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it doesn't even make sense, you essentially built a strawman out of men to make them seem EXTREMELY clear about what they want, even though those things are a gross mischaracterization of what men actually want from a partner (a list that would reasonably look more like "comfort, love, affirmation of their legitimacy as individuals, stability without the paranoia of being abandoned, and CLARITY OF COMMUNICATION") without defending your stance that women are clear about the things they want from my accusation that they're often passive aggressive and beat around the bush - constantly throwing out the age old line "you should already know" and a roll of the eyes before a hefty helping of the silent treatment and/or deflection, as if they want to intentionally obfuscate their true feelings and make shit intentionally obtuse. this is shit i see from the women in my life every day. you can't just deflect onto a mischaracterization of men's issues to ignore the essence of my post, least of all when the deflection - with a high degree of irony - backs up my position that men value clarity, while you say nothing to defend the alternative and in fact literally fall into the trap of being passive aggressive and confusing about it!!
tl;dr, autism beams collide, i conclude we may both be too smart to engage in a conversation like this on the pokémon board of 4chan and to bridge our ideological impasse, our only recourse is to make out sloppy style right now.