>>718026559
You say that because you're a lower class person born into a collapsing civilization where being low class is normal. In the past, women had an average of 2 partners throughout their life, not because they had sex before getting married but because of how averages work: promiscuous women and prostitutes drag the average up. The majority of women didn't have sex before marriage. Premarital sex was considered disgusting and shameful, so only classless people (degenerates) did it. Our society still has holdovers from that time, like people joking "I can no longer be married" or the concept of consummating a marriage: if you've already been having sex with your husband, who cares if you have sex on your wedding night? It's literally meaningless. The wedding dress being white is also supposed to represent a woman's chastity, but only some devoutly religion women actually marry as virgins nowadays, so all these women who get married in a white gown are disrespectful their own culture, like monkeys walking around in suits and pretending to be civilized.
But that's because, in a sense, it isn't their own culture. 90% of the people alive today would not exist had it not been for advances in medicine over the past few hundred years. The way societies function is the intelligent, kind, clean, hard-working upper class have only a few children, but pretty much all of them survive to adulthood, while the dumb, criminal, dirty, lazy lower class have lots of children, but pretty much all of them die in childhood, and the two balance out. Since the 1830s, in the West, thanks to societal and technological advances, shitty people (like you) have been outbreeding good people, so now being a degenerate is normal.
There's no reason to have sex with someone if you're not going to raise children with them. Of course, barbarians don't raise children so they'll just have sex for fun, but if sex is just for fun, then why is rape and child molestation so vehemently criminalized?