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Women do not process their decisions or feelings with logic. Ever. At all. They cannot be convinced by using logic. So you saying "but it doesn't take up family time and I'm not a fucking loser" isn't going to convince her.
Likely she's been convinced by social media or her friends that gaming is juvenile. Because women function on concensus reality and emotions, you have to use those tools to convince her.
So you should tell her all the successful men you know also game, even if this is a lie. It isn't, even jewwood stars game these days.
Then you need to make it a positive thing to her emotionally. Maybe game with your kids, so its a positive relation to her. I'm not sure other ways to do that but give it a think and I'm sure you can come up with something.
The key thing is to approach a woman on their level. Logic doesn't work so don't even bother with that.
Also the anon that said she was just coming up with stuff to emotionally hurt you is likely right as well. Again, women do not argue from a place of logic so hurting the opponent emotionally is their first choice.
And finally, women do not argue and then get over it. They hold grudges basically permanently. So even if you were to logically back her into a corner, she won't accept the "loss" and will hold it against you that you won at all. If you want to win this and have her be happy about it, you need to convince her that gaming is healthy, good for you, and most importantly for her. Maybe get some "ideas" on how to do things with her from gaming and tell thats where the ideas came from, I dunno.
I hope it works out for you man. I hate to see a guy with two kids end up going down the old "wife turns into a nagging shrew" route. Women are great when they're great, but man they can fuck up your life.
