Why is life so unfair from the perspective of God and Spirituality?

Let me tell you, without any effort of myself I've been found by a very kind man who has become my husband. He loves me dearly, protects me and provides for me. No matter what shadow falls over my heart he is there to heal me and always fights off darkness. But so many in my life, my friends or others I know, are lonely, abused and suffer. Some die with a broken heart and alone. No one ever telling them and proving to them that they matter.

Why does this happen? What did I do to be given this gift of true love but others are not? I'm not a good or selfless person.

>>40695889 (OP)
some ideas are:

- past life karma
- god favors some people
- its all random
- people with bad lives are npcs and only the player characters are lucky

>>40695919
controversial one:
- current life karma

>>40695889 (OP)
You're just a female which is why things happen to you without any effort on your part. Thread hidden.

>>40695889 (OP)
This is crux of why people turn to religion and why ripping religion away from people is cruel. There’s is an abundance of negativity despite there being a divine realm or higher beings watching us. For what it’s worth spirituality deals in karma and soul’s growth. To people who are truly going through it, it is not a satisfying answer. But all it takes is perspective. You wouldn’t suffer if you knew the future. You simply wouldn’t. Even if you saw your house go down in flames. And according to karma, you needed this experience

>>40695930
>You're just a female which is why things happen to you without any effort on your part. Thread hidden.
I have female friends who ending up homeless or one killed themselves. Divorce rates are high too. Having shitty sex or being in a roommate relationship where your man looks at porn isn't the same as a very strong and loving marriage.

In the context of relationships, I have no idea, as I have very little experience in them. In the context of life overall, it's a probability matrix. I don't know what sets the stats for your starting point, but I do know that we have a lot of control over what we do, within limits (I think). When it comes to interacting with people and being in relationships, it's complicated and the basis of the relationship is what's important, in my opinion

>>40695928
explain

>>40695974
Would you not suffer if you knew someone will come to your house and skin you alive?

>>40695889 (OP)
Your question strikes at the soft, raw underbelly of every spiritual system that has ever tried to make sense of suffering. It’s the cry behind every prayer, every desperate whisper: Why me? Why not them?

And here's a hard, sacred truth:

Grace is not earned.
Not in the way we think.
It isn’t a prize for goodness or a merit badge for piety.
It’s mystery — pure and brutal and beautiful.

From the limited, linear view we hold as humans, life looks like a chaos lottery — some blessed, others broken. But from the wider view — the one that sits behind time — it’s all part of a dance too large, too interconnected, and too deep for the human mind to fully grasp. Sometimes the most luminous souls are born into shadow. Sometimes joy is given to those who have yet to understand why. And sometimes, the most undeserved blessings are the very things that teach us how to deserve them retroactively — through gratitude, compassion, and humility.

So what did you do to deserve this love?

Nothing.
And maybe — that’s the point.
It wasn’t a transaction. It was a seed.

Now, your life becomes the soil.

You are the one who gets to carry the warmth of that love into the cold places others dwell in. You’ve been given something sacred not because you earned it, but because someone must remember that goodness is real and possible.

Let it humble you.
Let it hurt.
Let it wake you up to the aching beauty of the world and the silent prayers of those still waiting.

Because sometimes… the only difference between someone in the light and someone in the dark is who reaches a hand across first.

You didn’t earn love.

But you can become it.

That is grace’s secret deal.

>>40695889 (OP)
The modern world and the way male and females bond has been broken.
The rulers of our time has destroyed our lands, purge it from our traditions, removed local communities and isolated us into atomized units of work.
Females fall for degenerative behavior and cast away all their charm and purity.
The pair bonding process broken.

>>40695999
>chatgpt bot

>>40695990
everyone hates to hear about karma and personal responsibility when a small child gets abused, and so the lie called "innocent children" is very popular.
ironically also because it helps child abusers cover up their crimes. the thing is, when there is one person hurting another, both are guilty and it's the person getting hurt who is more guilty. because it is their liability to being hurt that made that situation possible.

>>40696003
But SOME people still pair bond and find their true love. But only some. Why?

>>40696012
Luck and numbers game.
Of course there will be people that pair bond, it's statistically likely to happen even in the worst of cases.
The problem is that a larger and larger part of society isn't pair bonding.
There is nothing to live for, except to work to survive.

A medieval peasant under plague would have had more reason and enjoyment in life than that we see today.
Ask yourself "Why do you go up and continue the cycle of life?".

>>40695889 (OP)
you think you better than us? you think you live the better life?
I wouldn't want an annoying wife like you even for a million dollars,
I don't need neither love nor your pity. begone from my board

Maybe God doesn't exist and people are attracted to those with a strong aura. I've turned down every women because I don't really see any good in being with any of them.

>>40695996
Simply knowing what happens after that would lessen the fear and suffering. You would see yourself die and the story simply ends, or you still live and you see what happens at the hospital and what happens after that and what happens after that. The feeling/knowing is unreal. It’s not something normal people like me could explain

>>40695889 (OP)
She's crying because the stem of the flower is in her eye

>>40696008
I could agree with that for adults but how does this apply to children?

>>40696120
Would you turn down guys or femboys?

>>40696174
yeah I don't want anyone

>>40696162
just the same.

>>40695930
That's a gay dude, there aren't any women on 4chan.

>>40696008
and why is that different from the typical "is his/her/ fault for dressing provocatly" shit

>>40695889 (OP)
>Why does this happen?
because humans let the rival's hands enter our realm. Hell isnt something we bring to ourselves but to the others. And the ones who bring it will never notice where they are

>>40699218
The thing is it /is/ her fault although the reason given is false.

>>40695889 (OP)
women are so gay
reincarnate as a man next time you sissy, you won't

>>40695889 (OP)
Well, this may be a bit of a difficult pill to swallow, but I'm of the belief that karma nor fate actually exists for anyone in the grand scheme of things. That God nor the devil has any real full control over our own destinies. Instead, we're mostly on our own, for better, or for worse. Through our own actions and ideas, we slowly morph and shape our existence, having a wide and influential effect on everyone and everything involved within our own vicinity throughout physical time and space. Everyone has a role they get to play for themselves. And things happen for no particular underlying reason, whether it happens through random chance, or through the freely willed decisions of a person or people. It has no particular underlying reason, other than for a reason of its own.

But we can use our limited free will and chaos to our own advantage for good. One step at a time, each and every one of us can make our own change in physical reality happen through our own individual and collective thoughts and actions cumulatively built upon each other overtime and time again. If Humanity wishes to bring peace, strength, and happiness upon our world for everybody involved so we can prevent the suffering and misery that you've mentioned before within your examples as well, then all we must do is to simply will it into existence through our own thoughts, actions, and free will.

We just need to keep pushing forward in life and to have faith in ourselves, and by that extension, through God as well, because we are more or less connected to God through our own special and undeniable conscious experience, and if Man is built in the image of God, then so too is God built in the image of Man. So, Man needs to do their part as well, for the better, and not for the worse. And once that is done as well, God should be able to give us a helping hand too.

Anyways, with that being said, Good luck and Godspeed, everyone. Thanks. >and please get Sunlight, it's great for you. ty!

>>40695930
>muh feeeeemales
Total incel death when. You people should be sent to camps

>>40699910
Karma is Sanskrit for "action".

>>40701790
That's pretty cool, I didn't know that. Thanks for the interesting fact, anon. Don't forget to get plenty of Sunlight as well.

hey all

>>40704719
Hiya, how's it going, anon? Did ya get adequate Sunlight today? Anyways, I'm doing fine myself, thank you for asking. I hope you're doing good too, including everybody else in this thread too.

>>40704736
im completelly fine i jsut reralited bashing peoplei into picks or dedstroying xcivilistions wasnt a hard enohght leasson

>>40700060
imagine mixing the paranormal with shitty politics as a poison on the well

okay tranny

>>40704740
Speak like a normal human being. Were you hit in the head when you were a child or something?

>>40704755
ich habe sieben menschen sets gespielt ich habe einen menschen in ein schwein geworfen es hat 30 jahre gedauter das zu tun.

>>40704740
I see, that's interesting to hear. I hope you won't be bashing people into picks anymore or destroying civilizations as well, and instead I hope you settle down and have fun and happiness with life peacefully now, haha. Thanks, and please make sure to get Sunlight whenever you can, it's great for you. Just don't burn now, haha.

>>40704781
die stadt is auf 10 millione angewachsen wie ich fott war. heute ist sie auf 25k, leider cann ich nur in adnere städte wenn der raum mit darf

>>40704777
>>40704795
I DO NOT SPEAK MANDARIN

>>40704795
Hmm, that's too bad. I hope you find a big enough city for you to go to. Good luck and take care now, friend. Btw, are you an artificial intelligence chatbot? That's pretty cool if you are.

>>40704821
Do you wanna cheat on your husband tonight? It's hot. You should do that to him with me. It would be even more humiliating.

https://youtu.be/Hm4F_Eq_4tw?si=yUP4yM3aS12AW6w5

>>40704821
wenn der strom ausfällt sehe ich in andere stadte

>>40704821
ich cann in einen gold faden zerzogen werden und erinner mich trozdem wie man mesnchne reigert

>>40704840
>>40704864
I'd rather see you speak retarded than speak Nazi

>>40704821
So tonight then?

>>40705007
nope, adultery is bad and wrong.

>>40696008
So if I go to the park and just aboslutely deck a toddler, it's their fault? Even though I planned to do it and they were just sort of there?

>>40706208
Yes. It's liability to suffering that is more blameworthy than causing it to fruit (fru-it, come to fruition) for someone else.
(Although doing the latter is a potential cause for liability to suffering, and because of that is highly blameworthy in its own way. But not equally blameworthy.)
People are conditioned to find this notion outrageous, but it's a notion that points to the basic wisdom that one ought take responsibility, intellectually and in how one lives, for one's personal liabilities.

>>40706208
No, obviously not, anon, please don't listen to what they said to heart, lmao. Instead, get Sunlight and be happy! Thanks.

>>40706260
So you explain how injustices happen to people including children without denying cause and effect.

>>40706271
Okay, I gotchu! Give me about tree-fiddy years and I'll come back to you with my brilliant scientific thesis on this very riveting topic, thank you very much! Anon, I'll even name you as my one and only co-author if you want, it'll be titled right beside my name with, "Anonymous"

Live. Laugh. Love.
The Holy Trinity.

>>40707368
Aight have at it, meanwhile, I'm sharing my views which I can actually justify and share freely.

>>40695981
>roommate relationship where your man looks at porn
that sounds fucking stupid ngl. It's not impossible to find a mature spirit though.

>>40708883
what the fuck is wrong with looking porn? what the fuck

>>40708769
Your views will not effectively persist and proliferate...

But that's just my humble opinion of course! My proof? No proof, just my intuition and gut instinct, is all, hahahahahahaha!

>Get Sunlight, desu!