Soulmates and Modern life
I believe our humane lives have been distorted by Materialism and post industrial values and modern ideologies and pseudo self awareness.. There is too many choices that people rely on keeping themselves as mediocre to live a life that's devoid of any critical thinking or a true self discovery or skepticism or even existential fears
The problem is this lowered any intrinsic or creative values and limited one's ascension or evolvement until true self, The problem is not even the normie but also the pseudo spiritualists and the "awakened" but there is no true awakening but only a pseudo layer that only works as a facade for high value man in dating stance, e.g. Goths, Grunge, alts... etc.
It's very rare to see someone exhibiting a true sense of what they are portraying and that's what happens to females a lot, Pseudo are more leaning to female because they're performative and Normie is more leaning to males even though Females are also specialist in this aspect but in a way as they do not try to encourage themselves into their true potential.
These people are the effects of Day-to-day life and they are the reason why the term "soulmate" is very hard to accept or even spell and they made it seem as just pointless and unserious, They lowered its value as they killed the true term's meaning... Marriage has been also effected by this heavily as it completely lost the meaning it stood for which is to unite against life's absurdity and love each other but nowadays Marriage is seen as a cage for one's freedom (which i might agree on) but the problem is that it's not the freedom but not finding a capable partner who can soothe the feeling of freedom and let that freedom be there too is the problem that made Marriage a hell especially for the pseudo like people and the normies.
The problem is this lowered any intrinsic or creative values and limited one's ascension or evolvement until true self, The problem is not even the normie but also the pseudo spiritualists and the "awakened" but there is no true awakening but only a pseudo layer that only works as a facade for high value man in dating stance, e.g. Goths, Grunge, alts... etc.
It's very rare to see someone exhibiting a true sense of what they are portraying and that's what happens to females a lot, Pseudo are more leaning to female because they're performative and Normie is more leaning to males even though Females are also specialist in this aspect but in a way as they do not try to encourage themselves into their true potential.
These people are the effects of Day-to-day life and they are the reason why the term "soulmate" is very hard to accept or even spell and they made it seem as just pointless and unserious, They lowered its value as they killed the true term's meaning... Marriage has been also effected by this heavily as it completely lost the meaning it stood for which is to unite against life's absurdity and love each other but nowadays Marriage is seen as a cage for one's freedom (which i might agree on) but the problem is that it's not the freedom but not finding a capable partner who can soothe the feeling of freedom and let that freedom be there too is the problem that made Marriage a hell especially for the pseudo like people and the normies.