>>718556878 (OP)
my wife doesn't have to "let" me do anything. i just do it
having said that i don't really play with other people, well other than my wife. i do attent tournaments though to hang out with the boys for a few days, and she went to a few with me. she was extremely bored the whole time but said she wasn't and tried her best not to show it, which is pretty cute, i can appreciate it. she also likes to hang out with the boys and told me they're nice to be around.
we're all in our 30s-50s with some having families.