>>719850745
Okay this is one of those things I just assumed everyone was able to understand. So trying to put it into words is hard. It's like explaining sight or something. It's the difference between Yume Nikke and Dragon Quest. Is the easiest way I can put this into words.
I don't understand how you can't understand this. This feels like something you'd be able to get by observing enough video games. Games that focus on gameplay and games that focus on the other stuff. And usally the ones on the latter description don't let you lose, so they get called experience. Because you need to lose to count, but you can't say you're watching something because you press a button. And that's the word that stuck.
Also VNs aren't games, they're digital choose-your-own-adventure books. They fall under the experience side.