>>40940842
Just because you dont fail at yourself, does not mean you didn't fail at life.
So the first step towards detachment is to be free from failure, and the first step to be free from failure is to accept you failed at life.
You didn't built a corporation that employs thousands of people, attaching them to their paychecks and bringing them suffering through grind and toil.
You dont have a yatch full of gorgeous whores inside to cause attachment through jealousy, and suffering in those who look at you.
You dont have the respect and acknowledgment from your peers after publishing academic papers and meeting academic criteria to become recognized as a winner.
So, how can you compare with those whose writing influenced politicians and caused wars, death and famine to millions?
Fact is, you can't.
So you are a failure at life. And you cant judge others using these terms, unless you are a woman. A woman will never detach, unless she reborns as a man, after several incarnations trying it.