>>716202848 (OP)It’s really just about how you present yourself and your hobbies
Gaming gets a bad reputation because of confirmation bias in a lot of people
They see someone who might not take the best care of themselves (bad hygiene, over/underweight, bad fashion, etc) and hearing they play games as their primary hobby confirms that all gamers must be slovenly losers
I’m considered attractive by a lot of people, take care of myself, and am decently successful, so when people ask how I spent my night and I tell them I was playing games, they’re shocked but also interested and usually entertain me to ask more about what I’m playing
I’ve had legitimate conversations with turbo normie chads and stacies about why I like Koei Musou games and it’s a little bizarre to see them make comments like “oh I didn’t know they made games about ‘ancient China’ I wonder if they’ll do something like that for the American revolution haha”
Any hobby can be made interesting by the person describing it with enough sincere honesty