>>58217509
Lenora
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>>58192218
Find older women who do not drink heavily, smoke, or do drugs, and who take care of themselves. Often older women's bodies look this way because of their health history which involves these things. Some of these women are not to blame for their own appearance either as they may have lived in a time when there were less regulations regarding things like no-smoking areas and may have had long-term second had exposure from friends, family, or workplaces which could have caused them to age poorly. You can also try dating older women with darker skin tones as they will continue looking younger for longer
If you are meeting bitter older women, then try changing the environment where you meet them. Try to go on relaxing group vacations where you might meet single, older women who have not only been financially responsible enough to afford seeing the world but who have also likely keep their bodies healthy and youthful so that they can enjoy their vacations. You can also try frequenting places like spas/resorts and their nearby eateries/recreational areas
You are right in that the older women in art are romanticized but if you are intentional in trying to find an older woman of high quality, it is possible that you find someone. However, these mature women will also want a mature and responsible partner--not saying that you are irresponsible or immature, but that you may have to open yourself up to a partner who takes little interest in the things that you enjoy like Pokemon which she may perceive as something for younger people. Culture is changing about hobbies like this very slowly. It is likely that in 10-20 years older women will not be biased against hobbies like video games and anime. However, the older women of today likely still carry those biases. I hope that you are able to find an older woman who loves you very much.