>>716331947 (OP)>ever letting yourself get caught up in work gossip (being messy or contributing to bad conversations)>ever letting yourself get stressed about performance issues (literally being too stupid or inefficient to fulfill job duties)If the above apply to you in the workplace, you have unironically failed as a person and need personal evaluation.
>b-but it’s not my fault!!Both above instances are your fault, either because you’re a disingenuous person socially or because you lied about your abilities.
You are the problem.
Even the worst coworkers who actively hold grudges or try to ruin you cannot do so unless you personally contribute to their malice.
You have done something and you should suffer consequences as a result.
Stop being a fucking loser.
Anyone who stresses about work unrelated to things like basic deadlines is a failure and is not fit to be in that environment until they improve themselves.
In your case, it’s painfully obvious that you’re immature if you’re trauma dumping on randoms who couldn’t care less or know about your situation.
Work on yourself.