>>717686772 (OP)
modern society has socially castrated young men by beating down their self esteem and elevates empowered women.
for many people the ideal woman is a reflection of their mother and the modern mother is usually a suited worker woman, to some degree, empowered and often controling of the house, cold because the economy doesn't allow mothers to be motherly, but caring deep down.
Such characters are often referred to as "mommy" for a reason.