>>720712545 (OP)
>>720712613
In my head the issue is that everybody's' trained response is escalation. It's somehow no longer acceptable to just say, "wow that's crazy/sorry that happened" and then just not care and move on with your life. Because that's how tolerance actually worked 20-30 years ago: you could just tell somebody to fuck off and then just leave it at that. You both went back into your corners and never saw each other again, but we don't do that anymore.
We live in a reality where apathy or disinterest is fucking illegal and you're constantly forced to form opinions on shit you don't care about and will realistically *never* fucking encounter in your life. And it's just that forever.