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Fetish forms in men when two brain systems accidentally fire together:
1. Limbic system, which is responsible for sexual arousal to visual cues (big ass, thighs, whatever)
2. Salience network, which tags important events, including positive and negative ones, to discern which ones are good and bad, and help you adjust for them.
If something shocking, offensive, or intense happens to you, your salience network will release dopamine combined with stress hormones to make you hate it, but also obsess over it so you can be prepared for it in the future.
A FETISH DEVELOPS when you are aroused (by normal stimuli, like butts) while also being shocked/offended at the surrounding material, which triggers the Salience network to obsess on it and keep thinking about it.
This is why fetishes are always based in offensive or taboo stimuli.
Interracial is a prime example
Eventually, your brain will associate the two and your limbic system will adapt, allowing you to be aroused by the offensive fetish content itself without of the normal stimuli present.
HOWTO ELIMINATE YOUR FETSIH
(Extinction via exposure):
You weaken the fetish circuit by exposing the brain to the fetish without rewarding it—NO AROUSAL, despite exposure.
Steps:
1. Masturbate to normal, healthy stimuli (vanilla ass+tits)
This activates natural sexual circuits and triggers the refractory period, a state where arousal is suppressed.
2. 30secs after orgasm, during the refractory period, mentally expose yourself to the fetish cue (offensive stimuli)
Deeply imagine it, and reflect on it—but DO NOT pair it with stimulation.
Repeat this process consistently.
Over time, the brain learns the fetish no longer predicts reward, and the associations fade.
There is a brief "classic extinction burst" where your brain checks to see if the path is truly closed or not by flagging it as urgent, but if you pass that, the fetish is over.
