>>40564822 (OP)sex haver here
you have to understand sex as you understand eating or breathing or brushing one's teeth or going for a little walk
that is to say don't put the pussy on a pedestal
in order to keep that pedestal clear of pussy, so it can be put to better use, you must truly understand the meaning behind the turn of phrase and the reasoning behind the meaning
if sex is the end goal it will evade you because your eyes are not set on a higher purpose
you are young, commit yourself to your work, or a skill, or study
build worth in yourself, and that worth will attract others to you
and even then you should probably be careful of who you stick your dick in
because if sex is indeed your end goal, you're at a higher risk of sticking your dick in crazy
if your goals is a purpose higher than sex, then you will not stick your dick in crazy because crazy would derail you from your purpose
so that's another reason to de pedestalise that pussy
for it can draw you away from your work and destroy your life if you pursue the flesh and not love, or you misinterpret the flesh as love in your yearning for the comfort of the flesh
I could go on but hopefully you get me