>>717063787 (OP)>how do you cope?Unironically get good.
I'm sympathetic to the people who say games should be easy because they're toys, that's completely valid and objectively true, the "delayed reward" people are also 100% correct though. You have to ask yourself what you're willing to put up with though - I beat Malenia 3 times, on 3 different characters, in Elden Ring because I fucking love Elden Ring, but there's no way in shit I'd put that much work into some random game I wasn't attached to.
Stellaris is a different example of this situation: every other year they release a patch that makes the game completely fucking different. Recently, they released a patch that changed everything about how population/workers/the economy works and I had to sit my ass down and watch a fucking tutorial. I had to take a vocational online course for Stellaris.
I don't even know if I like Stellaris "that much", but I can't stop now.