>>40639244 (OP)>do they hate them more or maybe the same?People rarely do what they hate at the time, because they could be doing something else. But you get a lot of guilt and suicides later, in people whose job it was to fuck with people. They realize over time that they weren't fighting Evil in the name of Good, it's a bunch of assholes who are in between on both sides. Nor were they fighting for their country so much as a few assholes who mostly corruptly got to be in charge. Fact is you need a military to exist as an independent anything, otherwise you're absorbed, but it doesn't make you "the good guys".
And some are just sociopaths who never will care, and they probably do like their jobs a lot if they get money and respect for them.