>>103783367
Fair enough, coexistence between interests is possible in a normal relationship, but there's no perfect reconciliation between the interests of a romantic partner and the interests of an idol. Spending 10-12 hours in the studio, in the recording booth, having to sacrifice weekends for concerts (or in the case of vtubers, for consistent streams or for events), is going to put a strain on any relationship. Similarly, going on getaways, meeting relatives, having to take care of a partner when they need assistance is going to mean less preparation for upcoming activities on the idol's end, which will make fans disappointed.
Sure, being schizo about it is not helping anyone, but there's no denying that having a relationship as an idol is detrimental to their activities 999 times out of a 1000, and that makes people lose interest in the idol.