>>40693183 (OP)love isn't real
lust and egoism is real
so either become a useful tool for them (friend route) for them or become attractive enough for them to lust after you (being their crush route)
Unfortunately you can not really change your general attractiveness very much.
It basically boils down to face and height and markers of health (healthy glowing skin and hair).
hardlooks maxxing surgery is extremely risky many things can go wrong
I would not recommend it, it also doesn't solve the question of love, even lust is conditionally.
Now talking about magical means... I am not sure if itit works.
many people have tried love spells and failed miserably, some claim some suggest, but upon my closer investigation, their significant other was not that pretty or too much in love with them, why would you attract someone not so pretty if love spells would work etc.
Many people who try love spells report that It all wasn't as I expected it, "the love" was underwhelming and draining, I think the effort to maintain it is not worth it. or the love evoked is too much
And an obsessed lover can very quickly become psycho stalker which is not enticing in anyway
Also: Imagine someone only loves you because you put 70 percent of your energy daily in maintaining the energy that makes them "love you".
Super exhausting, not worth it, gets bland very quickly.
psychologically speaking, casting a love spell you are sort of saying to yourself that you are unloveable, and you have to DO something to get something, so you are basically saying. "what I am is just not enough" so I am gonna do xyz...
this is not really what having self respect and being good to yourself looks like.
Now ethically: trying to force someone to love you is extremely unethical.it's like abusive mind control
But I totally get your desperation, but i don't really think following your obsession is the answer.
Maybe you are neurodivergent, maybe you got BPD.
(forcing) "love" only numbs the issue temporarely