do you know empaths cannot live without feelings from others towards them and interaction? im dying rn im sad so why tf does this happen when i have a good day

>>40747897 (OP)
you eat their feelings or something?
u r demon

>>40747905
no, i bassicly feel safe and supported and feel happy by having felt being noticed. im not sure you wanted to know but i self harm

>>40747897 (OP)
You're not an "empath" just because you notice somebody is sad when they cry or because you have the emotional control of a child.

>>40747897 (OP)
You're not going to die from being alone. Just get a large dog to fuck your regularly. Personally, empathy really weirds me out. It's like if a snake were trying to be nice to you but it obviously wants to eat you.

>>40747921
sound like a succubus but instead of semen, you dream people's feeling

>>40747951
This brings up a pretty good point. Empathy is something you have for other people. But OP is not interested in the feelings of others here; it is just about her.
How the fuck can somebody even begin to call themselves an empath simply for relying on outside attention and validation? To me that and the self-importance to post it on 4chan unironically indicates narcissism more than anything.

>>40747971
becaus i value actual companions that support my emotional health is that criminal? who doesnt need validation

>>40747989
Everybody needs validation and attention, ma'am. Wr are a social species
The problem is when you start thinking you have a superpower just because you won't control your emotions. You are not special (though you clearly think you are because trip) and your emotions are NOT too big to control. You insist they are, though, so you can simulatenously be pretentious and excuse yourself from emotional responsibility.

>>40747997
i have 48 personality, they have needs i see it its harmful not to be someone in the world, just because only i can see them usually doesnt make it any less.

>>40747921
If you want to be noticed by others, live a life worth noticing. Then after you get noticed you start to realise that the opinions and beliefs of others are nowhere near as important as the opinions and beliefs you have towards yourself. You have the capacity to feel contentment after noticing yourself.

>>40747989
i don't, so? and I'm fine :D

idk, i hope i can find a way to tell the people that like me about who i am its hard these days i feel so awfully alone, i hhave my dark little secret hell i live in its hard to be rescued sometimes no worry i was gonna self harm but i do i really feel better im venting

>>40748007
It sounds like there's a reason people don't want to be around you. It's up to you to figure out why other people feel the way they do, miss empath.

>>40748017
that just means your a leader its ok

>>40748019
my god, I was there, when I realize I can be indepence and doesn't need anyone validation, my life have been way better, stop being an attention whore.

>>40748020
u can assume whatever its ok its an opinion and its discardable people change i never really do much so, i am a stable person for advice but i never take my own

>>40748036
what a horrible life to live in, living just to seek someone validation? that's sad

>>40748036
I told you a harsh truth because you're the type to threaten cut yourself to anybody who says those truths in real life. Hell, you brought it up randomly in your first reply. I'm not going to tell you to cut yourself and never will but you clearly use it as a shield. That will not shield you from the truth on 4chan, however.

>>40748048
the truth alll that there is sir, the day i lie about it the self harm im dying or dead in a ditch somewhere, well so? the truth is hard and thats harmony

>>40748008
I can relate. It's like wanting to be a cartoon character on a TV show. You want to exist to other people who watch you and enjoy your personality. The reality is that you don't live in a scripted TV show. Everyone is a separate individual who doesn't necessarily have a happy ending at the end of the show. Perhaps you need to spend some time outside away from your cartoons and return to a utilitarian survivalist mindset.

>>40748065
>if threatening to cut myself doesn't work, I start threatening suicide
Escalating this threat is an example of NOT being an empath, just so you know.

since when empath = attention whore

>>40748084
i dont threaten and usually i dont say or prove it i dont know what you mean to be saying this if you really have no advice, im not here for you

>>40748105
youve obviosuly never met an empath we finsih your sentances before you do its not an amazing skill or anything its usually abuse and the fact you give a shit for others that causes yu to notice the little things. page ten this thread if you hate me so much im lain nice to talk goodnight

>>40748106
I will give you one piece of real advice, then, before I fuck off and just reply to other posters. In the Dune BOOKS, the Benet Gesserit are all about emotional control. They control themselves and their emotions first and absolutely before they start trying to control others (threats are a form of attempting to assert control). Here's a piece of BG wisdom for you when you read this:
>"silence is often the best thing to say" - scrawled on a mirror in Chapterhouse

False. I am an empath and I do not care for others at all, I might be depressed, suicidal and coping every day through self harm with harmful substances but I do NOT need others. I also love lain if that helps.

I need to eat people's souls. That's the extent of the empathy I have for them.

>>40748156
fact, this OP is just those red flag people, who when cornered, threaten to cut themselve, but at the same time make the other people life as miserable as possible, and wonder why no one stick around. ffs that's not empath.

>>40748167
Thats everybody who proclaims themselves to be an empath, no exception. It's babbys first pretentious hippie trope

>>40748122
Put some commas in your own sentences before you finish mine you confused teenager lol
>empath
Its called late stage puberty. You'll get over it soon

>>40748224
> Its called late stage puberty.
haha you nailed it.

>>40748198
>so you just found out that I'm an empath. Here's what that means for you:
>never criticize me (I WILL hurt myself and it WILL be your fault)
>I understand the world MUCH more than you (listen and LEARN!)
>Yes, I do have a superpower (-I- am special; you are NOT)
>It is literally impossible for me to assert control of my emotions so you just have to deal with whatever I do (I'm not responsible for anything)
>it IS a problem that everyone else doesn't immediately notice how special I am and treat me accordingly (I do NOT understand how other people think/feel/act despite BEING an empath)

i call bullshit.

you are all autists with little to no understanding of emotion as a whole.
>1) you struggle to see or understand emotions in others, neurologically.
>2) you have difficulty or lack complete understanding in emotional self regulation.
>3) since youre on /x/ youre schizo too, so youre emotions as baseline, mismatched or wired incorrectly.

what you call empathy is closer to narcissistic manipulation.
>1) your current 'care giver' state of mind is based on simple proverbs "do unto others...", "what goes around..." you only want to help others because you yourself want help in return.
>2) you dont offer to others the same care, respect, or kindness that you expect to be given to you.
>3) your anti-trigger, safe space, moral high ground mentality, goes out the window the moment you yourself face any sort of conflict.
>4) you use this safe space mentality as a means of controlling others, if you keep everyone on level ground, you dont have to face competition or conflict.

when you gave 'the homeless guy' some change,
it wasnt because you sincerely wanted to help them.
you gave them money shut them up.

the feeling that caused you to give out money wasnt empathic care, it was guilt.

>>40748235
tldr you're a psychotic cunt and an absolute mess - empaths in theory are the opposite of that. But there are no empaths - it's a concept exclusively used by pretentious cunts like you who want to mask their mental illness

>>40748276
I guess, in the interest of fairness, maybe there really are real empaths out there. If they were, they certainly would not be the type of people to identify with the term "empath" so closely because, at least in theory, their empathy is already an integral part of who they are so there's no need for the external validation of the "identity word"

>>40748292
Right. Also openly proclaiming to be one is a red flag in itself. It's like saying 'I'm an honest person'. No you're not, or you wouldn't have to say that

go ahead, prove me wrong.
i am confident your level of emotional understanding, only extends to 'comfy' and 'not comfy', and you suppress everything else that doesnt make you 'comfy'.

Why does demonic possession always turn people into attention whores?

>>40748306
Here's a little activity that would probably help "empaths"
>go to the nicest person you know, the kindest and most empathetic
>ask them: "are you an empath?"
They will look at you weird 100% of the time. Of course, this would be a pointless suggestion to them because the idea that other people around them might be empaths too is a threat to their sense of specialty with the whole thing.
"I don't know ANYONE to even ask because I'm already the kindest possible person and everyone else is horrible"- empaths

>>40748319
>Why does demonic possession always turn people into attention whores?
demonic possession turn people into comfort slaves.

>>40748321
Empaths naturally find each other because they can sense each other's auras. That's why cults exist.

anyways thanks for proving my point.
everything that isnt part of your circlejerk, you dont care about.

that means you didnt feel what i felt, thus making you not an empath.
you just care about whatever supports or confirms your own narrative or biases.

learn to be honest with yourself, first.
change yourself first, before changing others.

>>40748332
They can also fly and they poop rainbows

>>40748350
>nobody in entire thread agrees with OP
>"You all believe what OP believes- ALL of you!"
>*posts 3 times challenging non-existent posters to argue with you*
>"wow I guess everyone really IS retarded except for me. Why can't you dispute by brilliant [incorrect] analysis of you?"
Wow. This is your (you) but wow

>>40748370
i take it youre new around here?

>>40748370
i wants challenging OP.
i was calling out everyone else.

i know your little THCsoaked estrogenic fempathy minds better than all of you.

>>40748381
Kek is it a copypasta? If so, an incredibly good deconstruction of materialists who hate /x/ but still come here to bitch at everyone.

>>40748398
thanks for the scripted meme-word response, autism.
10/10 for original thought.
you win the internet.

>>40748394
You have no moral high ground to say that about everyone when you're here too. Nobody wants to be so forcefully improved by someone as insignificant as you still are, even if you were right about "everyone except me". You're not anyway but even in the case that you were, you'd just be a guy bitching at a bunch of schizos you find below yourself. That is very honestly significantly more pathetic than simply being a schizo.

>>40748404
>ME ME ME ME ME
thats all i read in your post.

did i interrupt you confirmation bias session, or are you having trouble shifting perspective to accommodate conflicting ideas that would help you better understand yourself rather than reinforce your fragility and safe space mentality?

thats for prove each and every one of my points.

>>40748419
I didn't refer to self at all except for in mockery-quotation and collectively within "nobody"
Welcome to the club, retard.

>>40748419
no idea what you people are talking about but just by your behaviour it's very clear you're in the wrong. You're also an illirerate cunt, I can barely read your posts

>>40748422
>I didn't refer to self at all except for
except for every attack you slung, indicating the very things that triggered you by contrast.

it aint always about what is said...

THAT is why i dont even have to finish reading your posts, cupcake.

>>40748433
nice samefagging

stay triggered losers.

comfy isnt going to dig you out of the whole you dug for yourself.

>>40748437
>attack
Fucking lmao. I'm not sure what I expected from you, given that you were begging for a debate within a false premise. Bye, fellow retard.

>>40748437
Imagine being THIS self-important

>>40748449
yeah nah totally

>>40748455
Wut? He accused samefag and was objectively incorrect.

Holy fuck, the level of discourse in this thread is pathetic.

OP, if you're still here, learn how to receive non-local feelings and make some internet friends, and most of your issues with this subject will stop troubling you as much. Look into lucid dreaming/remote viewing/astral projection as a starting point. Also work on separating the emotions you feel from other people from the ones you personally feel.

Everyone else, except a few people trying to be helpful, I'm not sure if you were hurt personally by a narcissist or some other mentally fucked person/demon claiming to be an empath but your perception of empaths is horribly distorted. I barely mention the fact that I am an empath, in fact this is the first time I have mentioned it anywhere since I learned it was a thing over 10 years ago, but basically everything you have said about empaths is just horribly wrong. Empathy is not about changing or influencing people, it's about perceiving them accurately.

>>40748459
yeah nah totally

>>40748449
I want troubled teenage OP back, this guy is just a tedious douchebag

>>40748469
No fuckin' clue what you're on about, buddy, but I respect schizos much more than our assumptive psychologist. Hope you have a good one, brother!

>>40748462
>Holy fuck, the level of discourse in this thread is pathetic.
MUH SAFE SPACE OY VEY

dont trigger my feefees! you wont like it when im angry! ill go into psychosis and lolcow @ you

>>40748471
dude you want to ruined your life or something?

>>40748474
yeah nah totally

>>40748476
waaaa waaaa things i dont understand are happening

>>40748480
BASED schizoposter

>>40748484
>>40748490
yeah nah totally

>>40748495
I am also schizo, thank you for asking.
>autism beam noises

>>40748495

>>40748462
>I am an empath
>fuck you for reacting hostile to narcissistic attention whores, why don't you help them instead, you're WRONG
>I am an empath hurr durr
You're as much a pretentious hippie as OP. So you discovered empathy was a thing 10 years ago? Wow, you deserve a medal or something lmao

ok im bored now

this isnt your blog D#
start another tumblr or blogspot.

we spoke about this a few hours ago.
get some better content, since youre being paid to post.

>>40748514

>>40748505
LMAOOO thank u, saved