk w33dwhat the fuck, get out normalfag
>>714101746Fags like you are the reason why the modern movies are feelgood safe slop that bores everyone.
not really but i've never had a friend i could be completely honest with anyway. i used to think maybe i could find "real" friends online who shared my eccentricities but could never connect with someone with enough overlap in interests. then the woketard police made it impossible to talk to people without walking on eggshells so i gave up. it's tough being a furfag and a chud at the same time i tell ya
>>714102738The moral is that ultimately friendship prevails, but it has to come with the understanding that things change and it's not as simple as when you were kids.
>>714103504Villan of the movie is a jewish loan shark
What did Disney mean by this
>>714103985I thought he was an italian mob boss. But what kind of mob boss is dumb enough to loan money to a homeless beggar?
>>714104069The same type of mob boss who does the collecting of debts himself
>>714101916>>714101746for me, it's Return To Oz
>>714102073could she be retroactively arrested for this
Im gonna say it
The Disney Dark age was their best age.
>>714104872>im edgy and only like dark 2deep4u media
>>714102073Send her a message and ask for more manga recommendations.
>>714102073This is bullshit but i believe it
Met one on TF2, friends for 10+ years.
Then I found out he was stalking my online activity and making vague references to my sexuality. In hindsight, he only seemed like we had a lot in common because he was obsessively mirroring me.
Now I loathe him.
>>714101518 (OP)I have but every time I met them IRL they're insufferable. I like hanging with my work friends who don't play video games better.
>>714101518 (OP)>friend dies in a car crash shortly after we graduate high school>had to tell a mutual friend online we both had that he died>that was 9 years ago, because his steam profile was last online that long ago
>>714103985Fagin's the jew and he wasn't the villain, more of an underling that turns good at the end.
>>714101518 (OP)Been friends with one dude i met in shadowbane for 19 years now. We just played warhammer inquisitor martyr last night
>>714101518 (OP)Over a decade and still going.
>>714101746My only recollection of this movie is sadness.
>>714102073I unironically lost my virginity to a 27 year old woman I met playing WoW. I was 16 at the time, during TBC. She was 5'2, and looked a lot like the girl in this webm. She flew to my city many times, her dad paid for it, and each time we spent the entire time in a hotel room fucking for days at a time. I never wore a condom, and I never pulled out. I know you all think this is a larp but it's real. I even visited her once I turned 18. It ended shortly after, I assume it's because I was too old and she found some beta bucks provider she is married to today. I found her on instagram like 5 years ago. I think her oldest child is mine.
One of my online friends unfortunately killed himself just recently. It hurts a lot. I've just been going through old posts he made every day with tears in my eyes. But the older you get the more deaths you go through until you die yourself online or offline. Life sucks
>>714105945>2deep4u mediawhere?
>>714101518 (OP)No, all my friends suck at gaming and we probably wouldn't have met that way.
>>714107721Yeah we need more details, how did your relationship start?
I've never made a friend.
>>714101518 (OP)There was this guy on Ragnarok Online that I hung out with every day. We hung out in some of the dungeons, ganking people whenever we could. He was a rogue and was from Poland, so we didn't talk much, but we did alittle bit. He would tell me stuff about world war 2, which seemed very important to him. I hope he's doing good whatever he's up to in life.
>>714101518 (OP)I met my boyfriend playing online. We've been together 5 years.
>>714102039i met my best friend when we were like between 10 and 12 year old
im 34, hes 33, we have the same birthday, hes still my best friend
i would probably catch a bullet for that bastard
in 2015 i made a friend on PSN via Bloodborne, was going through a rough time after dropping out of a training program, dude seriously helped me get through it
>>714101518 (OP)I met my best man in Warhammer online. We still chat briefly every other day not he's busy working now and I'm busy being a dad. Haven't gamed in maybe 2 years sadly, but when the lockdowns hit we basically spent every day playing video games for 6 to 8 hours.
Right before d4 launched I met another dude again in d4 who I played over 5000 hours of world of Warcraft with, but he was sadly still the very same person who I lost contact with 8 years ago. Back on lithium for good bipolar disorder, how social circle disbanded, he left his hand he was with for a time, no longer in a relationship. Talking to him was like talking to a corpse, he completely have up. Even though I lost the boat game connection with my best man, at least he has some goals and does some shit, I can respect that.
>>714101518 (OP)i thought i had, some american guy, for some reason we grew a bit distant after i moved to chile from venezuela
recently i sent him a message on steam about Deltarune, since he gifted me Undertale back in the day, which i really enjoyed
no response, Rez i know you are there, pick up the phone you idiot, i bet you are reading this thread, i still havent forgotten when you made me buy a TF2 key to unbox a shitty luchador mask for the heavy
tod
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I made many friends on furcadia but over the course of 20 years all be two have moved on and we don't talk much anymore let alone game together. Last games I played with one friend was Minecraft almost two years ago, the other Palworld.
>>714101746its a sad ending, sure, but its a warm kind of sad, you know they'll get to live a happy life, even if they are apart
>>714102494I want to see that movie
Nah I'm in my 40s and everyone online (including me) is insufferable. I have one IRL friend in his 50s whom I game with. That's all I need.
>>714101518 (OP)I met a frustratingly good Italian guy through Il-2, somehow endless shit talking each other turned to friendship, stayed at his place when I was visiting last year, cool guy
>>714109368>In the most try hard guild on the server>Gearing up my alt for the guilds split runs>/2 LFG Tank, Heroic Black Morass PST>get invited>carry the run>group was mostly shit but the druid healer did alright>leave and invite them to run more heroics>end up doing 2 more>add them to my friends list and let them know I'll send and invite their way if they're on later for more>run a bunch more over the next couple days>time to do kara>one of our healer alts was slacking and we need a body>message new healer friend and get them to fill the spot>after this we end up playing all the time together>get them a spot in the guild>they never speak in vent>eventually she says something one day while we're farming for gold months later>shocked it's a girl, never met a real one in WoW before>never treat her any differently, joke around like she's one of the boys>she never talks to anyone else, entire guild thinks it's just some dude that doesn't talk>a few months of this and she asks if I want to webcam on skype>go to walmart and buy a camera>we chat like this almost daily while we play WoW>one night she's drunk and flashes me on camera>shortly after our conversations get more personal, no longer just about the game>share phone numbers and text eachother all the time>jokingly say we should meet sometime>she books a flight 3 weeks later>pick her up at the airport (I had my license and car)>go to applebees and get food>back to her hotel>she initiates and we have sexI got a bit lucky in that I used to spend a lot of time at my friends because he played WoW too, so disappearing for a weekend wasn't suspicious. My parents did eventually suspect something when they noticed I was texting someone from a different area code but they never really figured it out.
>>714111715>after a little over a year of her flying out to visit semi regularly I'm 18>I go visit her>everything is normal>at the end of the trip she says she recently had to have an abortion and thought I should know>we slowly drift apart after that trip>get nostalgic in 2020 and google her old ign>she has am instagram with the same tag>she's married>3 kids>her oldest daughter looks exactly like my sister>figure out how old she is based off one of the instagram captions>her age is exactly correct if it was my kid>decide not to bother them and just let it be
>>714111715How did she feel about the age gap?
>>714101518 (OP)Still good friends with a group from some obscure Naruto forum back in like 2005.
Also really close friends going on 14+ years now from here.
>>714101518 (OP)Yeah, several from /v/ that I ended up playing games with and making a group on Steam. We trolled the shit out of /v/ for a few months. It was hilarious. Then when they found out I was getting married they all ghosted me. It only came out because they wanted to know why I was going to be gone for a few weeks. It was pathetic lol. That was over 10 years ago.
There is one guy thatโs still on my list that didnโt care though, even though we never talked much. Heโs a real G.
>>714112142As time went on she became more uncomfortable with it. She wanted a family someday and was approaching 30. Being so young made her anxious that I wasn't in a position to provide for one.
>>714101518 (OP)Last time I had a real friend was back in 2013 when I was still a teen. We knew each other for 8 years at that point and the day I had to move I cut all contact with him. Completely ghosted him, I wanted a fresh start so badly that I wished to cut out of my life the only man willing to be my friend, hoping a new and fresh start would allow me to find solutions and opportunities towards fixing my broken family. I manipulated all of my family to agree to move away, it was my fucking stupid idea! And now 12 years later I'm still alone, no friends, all dreams, ambitions and prospect have withered into nothing, and learned that you can not fix something that isn't there, that never was real, never truly existed; my family. I learned my lesson but I'm certain I will be paying the consequences for me being a cunt for rest of my life.
>>714103202those are some hot bitches
>>714101518 (OP)I asked my fellow online Halo 3 squeaker friend if he was circumcised, he got all weirded out and quiet...yeah he suddenly stopped accepting my invites after that.
Autism moment.
>>714101518 (OP)had one for like a year things turned weird between us during my country presidential election when he said that i was petty much voting for a nazi and i just said fuck em immigrants and socialist dude was american
>>714106456This happened to me too, only 16 years ago. Same deal, we played Left 4 Dead the day he was killed in a car wreck. Got a call from his parents the following morning asking me to alert all his friends since I was closest to him. In another year or so he'll have been dead as long as I knew him for.
>>714107721>I think her oldest child is mineobvious cuck fetish larp
>>714114203>I manipulated all of my family to agree to move awayHow?
>>714110001Tod is so cute and hot
>>714104069Times are tough
I don't know how to make friends because I say one wrong thing that's so out of line for most people I never give it a second thought though, hard to temper yourself when it seems like everyone is ready to snap and assblast you on social media
>>714104069once you got someone on the hook, they become a tool limited only by your imagination. the more desperate, the better
>meet american bro on old FPS shooter
>talk every 3 - 4 months
>sends me pictures of his bike / truck / chainsaw / lawn mower he is working on in his remote hut in idaho
>done this for 5 years now
>tell him is he ever visits bongistan and wants a tour i'll show him around
>seems like literally every broitish person ever hates americans and vice versa
me and my american bro are singlehandedly repairing anglo-american relations
>>714109592>met when you were young>you have the same birthday 1 year apart>still best frens>i would probably catch a bullet for that bastardHe's your best fren or close family member from another life, I guarantee it.
>>714114971My father was working abroad. I always pitched the idea of coming to him. How living abroad would be better for all of us. How we could finally be all together. How we could finally own a home where each of us didn't have to share a same room. How we could finally see each other more often than once a fucking month. How we could finally afford something better to eat than cheap yogurt and noodles.
>>714102039around 4 years as a teenager.
i remember my best friend charlie sticking up for me in a fight, hes the only guy who's ever had my back so i think about him sometimes even though its been 12- years since i've seen him.
>>714115435That only works for people with something to lose. In the context of the animal adaptation of Oliver Twist, Fagin is just a homeless bum living in an abandoned port with some dogs. He has no home, no family, friends, nothing. It would be like Tony Soprano lending 10,000 dollars to a nun who lives in a shed and has no belongings.
Capped from the last thread.
>>714110775It's just a book
>>714104069>>But what kind of mob boss is dumb enough to loan money to a homeless beggar?>Loan money to homeless guy>Homeless guy cant pay it back because duhโฆ>Threaten his life and force him to do dirty jobs in exchange for small payment reductions>Interest keeps him your slave forever or until he gets arrested/killedThe mob did this all the time
>>714102039My longest running friend I met in first grade maybe, I'm 32 now.
He's kind of a chuunibyo and hasn't managed to really become an adult yet but he's a loyal dude and we still talk regularly. We're both still in our hometown so he's right down the street
>>714116712>We're both still in our hometown so he's right down the streetits nice to have someone you grew up with local still.
so many people i knew as kids have moved away to other countries or opposite sides of the country, it can make you feel like a loser for staying in the place you grew up.
>>714101518 (OP)Me and a random group of 14 people randomly met during Tree of Savior's release in 2016, and we gradually became a guild and all quit together years later. We are all still friends and hangout on Discord 9 years later
>>71410203910-12 years, I don't remember exactly, he changed for worse when he entered uni
Last time I talked to him was like 4 years ago, I've been on my own since then
Met 5 people from my IRL friends streaming community. Still friends with them all 10 years later. Probably gonna meet up with at least two of them next year.
Also raided with the same WoW guild from the start of the Classic relaunch all the way to the end of Wrath (I skipped Cara but still friends with them). Last year they had a guild get together I couldn't attend. Gonna go this year though.
Making friends is easy when you're handsome.
>>714114956I don't have a cuck fetish. If that's what you're reading then it's the result of your own porn addiction.
>>714115870Damn. I didn't come to /v/ today to cry.
>>714115870man fuck this gay earth
>>714102039my average seems to be 7-8 years of pretty solid friendship followed by one or both of us diverging whether it be personality, real life shit, hobbies etc we just don't click anymore. the worst one is prob when a buddy got a night shift job and wanted me to play at like midnight when I had a job that started at 7 am. sorry man life put us on different trajectories. could be worse but I do wonder about some of the old friendships especially irl from college.
genuinely flummoxed on how to make friends these days, i have three friends from school, now in our late 20's, the four of us are each facing the exact same problem, its not that we dislike each other but its just so weird that none of us can make any new friends anymore no matter what we do. fkin book clubs, tennis, arts, concerts whatever
so odd
>>714115870it's such a weird thing to make up shit on the internet, it amounts to nothing
>>714101518 (OP)No, because most of the people who share my interests are commie retards with severe TDS or literal faggots.
It gets tiresome putting on my "nonchalant le apolitical face" after so long.
>>714117938>I live such a boring, joyless existence I can't imagine anyone having anything interesting happen to themLook I'm more likely to believe someone pouring their soul out on 4chan than leddit. No one's trying to get fake internet points.
>>714117938>I'm a lonely bitter faggotI'm sitting 3 metres away from my wife whom I met on /r9k/ when she was 19, we're in our 30s now. She moved countries to be with me. It's completely possible that story took place. If you don't believe it that says more about you than the author.
>>714101518 (OP)>back in the early Halo 3 xbox live days>me and my brother would take turns playing >we have head headset but don't really talk>some dude would pronounce double kill as 'dooblay kill' and we thought it was the funniest shit ever>we send a friend request and he accepts>for several years if he was on either of us would join his lobby if we could I think we just stopped playing halo.
>>714115870it's a lot easier to believe every sad story I see on this godforsaken website is more pathological attention seeking/trolling but goddamn this one just scrapes by my postal code enough to get me anyways
>>714118306Were you in Growlithe/the r9k tinychat way back when?
>>714119182Nope
>>714119032Long enough to know you're likely obese and live with your parents.
>>714115762you're supposed to give them something to live for, then threaten to take it away. as I said, it only works if you have an imagination
>>714101518 (OP)>brokeback mountain for kids
>>714101518 (OP)literally all my remaining IRL friend I met in guild wars 1 over 18 years ago
made frens from a /vg/ group 10 years ago and the group is still more or less around
We've had 1 big meet and we're doing another this year
Fuck knows how you make friends online now, especially past 30 when you're supposed to be settling down with a family instead of playing video games with 4chan
>>714119182r9k chat groups back in the day were kino, wish I was better socially adjusted to have made the best of them
and so I didn't blow it with the (only) girl I e-dated
>>714116867Yeah, I don't like the incredibly recent culture shift of leaving the nest and splitting apart from family.
I moved out for a while but my parents had me at a really old age and I want to be around them while they're still kicking, and I'm adopting the house after them anyways so I ended up just moving back in. I miss the privacy but in every other sense it's the ideal living conditions.
>>714123967>incredibly recent culture shift of leaving the nest and splitting apart from familHasn't been a thing since the late 2000's. More families are realizing kicking out or ostracizing your kid at 18 means they won't give a flying fuck about you when you reach your senile years. Then what? Everything gets taken from you, you rot in a nursing home. Now baby boomers? They deserve that entirely but later ones don't.
>>714118306that's not fair, the girl I met on /r9k/ 8 or so years ago ghosted me...ah well.
>>714101518 (OP)Yeah. made two friends playing TF2 in 2008, still friends today.
>>714102494>One morning, after Tod's escape from the greyhounds, the Master sends Copper on the hunt. After he picks up the fox's trail, Copper relentlessly pursues him throughout the day and into the next morning. Tod finally drops dead of exhaustion, and Copper collapses on top of him, close to death himself. The Master nurses Copper back to health, and both enjoy their new popularity, but after a few months the excitement over Copper's accomplishment dies down. The Master is left alone again, and returns to drinking. He is once again asked to consider living in a nursing home, and this time he agrees. Crying, he takes his shotgun from the wall, leads Copper outside, and pets him gently before ordering him to lie down. He covers the dog's eyes as Copper licks his hand trustingly.
Unironically I stopped believing in "friends". I'm pretty social, I meet & speak with a lot of people. But I always tend to drop contact sooner or later. I was pretty close with a guy IRL but he lost his life in an accident.
Also does anyone else have this thing where you meet a new person, and you get along well and they seem really cool, then shortly after they die? Happened twice to me.
>>714124540From my experience it's less on the parents and more on the the kids themselves. I usually see parents happy to keep the family together and pass on the house and all that but culturally it's seen as a fail state so people's kids still feel a need to leave the nest permanently.
>>714101746Why does it bother you?
I was friends with a dude I met on starcraft for a few years before I went to college. Also played some LoL with him
Met him once in person because he was only one state over, was kind of a weird experience but not bad. I still get social media updates from him sometimes, he's a realtor now
>>714101518 (OP)I've never been a friends guy. At this point I'm too jaded to expect anyone to want to connect with me over others. I'd add some people on MMOs to raid with but that wouldn't last after quitting. Lately I've turned to VRChat but all english speaking people are unhinged so I mostly talk to nips since I know JP. Some I've known for over 2 years
How do I make friends online? Feels like its nearly impossible to make them when you're out of college.
In Discord channels people just talk past each other and aren't really interested in doing things with others. Friendships seem to last only a short while then fizzle out. Making guys friends sometimes seems hard because guys sort of act strange, or have weird hangups or competitive streaks with you out of nowhere.
Once someone suggested roleplaying, but honestly I've been roleplaying for 20 years since I was 10 and I've found most people there don't want to make friends. They either keep you quarantined on their lewd discord being deathly afraid you'll out them or beg you for roleplay constantly to the point of it being a serious embarrassment.
As a warning, if you don't have close bros now, at my stage in life, you're cooked. You'll never have close pals you can enjoy parts of life with. So the ones you have now? Keep them close. I lost my pals, so for me its so over.
I had a few buddies online through forums with my closest friend being a guy named Carl (obviously not his real name but that shit didn't matter). We spent most of the time on Aim back in the day with me telling him stupid stories, bullshitting about games, music or whatever.
Eventually I pretty much up and quit forum lurking to go out and get my shit together, so we eventually drifted apart until AOL eventually shut everything down and we hadn't exchanged alternate messaging so that basically killed it for us.
Good ole Carl should be doing fine for himself now, wouldn't mind stomping him in some shitty steam games nowadays though