>>103653433 (OP)
Your oshi shouldn't have to seperate her personal life from being a vtuber. If she is married or has a boyfriend while pretending to be single in order to manipulate and take advantage of the loneliness of her fans, then she is a gross, disgusting whore that should be thrown in a ditch and eaten alive by dogs.
You are either honest or you aren't. If you aren't single, then don't pretend to be an idol. If you have a partner, be honest about that so that you aren't tricking the people who support you.
It's that simple. No further discussion. If you are hiding a boyfriend, you should never feel safe for the rest of your life, and ultimately, you should be killed.