>>714356059 (OP)The problem is lack of marriage and lack of parental guidance.
Man or women, people become sexually conscious much sooner than the public conscience allows. We're just very smart animals with big egos that makes us think we aren't, after all.
About proof of sexual awareness. For boys I don't have to convince anyone, and for girls. I heard plenty of stories from retarded sluts about how they were fantasising about sucking their teachers cock when 12, etc. etc.
Its a trauma when you're 9, its not when you're 14 (coincidentally earliest age to avoid post maternal trauma for women is 15). 14 for both sexes is streching it, but its just about ready desu.
Although I would never say it to my normie friends, I see no problem with relationships as this if they were to end up in marriage and if they were done with parent's approval.
The younger side will surely become dependent on the older, but that also is not inherently a bad thing and impossible number of relationship even today work on this dynamic, no matter how much americans won't shut the fuck up about independence. How this got memed in western society and how people think of it, is in regards to abusive relationships. Its true, that if the older person is abusive, its a worse case scenario that if the equivalent was same age. But relationships in general are not inherently abusive last time I checked, so the entire argument against the dynamic is starting from bad faith, like most of the stupid shit around women and sex nowadays.