>>11870880You mean that particular kind of hard to get you see Japanese girls do in porn? It's some kind of cultural thing, I'll try to break it down best I can understand it.
Gonna preface this with saying that this is not EVERY single Japanese woman, but it IS a lot of them, this IS a common thing.
You're looking at a girl who actually really wants a guy, like not some kind of incel rapist mental gymnastic here, not a girl who actually doesn't want him, as in she's 100% Down To Fuck for real.
BUT, admitting that openly feels shameful to a lot of Japanese girls, they can't just come out and say THAT fully, and Japanese culture (like many Asian cultures strongly based in Confucianism), puts a heavy emphasis on honor and saving face (sometimes to a fault), and a lot of Japanese girls will think that being so forthcoming about wanting sex would be dishonorable (to herself and her family), even if it's not just a hookup and it's a guy she sincerely intends to stick with, like she's sketching plans for their future marriage in her head.
So, some strictly performative lines likes "Nooo, stop!" gives a sort of social plausible deniability to her honor, she can just say later that whatever happened wasn't her fault, she's not a slut, it's HIS fault.
Naturally, this confuses the FUCK out of Western tourists and immigrants, who then go "Oh shit!" and ACTUALLY stop, which prompts this kind of girl to look at him with frustration, wondering what the fuck you're doing and why you actually stopped, because she didn't want you to stop.
This of course sometimes causes problems for girls who genuinely DO want a guy to stop.
This mindset and 'game' isn't like exclusive to Eastern cultures, it exists elsewhere too, but it's way dialed up in Japanese society.