Thread 723610484

>friend gets a gf
>no longer spends friday and saturday nights gaming with me

>>723610484 (OP)
you should cross dress and take back your friend anon

>>723610484 (OP)
It's probably because you're a faggot and the gf was just an excuse.

he's probably cumming inside his gf right now. how does that make you feel

>>723610484 (OP)
Wait till your 40 and your best buds you used to only see weekly have toddlers and you see them monthly at best.
I feel for you though, fucking sucks! Time to get a gf.

shamiko

>>723610614
shamiko sexo

>>723610484 (OP)
>friend becomes my gf (male)

>1 true friend
>he's an ugly fat fuck with zero interest in irl woman

>>723610484 (OP)
This >>723610568
Take back your friend and become his gf (male)

>>723613291
>>723613726
Why are we putting male in brackets?

>>723613368
he sounds based

>>723613368
Not ugly, not fat, fuck you.

>>723610484 (OP)
>friend became a dad
>has no time to play with the lads
>still bitches about us playing shit without him

>>723610484 (OP)
damn. same here, animeposter

>>723613291
I'd rather a friend become my bf (male)
and still wanna game, of course. No game, no gay, simple as.

>>723613368
I love you, bro

>>723610581
>be me
>only real irl fren left is my cousin
>used to hang out every single week with very fee exceptions
>he moved out of state for work several times, but always ended up moving back after some time
>even when he was there, we would still spend time together by watching the same shows and chatting about them, sometimes we would watch at the same time, too
>he comes back to this state after the chinkflu
>think I'll finally get to hang out with him like the good old days
>instead he gets more and more busy with several jobs
>see him less than once a month
>ironically we spent more time together when he lived out of state
>shortly after he meets a girl and they get engaged real quick
>I'm happy for him, obviously, but I know this is basically the end for me
>see him less and less over the next few months
>after the wedding see him almost never
>he texts me less and less, even when he does it's short replies and rarely ever a conversation
>find out from my mom who heard from his mom that he's moving out of state again
>didn't even hear from him directly
>oh well. It's time to let go.
>he says he's coming back. He's not coming back, bros.
>ask to hang out again before the flight, even baked coconut squares for him cause he loves those
>didn't get a reply
>found out, again, from my mom that he already flew out. This was a week or so after he didn't reply to me
>didn't see him for like 2 months before he left and didn't see him at the end
>today he rarely texts me, often going days or weeks at a time between a message when we used to talk every day
>even when he texts me, there is never a conversation that continues, so every other text is "what's up how is everything?" Or something to that degree
Feels bad man but I deserve it for my past actions. I'm not a good person or a good friend and have let relationships with others die before due to my own retardation. Only fitting that he would leave me behind. Guess going full schizoid is my only option now

>>723610484 (OP)
Should've sucked his dick better faggot

>>723620149
I am not reading allat but I'm glad it all worked out for you in the end or I'm sorry he died or whatever

>>723620149
I read allat

>have a few friends
>realize I'm always the one contacting them and asking to do stuff together
>decide to do a little experiment
>I won't message them and see how long it takes for them to get back to me
>5 years later
>never heard from anybody again
Frankly, it was a relief to get rid of all those cowardly pretenders

>>723620895
Some people say that you shouldn't "test" the relationship like that, but when it's literally 100% you putting in the effort is it even a relationship?

I havent slept at all despite going to bed at 11pm
I have to go to a wedding this afternoon of an acquaintance
I should have made up an excuse to not go
I havent spoken to him in years and was never that close with him specifically. He was one of the guys in a friend group that I've mostly lost contact with

>>723621286
It may be a "relationship," but it's definitely not friendship. If they don't miss your company, then clearly they weren't having fun, but never dared to say it or suggest anything they'd enjoy either. They just thought they were doing charity or whatever, using you to larp as a "good person."

>>723620149
Sorry to hear it anon, in a similar boat
>Used to hang with my best friend all the time
>Practically lived with them, momentarily even actually did
>We'd do just about everything together and game all the time
>I move out of state and suddenly can't have a conversation, days weeks months pass barely chatting
>Every time I reach out it's always the same responses; we've gotta reconnect soon, sorry I've been busy, sometimes completely ignored for a while
>Still meet up from time to time but less and less, every time with promises that we'll hang out and game like the old days
>Even play our favorite game together, though we somehow never end up doing that
>If we're still meeting up at all then maybe it's just a shitty at long distance maintenance thing, once I move back I think things will pick up where they left off
>It's even one of my primary reasons for moving back, they've been my best friend for years, longest one I know these days
>But when I move back still nothing, minimal contact, just some additional "we'll have to hang out sometime sorry though I'm busy" responses
>Last meetup was a year ago for my birthday, excited for at least a day
>We have a quick lunch and then part for no given reason
It's like an ache almost. Tempted to just bite the bullet and ask if we're just done being friends, no guilt or anything just clarity. I don't wanna seem like an overdramatic asshole though if I'm the only one stressing it but, we used to be so close man.

>>723621691
you should take the hint, nothing good will come out of asking him that

>>723620895
Testing things like this can be tricky, if you're essentially the social leader people will get used to that dynamic. An old friend of mine used to set up everything, lead everything, but got into a shitty controlling relationship and dropped off the face of the Earth. After that nobody really made any further plans besides some sporadic stepping up. After five years is rough though. I think in your case you likely just stopped wasting both of your times, but in general I wouldn't advise it; or at least more openly announce it like "hey I feel bad always making plans, I'll let someone else take charge". If that fails with any sign of unwillingness to even hang out, you can just scoot along. If they take you up on it, or mention they're happier with you holding the reigns, then you know where you stand.

>>723621691
Sometimes life is uncool man

>>723610675
>redditsaw man

>>723610484 (OP)
Would anyone like to be my friend?

>>723610484 (OP)
>sometimes solitude changes into loneliness
>remember my friends all got married and shit
>spend day with any of them to listen all the relationship complaints
>fine to go for another month of solitude because you realize relationships are gay and people always desire what they don't have (I desire GF, my married friends desire freedom)

>>723621729
I honestly would except I'm not always the one reaching out. I've very early on stopped bothering with any consistency when I realized the constant dead air. If we never spoke again I could find a sort of bitter peace, but with infrequent messaging I feel like I have to ask what's going on, why this and nothing more? If it's just for care of my feelings I can give us both a break.

>>723610675
Fuck off faggot

that sucks bro

>>723613941
hownu.ru

Girls are icky

>>723620895
this is me but when we hang out we do have a good time

should i just stop reaching out? i already tested and if i dont do anything they dont do shit

>>723621848
Depends anon, what kind of vidya are you into? What are your hobbies? Tell us a bit about you, dude.

>>723621820
Just sending a message to ask how's it going doesn't take a very proactive character, and if even that is beyond a person, then hasta la vista

>>723620895
hah, I did that 16 years ago
>damn I'm pretty popular since I'm talking to 10+ people on ICQ daily and basically nonstop
>hold up I'm always writing first, how long before they miss me if I don't?
>they don't miss me
at that point I realized I wasn't popular, merely annoying enough to warrant a response

>>723621848
I already am :3

don't be needy. women are needy.

>>723621908
Lol
Calling yotsuba reddit is peak bait lmao

>>723622052
dunno if you realized but you're in a tword thread

Women ruin gaming

>35 and still virgin
>everyone in my friend group got married or have a gf
>even the last one that i thought was like me got a gf last year
>plan to ghost them during next christmas/new years meetup since ill be the only one single there

Fuck friendships
Fuck women
Fuck people
Fuck real life

>>723622151
What kind of powers do you have?
I'm almost 29 and plan to protect my virginity forever
Hopefully I'll be an archmage before I die

>>723622052
Humans are needy, we're social creatures, it's why "alpha/sigma" shit is such a joke. We want approval, companionship, desirability, social success, love, body contact, you get the idea. When denied enough of it for enough time it starts to mentally effect you, you start to wonder if there's something wrong with you that's keeping you from obtaining your needs, or if you'll ever have them again, or if they'll ever be the same.

>>723622002
It boils down to how much you want to maintain your relationships. Some people are fine with carrying more weight and even fake fun, if it means not having to be alone. I don't personally mind being by myself and hate being taken for granted, so the choice was obvious.

>>723622151
can you fly?

>>723622113
i've done this many times. i've even done it while we're on vc. i mute myself and stroke it while listening to their voice

>>723622173
It's like he's saying what we're all thinking

>>723622230
I'm a schizoid
Your propaganda has no effect on me

>>723622151
hey at least you got your wizard powers

>>723622249
Apparently one day while I was a way I missed someone beating off in vc, and there was an added rule no beating off in vc.

>>723622249
To be honest if a friend was doing that while we talked I'd want him to tell me so we could move forward with things and get more serious.

Why not just turn gay?

>>723622230
>you start to wonder if there's something wrong with you
I did that, ended up with conclusion that there's is something wrong with everyone else.

>>723622249
Do you thumb your asshole, too?
You fucking queer