>>40934913 (OP)
You've got a good chart, idiot. Your Mars and Venus are in harmony and your Sun and Moon are in harmony.
But your Venus is nearly conjunct with your Sun in Pisces. If you're a guy, that creates a potent femininity to you, especially being a Pisces Sun. That's something you have to accept and embrace with confidence. Use your mind to enhance the meaning of Mars in Capricorn for you to compensate for your overcharged Venus. Build up your Mars.
What's funny is you have a Piscean way of thinking "am I lost to the oceans of no gf forever? doomed to eternity?" but you're activating your Mars in Capricorn in your intent by trying to sort yourself into/find your place in a social system (Capricorn) and utilizing the House system, which is not a strong predictor for relationship success.
Your Jupiter in Libra is in a strong placement for relationships and justice for virgins (Libra), but your desire for immediate results, your natural to-the-point manner of speaking conflicts with it (Mercury in Aries in Ascendant). You are not your naturally magnanimous self when you blurt out your needs before addressing others' needs.
So bring your Mars and Venus into harmony and Mercury and Jupiter into harmony. You also have an issue with Saturn being nearly conjunct your Moon, which makes you overly strict about emotional matters. With those in Cancer, you likely idealize traditional matters of the heart. And you probably overpower ladies in this way because it's in harmony with Pisces, but is in conflict with Jupiter. Jupiter = expansion, and Saturn is likely shutting that down preemptively based on your traditional Moon.