>>715207228I don't care how many people are wrong about something, they are still wrong about it.
if you want to be retarded and base your world view on opinions of retards instead of facts of reality, that's your prerogative.
it's not gay because a man isn't involved in it, simple as.
you can do this with literally anything you want, you can say that showing emotion is gay, that dancing is gay, that drinking water instead of whiskey is gay, that eating candy is gay, that wearing the colour pink is gay (even though historically pink was actually considered the male colour and blue the female colour) and it's ridiculous and is based on nothing because it's dreamt up by insecure, intolerant, scared of anything that doesn't conform to their shallow and misinformed worldview.
some cultures think that two men kissing isn't gay, but friendship, some think that if you hug your guy friend he needs to punch you in the face cause what are you a sissy faggot or something? cultural hangups and opinions don't change reality of things and definitions and words.
facts are facts.
gay is being attracted to persons of the same sex. nothing else is gay. nothing.
think if anything that's not "being attracted to the person of the same sex", did it? it's not gay. it's a very simple flowchart.
one thing is the word, and everything else isnt. because everything else you put into it is useless insecure baggage of stereotypes that serve nothing but sabotage everyone from just fucking living life.
it doesn't fucking matter if you're gay or not, it's not important, it's as trivial as the colour of the socks you're wearing, but definitions are definitions, and you trying to skirt them and brainwash yourself and others with delusions that somehow one thing or a other is such and such serves no fucking purpose in the world.