>>106476734
okay then, lets systemically unpack the original anons post and why your response to it led to the two of you resort to name calling
>>106466072
>Idols are all about sincerity, vulnerability, and seeing their growth through the years.
this is his perspective on what an idol means to him, he is allowed to have this subjective interpretation of what an idol means to him, instead, you responded with denying that he understands what sincerity and vulnerability means because you believe Nerissa showcases that, but you fail to parse the other qualifying metric of his post;
>Nerissa is about as fake as they come
this opinion of his comes across to you as unsubstantial, but it's the entire reason why he cannot see Nerissa as an idol, he has a fundamental issue with inauthenticity coming through her content and actions
now, like you posted, this doesn't make this anon right, to you, Nerissa does show sincerity and vulnerability, and you gave examples inside his own post to attempt to prove him wrong
but the both of you came to both your defense and antagonism of Nerissa through emotional means, he feels she is inauthentic, you feel she isn't, and because neither of you two came to these subjective conclusions logically, the only conclusion to your argument was going to be a childish one, seen here
>>106466452 >>106467798 >>106467847
as a Nerissa fan, you failed in attempting to appeal to a Nerissa haters logic to change his mind, but that's because you barely tried, you attacked that anons argument without considering why he came to that determination about her authenticity
this is a lesson to you for the future, ask a hater questions, ask him why does she seem inauthentic?
if you can speak about the subject objectively, you'll be able to answer them and that anon will come to his own logical determinations
you cannot force someone to change their opinion, they have to reach it themselves, and they will only do it when the person they are talking to actually wants to talk
it might seem like a waste of time to give to what you perceive as a Nerissa anti or hater, but only considering him that is how Nerissa will truly receive one more hater in the world
everyone is a potential fan or at least neutral, and you have to treat them like one
there are benefits to learning why he thinks Nerissa is inauthentic, it helps everyone to know why people come to emotional conclusions
