Thread 718948259

What games will keep me from relapsing?

cod

a big part of porn use is boredom. get more hobbies so you have things to cycle through when you don't want to play vidya.
https://flying-eagle-method.org/

>>718948259 (OP)
Fapping is not the problem with your life. It's just a symptom. You have a lot of empty time so you indulge yourself with distractions.
Form a proper schedule, go the fuck outside, and exercise.

>>718948341
does drawing furry porn count as a hobby

Does jerking off really fuck up your life the way people says it does? I feel like being fat is a way worse place to be than being a jerk off.
At least the Jerk off might have some of his shit together. Fat fucks already have given up.

>>718950023
I can only see a couple of problems
1. You just spend a lot of time doing it, not paying attention to stuff that matters
2. You make it your personality and become one of those crazy guys who make it into a social thing and end up with having a youtube video made about them

>>718950456
That's just mental illness. Happens with anything. Women in particular make their whole fucking personality the most mundane bullshit ever, and even some men.
It's pathetic as fuck but if people can't see past it by now I don't know what to tell them.

>>718948259 (OP)
You're bored. You don't have enough to do. Go outside of your comfort zone and figure out how to fill your day with activities. If you smoke weed quit. If you drink excessively, quit.

>>718950023
I don't see how. Ejaculating periodically is a physiological need, same as for example shitting. Jacking off is just a satisfaction of it like any other, better than some even.
The only reason to feel bad about that is internalizing some faggot propaganda by some faggot ideology that wants to you be frustrated and easily controllable by carrots on sticks.

>>718948429
No, that's a profession. Assuming you're passible enough to get dumb furfags to give you money for it at least.

>>718950456
>1. You just spend a lot of time doing it, not paying attention to stuff that matters
I don't understand this argument. What else am I supposed to do when I get horny at 10pm?

>>718950023
It's just people who cannot comprehend moderation letting the small things become life consuming

>>718951710
Gamedev

Multiplayer games. You'll get so pissed off that you won't even remember that you want to fap

>>718952005
but I already do that for ~3 hours after work

>>718950023
depends how often you do it. there are some people out there who only live to jerk off, nothing else matters to them.

>>718948341
>come home from work mentally and/or physically exhausted
>have just enough energy for gym
>oh look it's 3 hours before bed!
>i can maybe squeeze in a game or 2 of tf2 before i need to shit, shower, and shave before getting to bed at a reasonable hour
>at best can read a book to bore yourself to sleep
Hobbies are a meme as an adult unless you are in the 1% and have more money and free time than you know what to do with.

>>718950023
Cooming to porn is the equivalent of shooting up heroin. Sex SHOULD be only reserved for someone you love but if you live in a society of gooners and coomers, why would you try to be any different? If you're the 1 guy in the office who doesn't smoke out of 50 employees, what difference does it make for lung cancer?

I hate zoomoids so much.

>>718952123
>Sex SHOULD be only reserved for someone you love but if you live in a society of gooners and coomers, why would you try to be any different?
>Sex
nigger, I would if I could
>30 virgin this year
>first gf in highschool was dating me to get revenge on her ex
>college gf abused me and got her rocks off denying me sex
>first coworker gf was asexual
>second coworker gf got cold feet and reported me to HR
>have dated 10+ women from dating apps, none of them have gone past 2 dates because they're all looking for their golden goose
>met current chick online and we're long distance
women are a fucking meme

>>718952405
>long distance
MASSIVE meme. Even more so if you're about to tell me she is Asian.

Otherwise, from my own perspective, the only thing that led me to being successful with as many women as I have been was to settle for the 4s-7s and huff my own farts. Being 6'3", gym, and looking like the guy from You might also help but at 30 myself I look back on everything as:
>man i should've stuck with that girl. she would have been great wife material
>on the other hand, at least i didn't marry someone who would divorce me/be trapped in a shitty marriage (50% of marriages end, half of the remaining aren't happy meaning 75% of marriages suck)
Then again, I am trying to transition my mind from youth who needs to fuck to boring adult that needs to max out a 401k

>>718952090

Godot chads where we at

>>718953152
Busy fapping I guess

>>718953267

oh well

>>718950023
It does not, it's religious fundamentalist propaganda to make you feel bad about basic biological urges instead of trying to meaningfully improve your life.

>>718948259 (OP)
Last Hope.

>>718952123
>Cooming to porn is the equivalent of shooting up heroin
why do people say this dumbass shit
you must have started posting on this shitty website when you were 10 years old and now it's rotted your brain

>>718953062
>MASSIVE meme
unironically, what's the alternative? shitty apps or approach women in public? the former is trash and the latter simply doesn't work anymore

>>718953442
Is this bait?

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4600144/

>>718953480
Learn to be ok by yourself. Since we're both 30 this might resonate but like I said, I am trying to distance myself from things like girls, drinking, etc and focus much more on a career and finances. Perhaps you're the opposite of me and 1 of those 6 figure WFH nerds and you need to rock and roll.

>>718953737
>Perhaps you're the opposite of me and 1 of those 6 figure WFH nerds
nail on the head. already maxxing out that 401k as you said

I've restricted myself to cooming only to porn that has 4 or more dogs in it.

>>718953843
K. If evens we'll trade mindsets. You get my rock and roll mojo and I get your finance/career income.

>>718953862
nigga what?

>>718948259 (OP)
You should get into WEGs.

>>718952123
>Cooming to porn is the equivalent of shooting up heroin.
This is what nofap retards actually believe. This is why you shouldn't take them seriously.

>>718952123
>Cooming to porn is the equivalent of shooting up heroin. Sex SHOULD be only reserved for someone you love
jesus fucking christ. death to all moralfags.

>>718948259 (OP)
Ultimate Boob Wars

>>718948259 (OP)
Yeah anon i also wish to know games that would help me to deal with my porn addiction though...

>>718955721
>>718955891
see
>>718953615
Fuck off redditors

>>718950023
For the longest time I couldn’t climax when I jerked off. Working a stress inducing job sooner or later I had a wet dream and felt much much better. Wasn’t until recent years did I figure out the method to actually climax from jerking it. Felt overall far less stressed out in general when done in a normal amount. Anything really major in a negative coming from it would be just letting yourself be controlled by it where that’s all you want to chase that high. As in neglecting your body’s other needs be it mental or physical for jerking it instead. The only thing I could see that could arise might be some hormonal or testosterone changes due to the increase spank fest. Basically the negatives is far more from things that could almost be applied to any addiction.

>>718948259 (OP)
I'm not unhappy because I fap, but because fapping is the only way I can sexual relief.
Anyways I would recommend Monster Girl Dreams, Lady Knight Quest, or Feel Up a Sexy Lifeguard to help you stop touching your dick

>>718953442
>>718955721
>>718955891
did you even read the post? he said "hobbies are memes" you are replying to a troll

>>718957616
everyone on fartchan is a troll though

>im addicted to porn porn ruined my life soo cruel and sad :(
translation
>im a weak willed pathetic excuse for a man who will turn anything into an addiction

>don't cum during the day
>body wakes me up in the middle of the night to coom
Nofap is such a stupid meme. Maybe it could work if you have no testosterone at all.

>>718950023
It really depends.
Ejaculating is healthy, helps prevent prostate cancer. Sometimes, after a long day's work, it's just so relaxing, it really gets the edge off.
Porn, is a terrible addiction. I saw my first pair of titties at 11, and now I'm 24. I've been through every fetish, I've masturbated to things that are disgusting in every sense of the word. I've been a furry, I've done it to NTR, blacked, zoophilia, cunny, it never stops, because you chase a high that is hard to replicate once you cross a certain threshold. The more extreme the fetishes get, the less I enjoy it, but it's what I need to get off.
Plus, unlike other addictions, porn is infinite. There's more porn on the internet than you could ever consume in a lifetime. Only when it gets so overly specific, you may hit a wall.

I have to defeat the inner pajeet. I know I can be better than this.

>>718958079
That is not how fetishes work fuck off retard

>>718957616
Yes. Hobbies are in fact a meme. You get 1 or 2 things and that's it and that is assuming you even have the time or energy to do them as an actual working adult.

>>718948259 (OP)
Check when you are hungry, angry, lonely, tired or bored. Satiate these needs first, and keep yourself in check when these are not met, as it is easier to relapse when these needs arent met. Create such life space for you when it is easy to not relapse, and hard to relapse. And find where to invest freed energy, it would be hard to not relapse if you do not do anything worthwhile. Energy will find out an outlet one way or another, just make it so useful you would be proud of it being spent there.

>>718958079
>muh slippery slope
You are mentally ill and have shit taste/are a shit human being. There is not other excuse for getting off to shit like NTR. But you'll find anything or anyone to blame because you're a /pol/tard and personal accountability is fucking anathema to you.

>>718959363
>You are mentally ill
>You are a shit human being.
No shit sherlock.
Porn does me no good. There has to be something better.
>You're a /pol/tard
rent free.

>>718958836
well then if you're busy working then you have no time to fap so what's the relevance of your bitching?

Drinking and drugs are a way bigger problem for me.
I'm in a gooner discord server and some of those people genuinely do need help. Those 'hypnogoon' people are fucked. Like, I can't even watch their stream for 10 seconds that shit will give someone a seizure like wtf it's unwatchable. Those zoomers that grew up on Belle Delphine are completely brain dead. Now they give money to OF girls that copy her makeup.
It's only a matter of time until they use AI to delete all porn and police the internet.
The wild west is almost over.
My friend's mom bought him a Playboy subscription in hopes that it would keep him off the computer "getting viruses". Major backfire lmao that's how I got into jobuds.
I love fake boobs, brothers. I'm glad there is competition and jealousy among women. Low self-esteem is so hot.

One of my main anti-fap measures is playing Dwarf Fortress. Maybe it's the low self-esteem and god-complex that makes me love that game. Being in control when I feel out-of-control.

>>718948259 (OP)
Dead or Alive: Xtreme Beach Vollyball.

Try to get a Venus on the girls. You won't.

Adopt the coin technique.
You are not allowed to jack off unless it says heads. First, you take a few days off - then you use the coin.
'I could jack off I guess, I'll flip a coin' -> tails
Once you're past the first few tails, the urge will be dampened to a point it's ignorable.

>>718959752
Are you ESL or pretending to be this retarded on purpose?

>>718948259 (OP)
you just gotta fight it bro

>>718960163
>get a hobby to fill your time so you don't fap
>UH BUT WHAT ABOUT ME? I'm A WAGIE I HAVE NO TIME FOR HOBBIES
>okay then... then your time is already filled?
>ESL ESL ESL
Alright