>>104420681
i used to feel like this until i started having conversations with my wife about trying different things
she was too hesitant to use any kind of suction, after we found that out i realized i never actually had a real blowjob in my life with any of my exes
the secret was telling her to make a pressure seal where it would make a noise if any air got through
it's night and day, it used to take 40+ minutes with a lot of handwork to get me off back in the day, now my wife can get me off in minutes
it took 100's of bad blowjobs for me to even realize something was wrong
hope this helps anons ITT
