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>I thought romantic love was real and you only get one partner at life to marry. Believing this I simped for an oneitis in HS and another in college.
Then your teachers failed you because the Bible doesn't prescribe "one partner for life" beyond the idea that once you actually marry someone, you stick with them, and you shouldn't have sex with anyone who isn't your spouse. You can date a billion people if you want. You shouldn't have wasted your time "simping" for anyone and just straight up asked them if they wanted to date, then tell them directly what you're looking for (a future spouse who shares your values). Most young women aren't ready for that, so you probably would have gone on one date and been able to move on. Pining for someone is a waste and you can't blame the Bible or society for it; you just fucked up.
>This focus on hunting down sexualization instead of early informing children to make them take competent decisions only causes unimaginable suffering.
Both of these are possible. Online platforms that make targeting children a massive part of their marketing and business should make reasonable efforts to either moderate their users and content, or just be honest and inform parents that it's an impossible task (which is usually the case with online stuff, and why young children shouldn't be on the internet without supervision).
