Thread 40944909

I am a disgusting degenerate porn addict and I came here for help. How can I start my spiritual journey towards healing? Porn is the only thing that brings me joy; is this who I am? Or can I change?

quit porn

>>40944909 (OP)
Stop making excuses for yourself.

-You're obese? Work out. Or at the very least stop eating slop and go on a diet.

-Go to any barbershop, tell them to make you look decent. They will give you a haircut and beard/shave that will fit your face structure.

-If you're a career channer, start going on social media and learn the basic stuff that women enjoy nowadays. You don't need to be an expert or learn everything about Kpop or whatever, but you gotta know the bare minimum just so they don't realize you've been living in a basement for the past 20 years.

And that's it. The minimum. Nothing impossible if you have just a small bit of willpower.
Do that and you will get a girlfriend. No you won't get a OF twitch whore. You will get a 3/10 or 5/10 depending of your looks. But you WILL get someone.

The concept of being loved, having sex and having someone to talk to constantly will be enough to keep your degenerate behavior in check.

>>40944909 (OP)
Become a Catholic and confess your sins regularly. Having to tell a priest you looked at porn is embarrassing and knowing you have to confess it to a priest will deter you from viewing it.

>>40944909 (OP)
Don't allow the Web to rewire your brain and make you who it wants you to be anymore. You're asking for help which is a step in the right direction. Waning yourself off of porn isn't going to be easy but it's absolutely possible with the right tools and mindset.
First you need what I call 'forced sobriety' which is something that keeps you from looking at it whether you're fiending or not. Check out ColdTurkey for your computer and BulldogBlocker for your phone/tablet. Those apps completely block websites and apps that you would use on your horny ventures and can be scheduled to your liking. But just blocking porn isn't going to fix your problem, so during that time you need to learn about Carl Jung's Shadow Work and begin a deep self reflection. Definitely take notes during your work so you can refer to them later! Also if you are or used to be religious, talk to your God; Praise his mercy and love, ask for forgiveness, and allow him to take the burden of your sins off of your shoulders. Do NOT promise him that you will change because we are all too weak with the temptation of flesh, but tell him that you will instead try your very best! God will open doors that you thought would never budge. He will make things that you truly wish for possible, but it's up to you to stay consistent.

>>40944909 (OP)
Literally just get a hobby that requires being outside to do. I skateboard, and the dopamine hit from skateboarding is better than the dopamine dump of busting.